Flaking number 4

[Whizzy]

Hey guys,

Lately I've been talking to this girl and she has managed to flake at least 4 times now, I haven't really kept track because who would. She just sent me a text about our hangout tonight:

Me: Hey Aly =P still on for hanging out tonight?
Her (2 hours later): I dont know man i gotta think about this cuz I might be going home tonight and I dont know if something serious might be going on, idk.

I would either say "no big deal, let's catch up later" or something along the lines of "I'm a pretty good excuse for serious fun! But really lets not let a chance this like slip away from us"

Assuming that she does flake, I am considering hard nexting her for a bit because i dont want to become one of her orbiters

 

[Franco]

Whizzy,

Quick question: did you already arrange logistics for the date? Does she know what she's doing with you? (i.e. coffee/yogurt/ice cream, etc).

If she doesn't know what she's doing with you, she'll be much more likely to flake. Although I don't usually give a girl up to 4 opportunities to flake on me... usually 2 is enough.

- Franco

 

[Whizzy]

Hey Franco,

The logistics were all set to go each time and she is the one that keeps mentioning wanting to reschedule which is why I've given her this many chances so far. Tonight we were supposed to grab coffee then a movie when she sent me that text message so nothing over the top either.

 

[Franco]

Sounds like it's time to drop off the radar then. Your best hope here is for her to wonder why you stopped asking her out and then suddenly hit you up to ask you out.

In the meantime... new girls. But you know that already. =)

- Franco

 

[Whizzy]

Already remade plans for the night

 

[Whizzy]

She keeps reasking me out then flaking is the problem I think, knowing her I'll probably get a text tomorrow saying sorry for yesterday or the like to which I already know to ignore.

 

[Whizzy]

Whizzy,

If she does end up sending you a text, asking to reschedule. Since she's already flaked so many times. You should put the ball in her court and then Next her

https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=4142#p18593

All the best!


-Casanova

Thanks Casanova, not sure why i was so worried in the first place