FR FR 11.8.2019 Japanese girl short approach (Yuko)

[fearlessuk]

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NOTE: I pointed some where and she looked in that direction, I then put my hand on her shoulders.

HB: confused

F: very cute, very adorable

NOTE: she looked like a Japanese and i guessed right

F: door more, ka knee chi wah

HB: yeah haha

HB: where are you from?

NOTE: the way she laughed, my gut told me she was attracted. I moved in and invade her personal space and touched her on the left arm and said (Kawaii). She didn't back away and you turned a bit shyish red

F: Kawaii

HB: ah, thank you

NOTE: kinoed her right arm again

F: hahaha

HB: where are you from?

F: I was born here, my mum and dad from HK

HB: wow

F: have you been to HK?

HB: I'm from Japan

NOTE: this was when, I kind of knew her English was broken

F; have you travelled to HK?

HB: I study English language school

F: your English is very good (kino)

HB: no

F: ichiban ichiban (thumbs up and kino right arm)

NOTE: this is very good, you are doing massive amounts of kino. It's good because she is attracted

HB: thank you haha

F: what are you doing here today?

HB: I will go back to Japan for in blah blah

F: you look like a harajuku girl

F: we can put a harajuku hat on you ( kino her head with pretend hat)

HB: yeah haha ( no backing away)

F: and harajuku clothes (kino)

HB: harajuku (confused)

F: you know harajuki

HB: harajuku yeah ( now understands) wow

F: do you have any tattoos? (kino her arm)

HB: no no no

F: why, why you don't have any tattoos

NOTE: I wrote this before in my past FR. I think why this worked so well is because some parts of the interaction, I was serious. I have done some serious statement of Intent, rather than all self amusement statement of intent. She know when I'm joking and when I'm serious. When I said you are "kawaii", I said it seriously.

F: you should get a tattoo, like a dragon

HB: do you like Harajuku

F: I saw it on TV

HB: ah

F: I don't wear it myself

HB: did you go to Tokyo

F: yes, I went to Disneyland

F: I been there before, a long time ago. I want to go again, can you take me. Tomorrow (kino)

HB: haha yeah

+2 minutes and 30 seconds, I must have kinoed more than 5 or 6 times. This obviously helps with game

HB: how old are you

F: guess

F: 37

+ I write on her hand (good kino)

HB: 41

F: but you look very young, very pretty

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NOTE: this is very good. When you tell a girl she looks young, at the end of the sentence add (very pretty). Most of the time, you will tell a a girl she looks young but the SOI at the end keeps in man to woman. You needs her to know its man to woman and you need to remind her. IMPORTANT

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HB: thank you

NOTE: I know she might not understand me but I continue gaming her and assume she might understand

F: what's the secret of being so young

HB; oh thank you

F: is it suju?

F: suju make you young, make you pretty?

HB: thank you

F: my name is Ken, whats your name?

HB: Yuko

HB: what do you do?

F: my dad has restaurants, I help him manage the restaurants

HB: wow

F; so what do you do?

HB: office worker

F: office worker, oh really. Do you work here now?

HB: in october I will internship, in Cebu Island. You know Cebu?

HB: for 6 months

F: Philippines

HB: yeah yeah

F: it sounds fun, so how long are you staying in UK for?

HB: 2 months

+ she studied in Dublin before

F: where have you been in UK? Have you been Big Ben. London Eye

HB: No I have never gone

F: why?

HB: I want to go many place, yeah

F: you should go

HB: I will leave London next Thursday

F: 4 days

HB: yeah yeah

F; why you leave London, where you go?

HB: I have to go Japan (blah blah)

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[fearlessuk]

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HB: yeah yeah

F; why you leave London, where you go?

HB: I have to go Japan (blah blah) one month

HB: after Philippians. I want to go many places

F: wow why are you so lucky

HB: haha

F: your so cute and you so lucky to go so many places

NOTE: an other good soi

HB: yeah

F: I like you nails (kino her hand)

HB: In Japan

F: so you like to do your nails, is it popular in Japan?

HB: yeah

F: really, I didn't know that, how come

F: oh harajuku (nails) is this harajuku

NOTE: I'm holding her hand for a while and there is no resistance

F: you can dress up as harajuku now

HB: haha

F: I like your style, I like the way you dress, you look very nice

HB: thank you, you are nice

F: really

HB: i like this style

NOTE: her English is so broken, I had to translate for you guys to understand

F: shall we go for a coffee right now, there is a coffee shop down there

HB; what are you going to do tomorrow?

