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So I approached this girl with a strong sexual vibe. She was on the phone and I basically told her to hang up, and she did. Grabbed the number and set up a date.
We meet, and according to Hector, her voice and tonality is super sexual. I need to relisten to this audio to better get a read of what that sounds like so I can recognize it in the moment. Because in that moment, I was focused mainly on physical cues, and her body language wasn't super into me or anything. She would initiate touch and stuff, but I didn't think too much of it.
She was initially a little bit hesitant, but that dropped quickly, and we had solid conversation-lots of stuff about traveling and the good emotions there. Also went into various discretion based and ASD sex talk. She was comfortable with it, which is another sign of compliance.
After the first venue, I moved us to another venue. On the walk over, she links her arm with mine. Hector suggested, based on listening to a sample of audio, and this information, that I should have just gone for the pull after the first venue.
Regardless, I walk us to the second venue, and we have more conversation. Hector listened to the audio and told me that she was even more interested by this point, so I was doing well in that regard.
At the end of the second venue, she says she has an early morning, so she's going to go home. I let her go, and we part.
I text her the next day and tell her I had fun, and it actually takes about a week before we're able to have date 2.
We meet at a rooftop, and have a conversation for about an hour before I pull back home. The conversation isn't super good, but I am a bit more touchy.
At mine, we start making out and there's no LMR.
I'm wondering a bit about the two date strategy with a multi-venue date 1, and a single venue date 2. From talking with Hector, I'm going to focus on first date lays, but just something to consider later on.
We meet, and according to Hector, her voice and tonality is super sexual. I need to relisten to this audio to better get a read of what that sounds like so I can recognize it in the moment. Because in that moment, I was focused mainly on physical cues, and her body language wasn't super into me or anything. She would initiate touch and stuff, but I didn't think too much of it.
She was initially a little bit hesitant, but that dropped quickly, and we had solid conversation-lots of stuff about traveling and the good emotions there. Also went into various discretion based and ASD sex talk. She was comfortable with it, which is another sign of compliance.
After the first venue, I moved us to another venue. On the walk over, she links her arm with mine. Hector suggested, based on listening to a sample of audio, and this information, that I should have just gone for the pull after the first venue.
Regardless, I walk us to the second venue, and we have more conversation. Hector listened to the audio and told me that she was even more interested by this point, so I was doing well in that regard.
At the end of the second venue, she says she has an early morning, so she's going to go home. I let her go, and we part.
I text her the next day and tell her I had fun, and it actually takes about a week before we're able to have date 2.
We meet at a rooftop, and have a conversation for about an hour before I pull back home. The conversation isn't super good, but I am a bit more touchy.
At mine, we start making out and there's no LMR.
I'm wondering a bit about the two date strategy with a multi-venue date 1, and a single venue date 2. From talking with Hector, I'm going to focus on first date lays, but just something to consider later on.
