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UPDATE on Tall Blonde Weed Girl. A girl that recently flaked on me.
She texted me at around 3AM last night but I didn't see the messages until this morning. Here is how the texting went.
Her: I got kicked out that night and didn't have a phone 3:15AM
Her: But tn I seen your best friend 3:15AM (very random that she texted me this late and the above text was just an excuse. She could of texted me the next when she had her phone and told me that)
Me: Huh? What do you mean? 12:01PM(I wasn't ready to engage much with her, but I didn't really understand what she was saying)
Her: Anthony ***** I was with him last night 12:01PM
Me: on nice lol... where at? 12:09PM
Her: Yeah I didn't even know him until last night at my friends birthday 12:10PM
Her: but yeah he's like your Ashley I know you. He's like you know Rdawg 12:10PM
Her: I'm like year I was with him last week. He's like that's my bestfriend 12:10PM
Her: then we bonded 12:10PM
Me: lol nice. sounds like it was a fun night
12:19PM
Her: Yeah, i'm sorry about the other day 12:20PM
Her: just went at it with my mother 12:20PM
Me: Oh okay, I ended up going out with some friends anyway 12:27PM
Her: Okay good, yeah my mom locked me out the house and my phone was in my room 12:27PM
Her: it was a great night 12:28PM
Me: ahh ya that sucks.. 1:08PM
Her: Yeah i'm sorry i sick on bailing 1:08PM
Me: lol we could always do another night 1:42PM
Anyways, the breakdown here is that she went to a party last night, my best friend was there and saw her and talked to her. He brought me up then they talked about me a bit. I met with bestfriend today and she told him that "Your best friend kept trying to have sex with me". This is true, I was being persistent but I should of something verbally as to why she didn't want to have sex with me. I guess she also said something along the lines that "she is not that type of girl" to my bestfriend. That is almost bullshit though. Anyways, she ended up adding my bestfriend on facebook, giving her number to him and saying how she like him a lot. Weird but shows the type of girl she is. I think the next step for me is try and schedule something with her in a few days or see if she responds back to my last text.
So the questions here is? Why did she text me back ? I'm assuming it's because she saw my bestfriend and they talked about me. Plus, she was probably a little tipsy or drunk when she messaged me. Wondering what the psychology is behind something like this? And how to handle this situation in the future?
She texted me at around 3AM last night but I didn't see the messages until this morning. Here is how the texting went.
Her: I got kicked out that night and didn't have a phone 3:15AM
Her: But tn I seen your best friend 3:15AM (very random that she texted me this late and the above text was just an excuse. She could of texted me the next when she had her phone and told me that)
Me: Huh? What do you mean? 12:01PM(I wasn't ready to engage much with her, but I didn't really understand what she was saying)
Her: Anthony ***** I was with him last night 12:01PM
Me: on nice lol... where at? 12:09PM
Her: Yeah I didn't even know him until last night at my friends birthday 12:10PM
Her: but yeah he's like your Ashley I know you. He's like you know Rdawg 12:10PM
Her: I'm like year I was with him last week. He's like that's my bestfriend 12:10PM
Her: then we bonded 12:10PM
Me: lol nice. sounds like it was a fun night
12:19PMHer: Yeah, i'm sorry about the other day 12:20PM
Her: just went at it with my mother 12:20PM
Me: Oh okay, I ended up going out with some friends anyway
12:27PMHer: Okay good, yeah my mom locked me out the house and my phone was in my room 12:27PM
Her: it was a great night 12:28PM
Me: ahh ya that sucks.. 1:08PM
Her: Yeah i'm sorry i sick on bailing 1:08PM
Me: lol we could always do another night 1:42PM
Anyways, the breakdown here is that she went to a party last night, my best friend was there and saw her and talked to her. He brought me up then they talked about me a bit. I met with bestfriend today and she told him that "Your best friend kept trying to have sex with me". This is true, I was being persistent but I should of something verbally as to why she didn't want to have sex with me. I guess she also said something along the lines that "she is not that type of girl" to my bestfriend. That is almost bullshit though. Anyways, she ended up adding my bestfriend on facebook, giving her number to him and saying how she like him a lot. Weird but shows the type of girl she is. I think the next step for me is try and schedule something with her in a few days or see if she responds back to my last text.
So the questions here is? Why did she text me back ? I'm assuming it's because she saw my bestfriend and they talked about me. Plus, she was probably a little tipsy or drunk when she messaged me. Wondering what the psychology is behind something like this? And how to handle this situation in the future?
