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What's up brejerans,
With the university year finished and summer finally arriving I'm eager to have gone back out and begin once again to get better with these girls haha.
This past weekend my sister invited me to her friend's birthday party outing. It's an older crowd (they're about late 20s-early 30s) and I'm 22 but it didn't really seem to matter all that much. After a long day of working on set for a short movie I decided I wanted to go out, drink and have a good time. Safe to say I didn't have high expecations for the night. The bar/club we went to was a pretty fricking poppin time though, and we rolled as a mixed group of people. I quickly hit the dance floor and met up with some of my friends that I had told to meet me there. There's a very small elevated "stage" at this place and it was pretty empty so me and my boys kind of just started doing our own thing and danced it up. We love to dance so it's something that we usually end up doing no matter where we go, and before long I started breakdancing/doing flips on the stage and people started noticing/looking over. I noticed a group of girls from my peripheral vision looking over and a few minutes later my buddy and I kinda walked over there and engaged them with some "dance floor game"and I quickly grab this slender dirty blonde chick with a blessed BOOT-AY. We end up dancing up on each other hard, and she seems really into it with the way she was pushing up on me. Good lord she was bloody fit. When I got close for a kiss she didn't really object (we got pretty up close and face to face too for a few seconds) but quickly said "I'm going to get a drink", so I proposed that we both go get one. I took her by the hand and lead her there. This is how our convo by the bar went:
Girl: "So where did you learn to dance like that?"
Me: "It just kinda comes to me you could say" * I flash a grin* "Where did YOU learn to move it like that?"
Girl: "I guess it just comes to me too haha."
Me: So what's your name?"
Girl:"D. And you?"
Me: "H. But you can call me Taco."
*Girl laughs*
Me: "So you out for somebody's birthday?"
Girl: " No, just having a girl's night out!"
I also find out she lived in Argentina for 3 months and asked her if she speaks spanish (I started speaking to her in spanish and she replied that she only spoke a little). She also found out that i'm a native french speaker because I grew up in Montreal(french speaking city in Canada) and she understood and spoke some french because she went to an immersion school. So we had a little exchange in French as well.
We then start chit chatting and I find out where she goes to school for college etc. And I find out she's a varsity athlete.
Me:" What sport do you play?"
Her: "Guess."
I name off a bunch of shit , get it all wrong. She ends up just telling me she's a swimmer. (Which explains that blessed behind.)
At the bar I get us two shots of rum. To be honest I shouldn't have had any more to drink at that point since my stomach wasn't really feeling all that good because of some nasty ass beer I had at the predrink. But smart me decides to be a big man and get something strong. We both take the shot and I dont even finish it. She gives me a look and I just suck it up and gulp the rest. My stomach was TURNING at this point. She grabs me by the hand and says " Let's go find my friends". I stop halfway and tell her I'll be right back. I RUN all the way back to the washroom and the second I got in the stall I puked twice. Once I got it out of my system, i was good to go though, I just needed to get it out i guess. I end up finding her again like 10 minutes later and we start dancing a little bit and I notice she kinda tries to make me dance with some of her friends as well. They were cute as well but I wanted her so I kind kept trying to get at her mostly. At point I feel like I'm being a little too all over her and they all go for a drink at the bar. I end up getting her number and she tells me that she might not realize I texted her because her phone is on silent. I tell her its cool and I'll see her in a bit. I kind of avoid seeing her the rest of the night because she just didn't seem to be as interested compared to right before I left to go vomit. Even when we kinda danced a bit more it wasnt really the same. If i had to put my finger on it I'm guessing I missed an escalation window?
I texted her the next day in french (to try to be cute I guess haha) asking her how my favorite dance partner was doing, and capped off with my name at the end. Pretty much the format that Chase indicates to use when sending an initial text. Now She hasn't replied. And i'm a little bit stuck on what to do. I don't know if I should try texting her once more or to just move on. I would like to think i'm being persistent if I did but I dont know if I should. I read the Chasing vs Persistance article but Im not quite sure how It would fare in this scenario.
Any thoughts on the interactions would also be greatly appreciated. What did you think I did well? What did you think I did wrong? What should I try to improve/work on?
