Flaking & Pump faking (should I be more persitant?)

[brandoan95]

What's up gents,
Finally had some free time and decided too put up a post about a new issue I've been dealing with recently. So when I approach at school,work,etc, I can get good responses. The girl will give me her # and respond to my icebreaker. However, after a few days she doesnt reply lol like wtf? This has happened alot over the last couple weeks.
E.g.- (girl named Lauren. I met her at work after approaching her and calling her over. We talked and we had a really good convo. Unlike the others when I offered a date she initiated saying I should get her #). Here's the text convo:
Me: Hey Lauren, it's brandon save my #
Her: hey cutie
We talk a bit and she told me she got the job at cotton on in the mall I work at. She says I should visit her at work in which I do but she's at training so we don't talk much.
Me: Hey! How was your first day?
Her: hey! It was good,etc
Me:I can't tell, you looked super happy
Her: haha I'm sure
Then I hit her up yesterday , 3 days after meeting up asking if we're still down to hangout this friday. Still haven't gotten a response.

Then there was this other girl named daija that i also met at work who came with her friend. We were talking having a good conversation but I focused on her friend. I thhen slowly shifted my attention to her. I can tell she likes me so I push for the date. She agrees and I tell her I'll text her about the meetup.
Later that day I send an icebreaker and she replys.
I wait like 2 days then ask about the meetup, yet I get no reply. I see her at my job the week after and just laugh to myself.
Am I not building enough comfort at the initial meeting?
Should I give a definitive dare during the meeting? Should I push for the meetup quicker, say a day or two after instead of 3 or 4 days?
Should I text them more? ( I know chase and others say text specifically for logistics; it'seems worked in the past with a couple girls while with the majority not so much.)
Let me know what I'm doing wrong so I can fix it b/c I can approach and get #'s consistently now I just can't get dates anymore when last month I got 3 dates.

Sidenote: if a girl doesn't reply to your meet up should you try again in a week or so? Also how do you know the difference in flakiness?
Example: a girl replied to my icebreaker saying high, I push for the meet she says she'll let me know. Should I try again next week?
Then another example is with the girls above. Should I still text her again later in the week even if she didn't respond at all?

 

[MichaelGScott]

You should be setting up the logistics for a date the same day you get their number. The date doesn't have to be on that day, but at least set up the place/time then. If you don't set up logistics in person, send about two texts and then set up the date.

Two texts, then
You: We should grab drinks, what's your schedule like this week?

If a girl doesn't reply at all to a date request or follow up or whatever, assume lost interest. If she flakes, or has an excuse BUT RESCHEDULES ON HER OWN, then persist. Girls are either going to meet up with you, or flake and try to reschedule on their own.