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Yo dudes!
What I noticed when I started getting serious with this was there was soooo many things to focus on. Should I fix my fundamentals? How do I approach? What if she says she has a boyfriend? How do I deal with rejection? What do I do if it's Tuesday afternoon at 2:45pm, the sun is in my eyes and she's with two girls and a guy, etc etc.
I definitely got information overload. If you're on this site, there's gonna be a ton of useful information on the main site that you'll probably be excited to read about. I suggest you focus on one.
You can only focus on so much at a time. If you're new, to be honest fundamentals and approaching should be the only things you're worried about. I still make this mistake from time to time as well. I'll go out for night game on Thursday, have this huge list of things I could be doing the next day, and end up forgetting half of them even if I write it down. So I paired it down to three or four things, sometimes two if I need to and it's a repeated issue.
This will cut off a lot of your learning curve focusing on single aspects then things that you know you aren't gonna deal with that second.
Hope this helps!
Jake.
What I noticed when I started getting serious with this was there was soooo many things to focus on. Should I fix my fundamentals? How do I approach? What if she says she has a boyfriend? How do I deal with rejection? What do I do if it's Tuesday afternoon at 2:45pm, the sun is in my eyes and she's with two girls and a guy, etc etc.
I definitely got information overload. If you're on this site, there's gonna be a ton of useful information on the main site that you'll probably be excited to read about. I suggest you focus on one.
You can only focus on so much at a time. If you're new, to be honest fundamentals and approaching should be the only things you're worried about. I still make this mistake from time to time as well. I'll go out for night game on Thursday, have this huge list of things I could be doing the next day, and end up forgetting half of them even if I write it down. So I paired it down to three or four things, sometimes two if I need to and it's a repeated issue.
This will cut off a lot of your learning curve focusing on single aspects then things that you know you aren't gonna deal with that second.
Hope this helps!
Jake.
