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FR 8 - Kiss close, almost pulling
Been really trying to dive deep on why I seek validation at certain times and why girls react to me as they have done in the past week of going out.
I found one biiiiiiig factor is that I’ve been too fvcking soft and another biiiig reason is that I thought myself above the girl which someone pointed out to me - thx a lot for that perspective bro!
Now I’m balancing being real, liking the girl and not liking the girl too much so she loses interest.
Anyway.. tonight I opened six different sets
One 3 set
One 8 set
And Four 2 sets
Tonight or should I say this morning lol, I will only do a report on the 2 set Kiss closed and almost pulling because I just finished some extra work after coming home and I’m writing this 5 in the morning, much later than usual. Enjoy.
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2 set, one hot and one big, sitting at a table with a bottle of vodka
Three things I did well:
So I opened this 8 set just to do something.. normally people are up and dancing on the the floor but floor was just empty tonight.
I bounced after they didn’t welcome me anymore and the girls closest to me I talked with the most didn’t want to lose value in front of their friends. They were Americans. (Lol now when I think about it, I should have taken the girl I KC to the table with 8 girls and just make out in front of them.. would be such fun to see their reactions haha)
I walk around a little and it’s such a bad place for game tonight with everybody sitting at their tables waiting for the games to open.
Anyway, I walk past the 2 set again and the guys are still sitting in the same spot.. I see they have a beer in front of them. BINGO! They are not together. I go in and open.
Another thing was, her big friend although ignoring me at first, left us alone a few times. I was like.. I like her!! I was lucky she didn’t cockblock because she could easily have done it and instead let me and the girl interact. Later she left us alone and left because she had school next day. Just fantastic.. this rarely happens (and especially rarely happens on a weekend).
There was a longer interaction before I kissed her again. At times, it felt a little unsure if something would even happen. Also I wanted to go back to do the extra work but she kept me there eventually. She had just told me about her insecurities, when I kissed her again. Since it was a longer interaction without much sexuality, I did a more playful and fun one where I told her to close her eyes for a second. She had a scared face doing it and it didn’t even look like she registered my kiss haha.
This led to easier to start making out with her later. Her friend had left, she said she really wanted to go and pee. I stopped her and said before that, and we made out.
If I didn’t stop her, I’m 50/50 that she would come back and tell me she’s going home. Gotta keep it interesting and keep showing I’m a man who goes for what he wants
Three things I will do better next time:
Should not be so quick to say that and instead push pull her some more with sexuality involved now. Then make her really horny and suggest going to my or her place.
Thinking about this, I could probably have at least tried and pull her to the toilet…
When she kept suggesting that I follow her to the station instead, I stopped keep on trying.
She said her suggestions quite weakly, so yeah.. I’m not sure if it was good idea to push through that or just be cooler about it as I did..
Doing so will make her also feel more trust in me “logically”.
Leeeet's fvcking goooooo!!!
Been really trying to dive deep on why I seek validation at certain times and why girls react to me as they have done in the past week of going out.
I found one biiiiiiig factor is that I’ve been too fvcking soft and another biiiig reason is that I thought myself above the girl which someone pointed out to me - thx a lot for that perspective bro!
Now I’m balancing being real, liking the girl and not liking the girl too much so she loses interest.
Anyway.. tonight I opened six different sets
One 3 set
One 8 set
And Four 2 sets
Tonight or should I say this morning lol, I will only do a report on the 2 set Kiss closed and almost pulling because I just finished some extra work after coming home and I’m writing this 5 in the morning, much later than usual. Enjoy.
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2 set, one hot and one big, sitting at a table with a bottle of vodka
Three things I did well:
- I walked past them at first, looking twice.. how come they sit there with a whole bottle of vodka only them. Then I see two guys at the table besides theirs and I thought they were together, so I walk past them and check what’s up in the place..
So I opened this 8 set just to do something.. normally people are up and dancing on the the floor but floor was just empty tonight.
I bounced after they didn’t welcome me anymore and the girls closest to me I talked with the most didn’t want to lose value in front of their friends. They were Americans. (Lol now when I think about it, I should have taken the girl I KC to the table with 8 girls and just make out in front of them.. would be such fun to see their reactions haha)
I walk around a little and it’s such a bad place for game tonight with everybody sitting at their tables waiting for the games to open.
Anyway, I walk past the 2 set again and the guys are still sitting in the same spot.. I see they have a beer in front of them. BINGO! They are not together. I go in and open.
- Most of the interaction, I reminded myself whenever I was giving her too much attention, “would I feel just as good if she left me right now?”. She looked away a lot when talking.. I was looking at her, seeing her not below me.. sometimes I did it too long or too much and I refocused myself into my world and OF COURSE, almost every time, she starts to look at me while talking.
Another thing was, her big friend although ignoring me at first, left us alone a few times. I was like.. I like her!! I was lucky she didn’t cockblock because she could easily have done it and instead let me and the girl interact. Later she left us alone and left because she had school next day. Just fantastic.. this rarely happens (and especially rarely happens on a weekend).
- She said no and leaned back a little when I tried to kiss her the first time and I kept talking with her like nothing happened
There was a longer interaction before I kissed her again. At times, it felt a little unsure if something would even happen. Also I wanted to go back to do the extra work but she kept me there eventually. She had just told me about her insecurities, when I kissed her again. Since it was a longer interaction without much sexuality, I did a more playful and fun one where I told her to close her eyes for a second. She had a scared face doing it and it didn’t even look like she registered my kiss haha.
This led to easier to start making out with her later. Her friend had left, she said she really wanted to go and pee. I stopped her and said before that, and we made out.
If I didn’t stop her, I’m 50/50 that she would come back and tell me she’s going home. Gotta keep it interesting and keep showing I’m a man who goes for what he wants
Three things I will do better next time:
- After making out, I just assumed we were going to one or the others place because we had such a long interaction, like 30-45 min. before kissing. She had a first objection here, like she’s not feeling there yet.
Should not be so quick to say that and instead push pull her some more with sexuality involved now. Then make her really horny and suggest going to my or her place.
Thinking about this, I could probably have at least tried and pull her to the toilet…
- When I suggested again that we can go my place, although making it sound pretty good and she was focused listening, I think I should make it even more fun, especially emotionally
When she kept suggesting that I follow her to the station instead, I stopped keep on trying.
She said her suggestions quite weakly, so yeah.. I’m not sure if it was good idea to push through that or just be cooler about it as I did..
- I should tell her more what to ask me because she just didn’t ask me any questions, I had to tell her to ask me the few times she asked. She was talking a lot about herself.
Doing so will make her also feel more trust in me “logically”.
Leeeet's fvcking goooooo!!!
