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First time talking to a girl. Help me

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Space Monkey
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Today I was on vacation and I went to the pool. There was a beautiful blonde girl with a swimsuit sitting down so I go in the water and start swimming. She gets in the water and I thought it was too awkward not to talk to her so I blurt out if she was a swimmer. She tells me she doesn't speak english and starts swimming towards me.

We start trying to communicate with each other talking random non coherent words but shes smiling and laughing and we talk standing 2 feet away from each other. I told her through body language that I liked her eyes. She was russian. Anyways so I'm getting really nervous and the water is cold so I start shaking.

Sometimes she would get even closer to my face but since I was uncomfortable I would grab my shorts with my hand and she'd notice everytime but she didn't do anything hahaha. She swam away from me twice cus I would get uncomfortable and dip my head underwater cus I couldn't take the pressure but I would call her back and we'd talk again about nothing rly.

She swam away from me a third time because she told me she liked to swim and I told her she didn't swim she just talked and I think I might have teased her too hard there. When I called her she says no I'm swimming jokingly but I didn't want to try any harder cus I had already done it 3 times.

I got out of the water dried up and waved her goodbye since I have a whole week and I think if I would have gone where she was it would have been too much chasing I think.

The whole time our faces were so close to each other about 1 foot apart and I knew she wanted me to kiss her and have sex with her but I was so fucking nervous and the water is so damn cold my body and teeth were shaking.

Interaction took about 30-40 minutes.

What should I do tmw?
 

Frost

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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First of all, whenever she's responding well, keep moving forward. When she starts to resist a little, take a step back and lower your pace. You were close to each other so you should have used touch. If she was giving you a window and you missed it, I don't think she will give you another one again, but we don't know that so keep assuming attraction. Next time you see her start talking to her, touch, move her someplace else and escalate.
 

Hector Papi Castillo

Tribal Elder
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Bruh, this is all sorts of yes. Like, yes yes yes. You should be smiling about this interaction. There's something intangible that you've got and women are attracted to it.

Learn to approach and escalate, and you'll be soaring soon enough.

Hector
 
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