First time possibly running into attainability issues?

[thebest]

Hey guys! ive been hitting the pavement since i got back into college this year and really been trying to get my social skills and game up.
Ive been texting a few girls that ive got numbers for both in tinder and in class, and the lines of good game are sort of "popping" into my brain.
This leads to my current problem though, ive never had to worry about seeming too offhand before simply because i didnt have the game to keep girls interested long enough to lose them over attainability... until today. Would love some opinions on how i coulda handled this better.

Starting at the first pic she sent me

Me: I call bullshit thats you

Her:What do you mean you call bs?

Me: Youre so thicc

Her: I try lol

Me: You got my interest, lets hear a bit about what you like.

Her: As in...?

Me: you like to play dont you, (list shit i like)

Her (me too)

Me: sounds amazing, even though youre inexperienced youre sexy tho, ill treat you right

Her you dont know im inexperienced

Me: I think youre a little girl whos trying to prove herself to me. Are you gonna show me otherwise?

Her: I dont have to prove anything to anybody lol but you can think whatever you like

Me: Sure so when are we gonna meet?

Her: you make me so frustrated. im not free till two weekends from now

Me: yeah, if youre gonna wait that long i wanna see some more pics of you.

Her: idk if you deserve them

after this it went off the rails, i was definitely too rude to her because i wanted some damn nudes. Im wondering if it was already over by then though? i dont have a lot of experience with how far i can push women and piss them off before they auto reject. Any and all opinions appreciated

 

[Big Daddy]

Dude, I feel like I'm reading my texts here. I used to this for the longest while with little results to show for it. This has nothing to do with attainability, it's just plain horrible text game.

Me: I call bullshit thats you

Her:What do you mean you call bs?

Me: Damn you're sexy

Then you just stop there. There are a million ways to say this in real life, but only a few over text with the right tone. Just save it for the date. She might have been bullshitting you about the two weeks until date because you were weird. First find out if she wants to go out on a date asap, if she can't then feel free to machine gun her texts asking for nudes.

If you don't you will lose many more dates than you should.

Also, from experience I you probably think you're being "aggressive and sexy" but guess what, 1 in 3 guys in your college are texting like that (the other 2 are nice guys). Just do whatever the fuck you need to get her out theeen you can run your sexual game.

 

[thebest]

I feel where youre coming from. Keep it minimal, which ill try. Did you read anything about anything that helped your minimal text game... or just feel it out?

 

[Big Daddy]

As a rule of thumb, if you still didn't go out or fuck her, you want to diffuse tension asap. You may still want to communicate intent (damn you're sexy) but you change the subject right away to something she can reply to without feeling weird. I general ask a question to give her an easy way out.

We discussed a bunch about this in these two threads:

viewtopic.php?f=2&t=17131

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=17124

 

[thebest]

cool, im home sick from classes today so ill give those a read. thanks bro

 

[lostnumber]

Big daddy sums up my thoughts as well here, this has nothing to do with attainability and everything to do with bad text game.

Thats OK though, you are doing the right thing by coming here and asking questions!

I'd encourage you to read those threads and then if you have more questions ask.

Chase also has some excellent articles on texting on the website, although they are much more geared towards texting girls you meet via cold approach.

 

[Sandman]

I stopped complimenting girls' look online all together. Doesn't do anything but validate them. Online game has one purpose and one purpose only: get her to meet up with you. I use a few witty banters then ask her out asap.