BACKGROUND
This refers to maybe 3 weeks ago.
I arrive in the late afternoon to a new city and got a online date set up.
Before the date I meet a girl sitting alone and swap numbers.
My “date” is actually beautiful: perfectly dressed, with high heels -taller than I am- and a natural beautiful face and body.
BUT she says her cousin is also here and waiting for us at the restaurant.
I'm gonna have none of that shit, so I tell her she's beautiful, but I’m here to get to know her, not her cousin, and to text me once they’re done eating and she’s by herself.
I leave and rush to the same place I left the girl I met earlier. And she’s still there.
Quick note added on my logistics:
My place is not perfect as it's smallish and I have a flamate which is also the owner of the place. The entrance is terrible as you have to go through the underground parking lot.
BUT it's terribly close to the mall, practically besides it.
1 - religious nutcase – cold feet during pull
She’s well dressed, with Gucci purse and everything well matching.
We talk a bit, but she doesn’t give me much, she also speaks very low and I have problems actually hearing her.
We walk around a bit, I go for hand in hand, she doesn’t pull back but doesn’t interlock fingers either, just leave her hand in mine.
I make fun of her for that.
I’m in a muslim majority country, but she’s in a Christian university where, she says, it’s forbidden to have boyfriends :S.
Her phone background image is of a Madonna -not the singer-.
After a walk we sit again and I invite her to my place to watch some TV. She consents.
It’s my first day, I don’t remember the way back well, I need to ask for directions several times.
As I ask a guard, she sits and looks sullen and depressed. She says her brother is not feeling good and she should go.
I manage to keep her going but her mood is terrible.
She’s not saying anything the whole time, there’s no convo between us and I can’t manage to make her feel either good or talkative.
My condo is super weird, you can only enter from the parking lot so it makes for a really dirty and unsafe-looking pull :S.
And I'm lost, so I get into a tower to ask directions for my tower.
There she sits and doesn't wanna move again.
Fuck, we'd be so close.
I sit with her and get her to admit her she’s feeling bad because we’re going home together. I knew it.
The director of her university lives in the same condo, she says she might even be expelled if words go around of her going home with a stranger boy.
I push and push in several possible ways, from "you only live once" to "we're almost there" to "we don't have to do anything we don't want, you can leave at any time, we just go for 5 minutes" to "we are so good together" etc. etc.
But can’t manage, her state is too depressive about the dirty thought of going home together now. Even if the director and nobody she knows would see her, “she can’t lie to herself”.
I wonder if it would have been different had I known the right way from the start.
I think so, but there's no point now.
I walk her back.
2. Small cute girl – take her hand and go
I see a girl dressed in flashy clothes working at the mall as a mall employee and talk to her.
She's finishing her shift and we agree to meet as soon as she goes back to finalize some papers at the office in like 15 minutes.
But I don’t just sit and wait: I see a very small cute brunette, she just finished work as well, her English is terrible but I get she’s on time constraint.
I walk with her and take her to sit with me in a couple of minutes.
There I tell her speaking very simply and with gestures to go back together to mine to "drink a beer".
She consents and I walk all the way back with her hand in hand, not many words, just looking at her at smiling from time to mine and she smiles back: so cute and perfect teeth.
At home I go into my room and I’m not fully comfortable as I’m in an Airbnb with the owner in the room just besides. No TV and nothing to drink at home.
But not excuses, we sit on the bed side by side, I go for neck kisses but I can’t get her into a sexual vibe and can't get her to accept my advances as she keeps repeating she has to go and to put my number into her phone.
Finally she gets up to leave and I walk her back.
I bid farewell and don’t even give her my number, which I think was a huge mistake : she was cute and now she knew I wanted sex BUT was also a safe guy, so if she contacted me it would have probably gone down easy (I would see her again the day or two days after at the mall, but I was with another date ).
3. Muslim virgin
So now I meet again with the previous girl who is coming back just for me.
Her English is also terrible.
Again I propose to go home and she accepts.
In my room she asks for money, I make clear I give none and in the meanwhile I undress her.