Respect,
Taco
With the university year finished and summer finally arriving I'm eager to have gone back out and begin once again to get better with these girls haha.
This past weekend my sister invited me to her friend's birthday party outing. It's an older crowd (they're about late 20s-early 30s) and I'm 22 but it didn't really seem to matter all that much. After a long day of working on set for a short movie I decided I wanted to go out, drink and have a good time. Safe to say I didn't have high expecations for the night. The bar/club we went to was a pretty fricking poppin time though, and we rolled as a mixed group of people. I quickly hit the dance floor and met up with some of my friends that I had told to meet me there. There's a very small elevated "stage" at this place and it was pretty empty so me and my boys kind of just started doing our own thing and danced it up. We love to dance so it's something that we usually end up doing no matter where we go, and before long I started breakdancing/doing flips on the stage and people started noticing/looking over. I noticed a group of girls from my peripheral vision looking over and a few minutes later my buddy and I kinda walked over there and engaged them with some "dance floor game"and I quickly grab this slender dirty blonde chick with a blessed BOOT-AY. We end up dancing up on each other hard, and she seems really into it with the way she was pushing up on me. Good lord she was bloody fit. When I got close for a kiss she didn't really object (we got pretty up close and face to face too for a few seconds) but quickly said "I'm going to get a drink", so I proposed that we both go get one. I took her by the hand and lead her there. This is how our convo by the bar went:
Girl: "So where did you learn to dance like that?"
Me: "It just kinda comes to me you could say" * I flash a grin* "Where did YOU learn to move it like that?"
Girl: "I guess it just comes to me too haha."
Me: So what's your name?"
Girl:"D. And you?"
Me: "H. But you can call me Taco."
*Girl laughs*
Me: "So you out for somebody's birthday?"
Girl: " No, just having a girl's night out!"
I also find out she lived in Argentina for 3 months and asked her if she speaks spanish (I started speaking to her in spanish and she replied that she only spoke a little). She also found out that i'm a native french speaker because I grew up in Montreal(french speaking city in Canada) and she understood and spoke some french because she went to an immersion school. So we had a little exchange in French as well.
We then start chit chatting and I find out where she goes to school for college etc. And I find out she's a varsity athlete.
Me:" What sport do you play?"
Her: "Guess."
I name off a bunch of shit , get it all wrong. She ends up just telling me she's a swimmer. (Which explains that blessed behind.)
At the bar I get us two shots of rum. To be honest I shouldn't have had any more to drink at that point since my stomach wasn't really feeling all that good because of some nasty ass beer I had at the predrink. But smart me decides to be a big man and get something strong. We both take the shot and I dont even finish it. She gives me a look and I just suck it up and gulp the rest. My stomach was TURNING at this point. She grabs me by the hand and says " Let's go find my friends". I stop halfway and tell her I'll be right back. I RUN all the way back to the washroom and the second I got in the stall I puked twice. Once I got it out of my system, i was good to go though, I just needed to get it out i guess. I end up finding her again like 10 minutes later and we start dancing a little bit and I notice she kinda tries to make me dance with some of her friends as well. They were cute as well but I wanted her so I kind kept trying to get at her mostly. At point I feel like I'm being a little too all over her and they all go for a drink at the bar. I end up getting her number and she tells me that she might not realize I texted her because her phone is on silent. I tell her its cool and I'll see her in a bit. I kind of avoid seeing her the rest of the night because she just didn't seem to be as interested compared to right before I left to go vomit. Even when we kinda danced a bit more it wasnt really the same. If i had to put my finger on it I'm guessing I missed an escalation window?
I texted her the next day in french (to try to be cute I guess haha) asking her how my favorite dance partner was doing, and capped off with my name at the end. Pretty much the format that Chase indicates to use when sending an initial text. Now She hasn't replied. And i'm a little bit stuck on what to do. I don't know if I should try texting her once more or to just move on. I would like to think i'm being persistent if I did but I dont know if I should. I read the Chasing vs Persistance article but Im not quite sure how It would fare in this scenario.
Any thoughts on the interactions would also be greatly appreciated. What did you think I did well? What did you think I did wrong? What should I try to improve/work on?
Respect,
Taco