F: tomorrow i'm busy

HB: sorry. tomorrow I have plan. Monday, Tuesday

F: i'm free

HB: oh okay

F: i'm free on Monday, we can meet up on monday

HB: yeah

+take number

F: you name is Hello Kitty

HB: haha no

F: haha whats your name, whats you name

NOTE: I like the way you go from funny to serious, very quickly. You change your funny face to a serious face in a split second. This is good because she has to know you can be serious. It also creates a push pull effect or a ON and OFF effect. Being serious means high value as well.

F: let meet in blah blah

HB: tex me okay

F: ok

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Update: I text her on the same date and she was up for it

+ The next day, i texted a reminder and she didn't reply back. THIS TELLS ME she is having second thoughts.

On the meet up date: i texted her again and ask her to confirm. I didn't hear back from her and it's 4 hours away from the meet up. I then proceed to call her and I got a good response and she confirmed the meet up. The conversation is quite good I believe, I will post it here and break it down a bit more.

She replies back 2 hours before the date at say she can not make.

HB text: I'm sorry, i can not do today. How about tomorrow?

F: no problem what time tomorrow?

HB: I can't adjust the scheudle yet, so I don't know time

F: okay I whatsapp you later on tonight

HB: okay

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+ I think it's a brush off but willing to send an other text tonight. I just have to wait and see. It's raining today, if not I will just go to sarge location even if she turns up or not. I hate bad weather, it stops me from progressing. Good weather is more important than the girl lol. Bad weather makes me needy. I guess bad weather is a good time to start working on online gaming lol. It's a shame because the IOIs were so strong.

+ I stopped sarging that day because her iois were so strong and didn't want her to bump into me, when talking to other girls. It was a waste of a day and I don't believe she really wants to meet up with me. i believe it's just an excuse. It's be much easier if she told me she didn't want to meet up

NOTE TO SELF: keep sarging

+ I'm so lucky she text me on time, if not i would have made my way to sarge location. I guess I can go always go to my girlfriends house. She is okay with me seeing other girls, we had a conversation about this. She is going back to Taiwan at the end of September and knows I'm not marriage material. We just fuck a lot

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My phone call to Yuko

Ring Ring

+ 5 rings later ( normal)

Yuko picks up

F: Hey, hey Yuko

HB: oh, sorry

F: Hey

HB: I just wake up

F: oh, you just wake up, oh shit

HB: yeah yeah sorry

F: alright, long night yeah

NOTE: Sounds a bit needy. I have a high pitch tonality. It could be because I want this to go well. I don't really call girls. This is the first time in 2 and half months i had to call a girl. Hardly any practice. I just feel not so confident over the phone I guess

F: haha

HB: haha

F: so yeah, are you okay 2 o clock or would you like to meet later or something

NOTE: my voice deepens at "would you like to meet later or something"

NOTE 2: maybe I had no one to chat to un stiffle my voice. Now it's deepened and stays deepen throughout the conversation.

HB: maybe err, where are you?

F: I'm at home at the moment. I'm just calling to see , yeah when you want to go to Blah blah place.

HB: ah okay haha sorry ( her voice sounds normal and doesn't sound like she is avoiding me.)

F: yeah, so what time you want to meet, to meet later on or um

HB: can i change to

F: yes yes okay, what time what time you want to do

HB: maybe at 3 o clock 3pm?

F: 3pm, okay, I tell you what, do you want to meet at 3.30?

HB: 3.30 ah okay

F: give you more time to sleep and you know

F: okay, see you at 3.30 then, alright

HB: er today

F: yeah, today

F: at blah blah place

HB: yeah okay

F: I see you at 3.30 bye bye

HB: bye bye see you


CONCLUSION: I don't think she wants to meet because she cancelled 2 hours later. I think she will 99 percent find an excuse to flake or not return calls or messages. The message about meeting tomorrow is she doesn't want to upset me (you know how girls are) ( I rather be upset to be honest lol, so i can move on) ( girls don't think that way because you are a stranger) ( based on past experience this is the best way for her to deal with me, no confrontation) (She doesn't know me, so I can't blame her) ( there are a lot of creepy and dangerous men out there lol)

I'm glad I went through my voice recordings to find the truth. I don't have to waste my time. I will text her back once for a meet up and if she doesn't reply, I will leave it
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