On the bed she says “this is crazy” and cannot do it because she’s on her period and she’s virgin.
That stops me a bit: getting blood on the sheets of this guy would be bad.
But much more I worry about muslim and virginity shit: we don't have any connection, what if she feels guilty tomorrow and say I pushed her into it? That would be huuuge problems coming my way and the end of all the fun for me.
So I start recording looking for a possible clear buy in from her.
This goes on for probably close to a couple hours, and several times she’s horny.
I could actually come while I dry hump her by rubbing my dick between her thighs but lol I don’t wanna come like that.
Maybe with a strong push I could have done it, but with all her complaints about virginity, keeping her virginity for marriage, her family and "what they would say" I don’t wanna use a strong physical push in this scenario.
So I walk her back.
This is one of the exceedingly times I’m mean with a girl.
I don’t have a high opinion of her: she's uncaring about her legs hair, asking for money in the beginning, then denying her own joy because of her own religious/virginity shackles, and now desperate clingy as she’s afraid of losing me.
She really likes me indeed, resting her face against my chest as we wait for the elevator while she begs for forgiviness.
She brigtens up all of a sudden when she thinks about a solution: she lunges into an arm into arm and says loudly “maybe tomorrow when I’m off my period”.
I curtly shrug off her arm right away, angrily cutting her off with “yeah sure”. And she goes back to sad sack mood.
FINAL THOUGHTS
Crazy that after 3 pulls this is only a FR and I didn't get laid right?
You might think I was angry after pulling 3 girls and not getting laid, but I was actually rather happy and nicely relaxed after such a hectic night.
I remember of seeing a hugely popular video on youtbe about a guy “kissing 3 strangers at the mall” and thought it was actually super lame back then (just checked it now, it’s Justin Wayne, couple of millions of view).
Now I just set foot into a new country and town, at 6pm I didn't even have a local phone number yet and had eaten nothing the whole day, moved on to ditch a beautiful girl on the planned date because she was with a friend and went on to pull 3 girls home.
That sounds waaay cooler than fruitlessly kissing 3 girls.
And on to the next adventure
.
This refers to maybe 3 weeks ago.
I arrive in the late afternoon to a new city and got a online date set up.
Before the date I meet a girl sitting alone and swap numbers.
My “date” is actually beautiful: perfectly dressed, with high heels -taller than I am- and a natural beautiful face and body.
BUT she says her cousin is also here and waiting for us at the restaurant.
I'm gonna have none of that shit, so I tell her she's beautiful, but I’m here to get to know her, not her cousin, and to text me once they’re done eating and she’s by herself.
I leave and rush to the same place I left the girl I met earlier. And she’s still there.
Quick note added on my logistics:
My place is not perfect as it's smallish and I have a flamate which is also the owner of the place. The entrance is terrible as you have to go through the underground parking lot.
BUT it's terribly close to the mall, practically besides it.
1 - religious nutcase – cold feet during pull
She’s well dressed, with Gucci purse and everything well matching.
We talk a bit, but she doesn’t give me much, she also speaks very low and I have problems actually hearing her.
We walk around a bit, I go for hand in hand, she doesn’t pull back but doesn’t interlock fingers either, just leave her hand in mine.
I make fun of her for that.
I’m in a muslim majority country, but she’s in a Christian university where, she says, it’s forbidden to have boyfriends :S.
Her phone background image is of a Madonna -not the singer-.
After a walk we sit again and I invite her to my place to watch some TV. She consents.
It’s my first day, I don’t remember the way back well, I need to ask for directions several times.
As I ask a guard, she sits and looks sullen and depressed. She says her brother is not feeling good and she should go.
I manage to keep her going but her mood is terrible.
She’s not saying anything the whole time, there’s no convo between us and I can’t manage to make her feel either good or talkative.
My condo is super weird, you can only enter from the parking lot so it makes for a really dirty and unsafe-looking pull :S.
And I'm lost, so I get into a tower to ask directions for my tower.
There she sits and doesn't wanna move again.
Fuck, we'd be so close.
I sit with her and get her to admit her she’s feeling bad because we’re going home together. I knew it.
