This was one of the most..instructive nights. Those nights where you really kick yourself in the ass. But lesson well learned, and the hard way too.
Lesson: NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR GIRL
So it's around 8PM and I'm chilling with one of my best buds. Let's call him Juan. I bought a $50 bottle of Patron. You know ya boy go hard
. And we're going to a fraternity date function. This is where we rent out a bar/club and bring girls as our dates, a high school prom kind of thing but much less formal.
My date (Let's call her Melanie) comes over, already tipsy and being very friendly. We chat, bullshit and head to my buddy's house (Let's call him Pablo) who's having a pregame. There, I of course turn on the XBOX and run dat FIFA against my homie Juan. Here the girl gets to see some flashes of my personality. I'm very fiery and passionate. I yell, scream, holler when I play FIFA. I get so into the game. Anyways, she's laughing at my childish demeanor and shit. Having a good time.
My buddy Pablo (he was out getting drinks) and other guests arrive. Party time. I open the bottle, shots on deck. Lime, salt, people yelling, music's blaring through the speakers. And good times a-waiting. Then comes beer pong....And shit gets wild. My girl and I are very competitive. And my fiery side comes out again. We beat everyone's ass. We're yelling, screaming, she's twerking to distract people, I'm clapping and getting super competitive and aggressive. Like we're just dominating the energy around us.
I told her we're Jay-Z and Beyonce in this bitch, she loves it. Everyone else agrees.
Power couple. We fucking run shit. Then I go to mingle around. Girls are asking to take tequila shots with me. I'm fucking have a WHALE of a good time. Guys, when a girl likes you and is pretty invested like she is at this point. Telling her you're just like the most powerful couple on Earth and have everyone else acknowledge it in unison, that's VERY VERY powerful.
At this point she's already very high in the attraction/investment portion. Right at the peak.
Then, we play against each other. And she gets 10 mm from my face, like literally touching noses, talking mad shit to each other and it's very sexual and hot. We just ooze power and sexuality like Jay & Bey. I cannot talk to this girl without getting a boner through my pants.
I'm dressed to kill. Black slim pants that outline my crotch, killer shoes, a slim white shirt that shows-off my muscularity (been working out), suspenders and a red power tie (Valentine's Day) and she's wearing a dress that brings out her boobs and we're just fucking crushing it. On the ride there, my buddy (Let's call him DAN) starts hitting on her. I know it's pointless flirting. Hot girls are gonna have dudes all over them all the time. Dan asks Juan who's driving for a hit of his hookah pen. I take a rip too, I take another one and my girl and I do a shotgun kiss. Then I do it with one of the other girls in the car.
I'ma smoke this joint and then I'ma break you off
Get to the venue, we're kicking it. Laid back. I get my girl and I a drink. We straight chilling. Then we go upstairs where the VIP area for us is. She sits next to me at one of the booths and I say what's up to my brothers also at that table, we're talking, flirting, chilling. We start looking at each other with those bedroom eyes, talking low, smiling, getting closer, slowly...looking at each other's lips...and I give her a little peck.
Look into her eyes
She smiles
I bite my lip.
Game. Set. Closed. Textbook.
At this point, all it takes is for us to keep having a good time and it is a matter of time for me to take her home and consummate the interaction.
She goes get us drinks.
PAUSE
Now.
Rewind to 8 hours before.
There's this girl who wants my dick bad. And she keeps texting me to take her to the event, like literally I dropped a hint that I wasn't going to take her and she pulled a move a lot of us do and starts being really aggressive.
Now hear this, this is funny. 2 nights before, I was still looking for a date. And she goes "I have dinner plans already! I couldn't go with you if I wanted!"
LOLOL
I didn't even intend on asking you in the first place hoe. Take a fucking hint.
The day of the event she sends me these texts:
This bitch shows up to the event and looks HOT AS FUCK. One of the top 3 in the venue. Like, god damn.
What's the first thing that she does? Sits on my god-damn lap. Now, the brothers there are giving me these 2 STUNNERS ON YO LAP...WASSSUP PLAYAH!!! looks. I'm like...heh.
I look up and my date's there. Hands me a drink, and this happens:
She wouldn't talk to me. She wouldn't touch me. She wouldn't look at me. And in a drunken stupor she makes out with 3 of my brothers. She was trying to be vengeful. And honestly, she was pretty damn hurt. We had such a good connection, a good chemistry, and I fucking blew it.
FUCK ME MAN, FUCK ME.
I wanted this lay. It would've been amazing. Such an amazing experience.
I fucked it all up. This bitch fucked it all up. FUCK MAN.
But oh well. Not all was wrong, the hottest girl n the event was all over me after watching the shit show go down. This girl's a straight stunner. 10 for sure. Social Proof for the fucking win.
You win some, you learn some.
Life goes on,
Seize the Moment.
