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This is kind of an ongoing thing, but I figured I'd throw this up on the boards because she still seems fairly interested and I still seem fairly interested. I have problems with waiting to sleep with women, as every time I've done it in the past they've gone off and slept with another man, so I'd like to sleep with this girl asap.
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This girl I've kind of sort of knew became single. I got her number (easy) but waited 2 weeks before I sent an icebreaker text. As soon as I sent it she was very warm and suggested that we go out to eat. I said sure, but problem was we did it on her terms. She was cold at first, but I remained steady and she opened up. Interaction wasn't sexual at all.
Did dinner once more and studied together with similar results. Just warmth between us, nothing sexual. So I decided to ramp things up.
Flirty Asian
Today we went on a field trip of sorts for one of my classes. Some people drove, and I went in a van driven by the teacher. Flirty Asian didn't get into the van because it was full, and instead went with a friend of mine. When we got to the place my friend suggested I ride in his van, which I wanted so I switched vehicles. She employs push-pull all the time with me, so it's not like I wasn't expecting the following,
Her: Noo, he can't ride with us!
Me: Too bad that's not your decision (said with a slight smile)
Her: (smiles at me) Ohh okay fine, but I get the back seat!
I generally crack a lot of jokes on these trips, which seemed to have caught her interest in me initially. Usually they're of the platonic sort, but this time I decided to up the level of my joking about to include a lot of sexual references. Examples,
Friend: Yeah, my sister blew the subs out of my van,
Me: Damn, your sister is always blowing things
(she starting talking about how her old boyfriend was too big of a factor in her old life and was controlling once we started talking about being single)
Her: Yeah my boyfriend always tied me down and ruled my life.
Me: Sounds hot, do you like getting tied down?
Her: (smiles at me) No, but now I know how to make a good knot
Me: You mean you can untie the knots
Her: (smiling) Yeah
So generally feel like I did a good job with that, and it might have paid off. Throughout the trip when I'd make a harsh joke her way she'd push my head forward then play with my hair afterwards, and vice versa if she did the same thing. I like a girl who knows how to push-pull.
Another interesting thing to note is that she was actively disqualifying me as a boyfriend. I took the contrary stance on marriage, saying it was nice, while showing qualities unlike a boyfriend, leading her to say this,
(we're talking about directions, she's from the town and I'm not, plus I didn't listen to the directions anyways)
Me: Oh yeah we definitely go that way (me joking about knowing which way we're going because I have no clue)
Her: Remind me to never marry you
Me: Done,
Her: I can't marry a guy who has no sense of navigation
Success!
After the trip we went our separate ways. My plan was to workout, then text her to get dinner that night since I'd be leaving town in a couple days for the holiday.
Apparently I texted her a tad too late, because when I asked her to grab something to eat with me she said she was eating right then. No harm no foul on my part, I'm just glad I tried and had, for the first time, made the logistics ready to lead to the bedroom if we were both feeling it.
Bad thing is that I'm busy tomorrow night, then leave Wednesday morning, so I won't be able see her until Monday. I already feel like this is stretching on wayyyyyy too long without sleeping with her (3 weeks since the icebreaker), and I keep thinking my time is up, but her actions indicate otherwise, unless she is just flirting to keep me as an option.
Guess I'll try and get her to occupy less headspace or relegate her to friend territory, but damn do I want to pound that pussy. Probably will only happen if I can set up an easy date and get the mood right.
Pre-Report
This girl I've kind of sort of knew became single. I got her number (easy) but waited 2 weeks before I sent an icebreaker text. As soon as I sent it she was very warm and suggested that we go out to eat. I said sure, but problem was we did it on her terms. She was cold at first, but I remained steady and she opened up. Interaction wasn't sexual at all.
Did dinner once more and studied together with similar results. Just warmth between us, nothing sexual. So I decided to ramp things up.
Flirty Asian
Today we went on a field trip of sorts for one of my classes. Some people drove, and I went in a van driven by the teacher. Flirty Asian didn't get into the van because it was full, and instead went with a friend of mine. When we got to the place my friend suggested I ride in his van, which I wanted so I switched vehicles. She employs push-pull all the time with me, so it's not like I wasn't expecting the following,
Her: Noo, he can't ride with us!
Me: Too bad that's not your decision (said with a slight smile)
Her: (smiles at me) Ohh okay fine, but I get the back seat!
I generally crack a lot of jokes on these trips, which seemed to have caught her interest in me initially. Usually they're of the platonic sort, but this time I decided to up the level of my joking about to include a lot of sexual references. Examples,
Friend: Yeah, my sister blew the subs out of my van,
Me: Damn, your sister is always blowing things
(she starting talking about how her old boyfriend was too big of a factor in her old life and was controlling once we started talking about being single)
Her: Yeah my boyfriend always tied me down and ruled my life.
Me: Sounds hot, do you like getting tied down?
Her: (smiles at me) No, but now I know how to make a good knot
Me: You mean you can untie the knots
Her: (smiling) Yeah
So generally feel like I did a good job with that, and it might have paid off. Throughout the trip when I'd make a harsh joke her way she'd push my head forward then play with my hair afterwards, and vice versa if she did the same thing. I like a girl who knows how to push-pull.
Another interesting thing to note is that she was actively disqualifying me as a boyfriend. I took the contrary stance on marriage, saying it was nice, while showing qualities unlike a boyfriend, leading her to say this,
(we're talking about directions, she's from the town and I'm not, plus I didn't listen to the directions anyways)
Me: Oh yeah we definitely go that way (me joking about knowing which way we're going because I have no clue)
Her: Remind me to never marry you
Me: Done,
Her: I can't marry a guy who has no sense of navigation
Success!
After the trip we went our separate ways. My plan was to workout, then text her to get dinner that night since I'd be leaving town in a couple days for the holiday.
Apparently I texted her a tad too late, because when I asked her to grab something to eat with me she said she was eating right then. No harm no foul on my part, I'm just glad I tried and had, for the first time, made the logistics ready to lead to the bedroom if we were both feeling it.
Bad thing is that I'm busy tomorrow night, then leave Wednesday morning, so I won't be able see her until Monday. I already feel like this is stretching on wayyyyyy too long without sleeping with her (3 weeks since the icebreaker), and I keep thinking my time is up, but her actions indicate otherwise, unless she is just flirting to keep me as an option.
Guess I'll try and get her to occupy less headspace or relegate her to friend territory, but damn do I want to pound that pussy. Probably will only happen if I can set up an easy date and get the mood right.