The director of her university lives in the same condo, she says she might even be expelled if words go around of her going home with a stranger boy.
I push and push in several possible ways, from "you only live once" to "we're almost there" to "we don't have to do anything we don't want, you can leave at any time, we just go for 5 minutes" to "we are so good together" etc. etc.
But can’t manage, her state is too depressive about the dirty thought of going home together now. Even if the director and nobody she knows would see her, “she can’t lie to herself”.
I wonder if it would have been different had I known the right way from the start.
I think so, but there's no point now.
I walk her back.
2. Small cute girl – take her hand and go
I see a girl dressed in flashy clothes working at the mall as a mall employee and talk to her.
She's finishing her shift and we agree to meet as soon as she goes back to finalize some papers at the office in like 15 minutes.
But I don’t just sit and wait: I see a very small cute brunette, she just finished work as well, her English is terrible but I get she’s on time constraint.
I walk with her and take her to sit with me in a couple of minutes.
There I tell her speaking very simply and with gestures to go back together to mine to "drink a beer".
She consents and I walk all the way back with her hand in hand, not many words, just looking at her at smiling from time to mine and she smiles back: so cute and perfect teeth.
At home I go into my room and I’m not fully comfortable as I’m in an Airbnb with the owner in the room just besides. No TV and nothing to drink at home.
But not excuses, we sit on the bed side by side, I go for neck kisses but I can’t get her into a sexual vibe and can't get her to accept my advances as she keeps repeating she has to go and to put my number into her phone.
Finally she gets up to leave and I walk her back.
I bid farewell and don’t even give her my number, which I think was a huge mistake : she was cute and now she knew I wanted sex BUT was also a safe guy, so if she contacted me it would have probably gone down easy (I would see her again the day or two days after at the mall, but I was with another date ).
3. Muslim virgin
So now I meet again with the previous girl who is coming back just for me.
Her English is also terrible.
Again I propose to go home and she accepts.
In my room she asks for money, I make clear I give none and in the meanwhile I undress her.
On the bed she says “this is crazy” and cannot do it because she’s on her period and she’s virgin.
That stops me a bit: getting blood on the sheets of this guy would be bad.
But much more I worry about muslim and virginity shit: we don't have any connection, what if she feels guilty tomorrow and say I pushed her into it? That would be huuuge problems coming my way and the end of all the fun for me.
So I start recording looking for a possible clear buy in from her.
This goes on for probably close to a couple hours, and several times she’s horny.
I could actually come while I dry hump her by rubbing my dick between her thighs but lol I don’t wanna come like that.
Maybe with a strong push I could have done it, but with all her complaints about virginity, keeping her virginity for marriage, her family and "what they would say" I don’t wanna use a strong physical push in this scenario.
So I walk her back.
This is one of the exceedingly times I’m mean with a girl.
I don’t have a high opinion of her: she's uncaring about her legs hair, asking for money in the beginning, then denying her own joy because of her own religious/virginity shackles, and now desperate clingy as she’s afraid of losing me.
She really likes me indeed, resting her face against my chest as we wait for the elevator while she begs for forgiviness.
She brigtens up all of a sudden when she thinks about a solution: she lunges into an arm into arm and says loudly “maybe tomorrow when I’m off my period”.
I curtly shrug off her arm right away, angrily cutting her off with “yeah sure”. And she goes back to sad sack mood.
FINAL THOUGHTS
Crazy that after 3 pulls this is only a FR and I didn't get laid right?
You might think I was angry after pulling 3 girls and not getting laid, but I was actually rather happy and nicely relaxed after such a hectic night.
I remember of seeing a hugely popular video on youtbe about a guy “kissing 3 strangers at the mall” and thought it was actually super lame back then (just checked it now, it’s Justin Wayne, couple of millions of view).
Now I just set foot into a new country and town, at 6pm I didn't even have a local phone number yet and had eaten nothing the whole day, moved on to ditch a beautiful girl on the planned date because she was with a friend and went on to pull 3 girls home.
That sounds waaay cooler than fruitlessly kissing 3 girls.
And on to the next adventure
.