Lesson: NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR GIRL
So it's around 8PM and I'm chilling with one of my best buds. Let's call him Juan. I bought a $50 bottle of Patron. You know ya boy go hard
. And we're going to a fraternity date function. This is where we rent out a bar/club and bring girls as our dates, a high school prom kind of thing but much less formal.My date (Let's call her Melanie) comes over, already tipsy and being very friendly. We chat, bullshit and head to my buddy's house (Let's call him Pablo) who's having a pregame. There, I of course turn on the XBOX and run dat FIFA against my homie Juan. Here the girl gets to see some flashes of my personality. I'm very fiery and passionate. I yell, scream, holler when I play FIFA. I get so into the game. Anyways, she's laughing at my childish demeanor and shit. Having a good time.
My buddy Pablo (he was out getting drinks) and other guests arrive. Party time. I open the bottle, shots on deck. Lime, salt, people yelling, music's blaring through the speakers. And good times a-waiting. Then comes beer pong....And shit gets wild. My girl and I are very competitive. And my fiery side comes out again. We beat everyone's ass. We're yelling, screaming, she's twerking to distract people, I'm clapping and getting super competitive and aggressive. Like we're just dominating the energy around us.
I told her we're Jay-Z and Beyonce in this bitch, she loves it. Everyone else agrees.
Power couple. We fucking run shit. Then I go to mingle around. Girls are asking to take tequila shots with me. I'm fucking have a WHALE of a good time. Guys, when a girl likes you and is pretty invested like she is at this point. Telling her you're just like the most powerful couple on Earth and have everyone else acknowledge it in unison, that's VERY VERY powerful.
At this point she's already very high in the attraction/investment portion. Right at the peak.
Then, we play against each other. And she gets 10 mm from my face, like literally touching noses, talking mad shit to each other and it's very sexual and hot. We just ooze power and sexuality like Jay & Bey. I cannot talk to this girl without getting a boner through my pants.
I'm dressed to kill. Black slim pants that outline my crotch, killer shoes, a slim white shirt that shows-off my muscularity (been working out), suspenders and a red power tie (Valentine's Day) and she's wearing a dress that brings out her boobs and we're just fucking crushing it. On the ride there, my buddy (Let's call him DAN) starts hitting on her. I know it's pointless flirting. Hot girls are gonna have dudes all over them all the time. Dan asks Juan who's driving for a hit of his hookah pen. I take a rip too, I take another one and my girl and I do a shotgun kiss. Then I do it with one of the other girls in the car.
I'ma smoke this joint and then I'ma break you off
Get to the venue, we're kicking it. Laid back. I get my girl and I a drink. We straight chilling. Then we go upstairs where the VIP area for us is. She sits next to me at one of the booths and I say what's up to my brothers also at that table, we're talking, flirting, chilling. We start looking at each other with those bedroom eyes, talking low, smiling, getting closer, slowly...looking at each other's lips...and I give her a little peck.
Look into her eyes
She smiles
I bite my lip.
Game. Set. Closed. Textbook.
At this point, all it takes is for us to keep having a good time and it is a matter of time for me to take her home and consummate the interaction.
She goes get us drinks.
PAUSE
Now.
Rewind to 8 hours before.
There's this girl who wants my dick bad. And she keeps texting me to take her to the event, like literally I dropped a hint that I wasn't going to take her and she pulled a move a lot of us do and starts being really aggressive.
Now hear this, this is funny. 2 nights before, I was still looking for a date. And she goes "I have dinner plans already! I couldn't go with you if I wanted!"
LOLOL
I didn't even intend on asking you in the first place hoe. Take a fucking hint.
The day of the event she sends me these texts:
Her: Decide if you wanna go or not?
Me: Not sure. I can't really drink so probs not, it's not worth it.
Her: Well if you take me it'll be worth it! I'd be a good date.
Her: [2 hours later] That is if I wanna go with you.
LOLOL FUCK YOU BITCH
Me: [2 hours later] I was set-up with a date so I might go. <--- lie
Her: Ok! Find me a date!
Me: Ok
Her: [1 hour prior to the event] Anything??
Me: Idk...
Her: Please!! I really wanna go!!
Me: Say [brother's name] is your date.
Her: Okay!! Yay
This bitch shows up to the event and looks HOT AS FUCK. One of the top 3 in the venue. Like, god damn.
What's the first thing that she does? Sits on my god-damn lap. Now, the brothers there are giving me these 2 STUNNERS ON YO LAP...WASSSUP PLAYAH!!! looks. I'm like...heh.
I look up and my date's there. Hands me a drink, and this happens:
She wouldn't talk to me. She wouldn't touch me. She wouldn't look at me. And in a drunken stupor she makes out with 3 of my brothers. She was trying to be vengeful. And honestly, she was pretty damn hurt. We had such a good connection, a good chemistry, and I fucking blew it.
FUCK ME MAN, FUCK ME.
I wanted this lay. It would've been amazing. Such an amazing experience.
I fucked it all up. This bitch fucked it all up. FUCK MAN.
But oh well. Not all was wrong, the hottest girl n the event was all over me after watching the shit show go down. This girl's a straight stunner. 10 for sure. Social Proof for the fucking win.
You win some, you learn some.
Life goes on,
Seize the Moment.
