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lux7

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Her face lit up when I said hi. She confessed early on she was “hoping I would talk to her” and after 1 minute she asked me “what are you doing now”. She will later reply “yes I love that” to the invite of watching a movie at my place.

Young unfettered girls… God, wouldn’t you wish everyone would keep the same honesty as we grow older :).

FIRST "DATE"
The first day we sat down and talked probably 15 minutes. She warmly invited me to hit her up the day after “if I’m not doing anything”, which I did… After re-checking the local minimum age for sex. JFYI, It was legal :).

SECOND DATE
The second day, sitting on a bench in a park, we spoke longer.
Her English was fantastic, she was very talkative, making a visible effort, but also with good execution, to connect, feed the conversation and not break the connection (she never said “no” about something she didn’t know but rather “this I don’t remember, but.. “ and re-connected back).
Surprisingly given the age, we actually connected well.

She dances dancehall and posts the videos on FB, which gives her 3.000 plus “followers”. That, and 2 big boobs and a nice booty (looks hot today but given the young age I'd consider it at high risk of getting too chubby in time).

I give her a quick kiss on the lips, but no make out. She gets a bit nervous saying “I feel a bit weird”, but regains her composure and soon corrects herself: something like “actually it’s ok”.

ICE CREAM/HOME
From the bench I invited her for an ice cream and then to watch an episode of Family Guy, a series we both loved.
She jumped on it happily.

We sit on the side of the bed, with the laptop on my lap. Internet doesn’t work, so I just turn around and kiss her (I make a witty remark before the “move” like “well… What can we do now”, which actually sounded pretty amazing and she would later use it again herself).
I keep trying again to disconnect/connect the wifi and repeat the same move as the first time, for about 3-4 times, after which I move from kissing to laying her on the bed.

Everything move quickly: I kiss her nipple, move the bra and dress suspenders to the side, I take her hand to put it on my dick and here she says “you know how old I am”.

VIRGINITY/AGE ISSUE
It’s not just her age, but also her behavior a bit which makes me ask the question. I’m a bit surprised when she says that yes, she’s virgin.

That douses the flames quite a bit as I mull over whether or not I should proceed.

She asks my age and I am very straightforward about it (early 30s). If I don’t like lying in general, right now it’s all the more important: she should decide rationally as well, and she should have all the correct information. She is very surprised as she thought I was younger.

That douses the flames a bit more.

In the meanwhile I think about it and fuck it, why shouldn’t I go for it: it will probably happen to her anyway soon with someone who’s a much bigger douchebag than I am. And what are the chances he’s half as cool as I am? Leading question to my own mind: “very low”, comes spontaneously the answer :).
I decide to progress, but more via talking and less physically and to first get a clear buy in from her.

FORGE AHEAD
Right after the virgin and age topic the escalation, which was sailing quickly, gets much more difficult: while before she was about to remove the top, now she doesn’t want anymore and doesn’t want my hand on her crotch.

So we hug and it begins a long drawn out session of kissing, petting and talking and laughing (a lots of rational reasons to proceed from my side, some “go with the flow” BS and “we’ll take it very slow and we can stop at any time”).
I get her to admit she’s horny. Several times.
I move on top of her a couple of times and dry hum: she's so into it.
After me prodding again to remove the panties, she confesses she can't she wouldn't be able to control herself anymore. That’s what I recognize as a crystal clear physical buy in, stated verbally.
Still not gonna push hard though.

LAST MOVE
The last part is her standing up, on the side of the bed, and saying she wanted to catch the early bus. But keeps standing there (not that I believed she was actually gonna leave, she had already done it before and came back after 2 seconds).
I tell her to take her panties off, come back to the bed and then we’ll decide. She says she’s so crazy she’s actually considering it.
This goes on for maybe 2 minutes, she just standing there, her mind racing.
I think it’s more likely she’ll consent than leave, but we can't keep hanging for ever: I get on my knees on the bed, take her hand, pull her closer, then take both her hands, tell her again slow and seductively I want to make her and both of us happy and I’ll take care of her. And I remove the panties myself, without any resistance (she’s wearing a dress so we don’t see the actual thing ).
Was a top move actually, though at that point probably most anything would have flown.

It's a very tense moment for her, but she's now fully bought in and everything goes without a hitch: I take her back to bed and proceed, slowly.

I could come, but I don’t: in a way it would feel like it’s more about me if I come while I wanna make it more about her.
And she loved it: both in the act and after. She was super happy she had done it, she was all giggly and she “didn’t even know why she said no in the first place”.
Her shoes broke on the way back so she has to walk barefoot and it’s all a joke about “the day of the first times”.
She misses her last bus, and I give her 20 for the taxi.

All the best to this gir… To this woman :).
 

ray_zorse

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Re: LR – First virgin. To bang or not to bang?

Well done sir. Although it was a near thing. Hopefully next time you'll just smash it without a second thought. Obviously you were quite chivalrous in the moment but I think if she got on the bus leaving you nursing blue balls you would definitely have second thoughts, haha. It's good to be considerate but one must be careful not to caretake her emotions and ascribe feelings to her that aren't there!
Ray
 
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lux7

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Re: LR – First virgin. To bang or not to bang?

You mean Ray that I was having too many reservations and going for it should have been a no brainer?
 

ray_zorse

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Re: LR – First virgin. To bang or not to bang?

Yes, exactly, it's a question of frame as I see it -- once you've internalized that you're an attractive, sexy, dominant guy, a considerate and skilled lover, i.e. the kind of guy every girl would want to lose her virginity to... then it all just falls into place I'd say (not that I've actually banged a virgin, I thought my current GF was a virgin and tackled it as such, but later it turned out that she did have one previous BF, at least so she says). According to the script you were thinking, for her first time she'd like to have it with a BF or someone attainable, but really we cannot assume this, can we? That's just caretaking and ascribing feelings to her that might not really exist. She might prefer her first sex to be with a dude she doesn't care about... or she might not've been a virgin in the first place (I would recommend not to ask the question in future btw, since girls are major liars and it might set the frame you want to be with a virgin, especially if she's of a manipulative bent)... who the hell knows really? Best just to worry about yourself and destroy that snatch, the only thing that really matters is whether she'll accept your dick. As one final note, if you know you're only looking for casual sex and you feel this is unfair on her as a virgin, bear in mind that she can always work really hard to retain you, and she might just succeed -- that's pretty much what's happened with my GF. I had much the same idea as you and tackled it in a similar way (is she 100% sure), but I regretted this when it looked like I might not get her as a result. So next time I'll just be taking it in my stride and giving her the dick she needs. ;)
Ray
 

lux7

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Re: LR – First virgin. To bang or not to bang?

Hey Ray, lol, thanks, that's a good point of view, I was almost afraid of getting a lot flack for "taking advantage" of a very young girl :)
 
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