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Yo guys! Hope you're all slaying well. 
This happened after I got off work Tuesday. Just got a new job and it's awesome - been having great hours and learning a lot there.
So I get off around 1 in the morning, walking with my co-worker on the way home, just bullshittin'. Get a block away from our houses when we see a three people walking across the street in our direction. We're waiting at the corner and as they pass they say something, can't really remember right now I was kinda' drunk haha. My friend launches into a story and talks to the two guys in the groups. The girl of the group is then paired off with me and she starts talking to me.
I notice right off the back she has attraction, but I'm not really into it right then. So I decide to play with it a bit and just laser eyes her continously. Just basically listening to her and sexy smiling the entire time. She starts to get more attracted and I start participating in the conversation more. Really little work on my part, just basically really strong eye-contact and smiles. I start to touch her a bit and she's reciprocating.
The group invites us over to their place and we're like sure. Talking to her a bit more and find out she's 40. Lolwut. Cougarrrr. She asks me my age and I say 22 haha. We get to talking about photography and I start to click with her more.
We get to their place and pour some more shots. First thing I notice is that there is NO WHERE to pull her. Their place is small. Was thinking later of the bathroom but didn't think of it in the moment haha. Gotta' start thinking of weird logistics. Now I start to do some of my patented physical drunk game. Wrapping her arms around me, getting close to her face and not wavering eye contact, my hands on her lower back. We talk like this some more and she tells me about her past a bit.
I'm wondering if she's with either of the two dudes there, but I decide she's not. I move in to kiss her and she makes out with me a bit. All of this in front of everyone by the way, but they're drunk so they can see but really don't care. Matter-a-fact I don't really care because I can't pull her anyways and don't know if I even want to see her again after this, basically treating it like a reference experience. We get to talking about piercings, ask her if she has any and tells me she has nipple piercings. Tell her to show me in a commanding but curious voice and she does HAHA. Talk some more and it feels like I missed an escalation window because she starts pulling back more. This happens slowly through the night. She has these arm sleeve things on so I pull one of them up to reveal some cuts on her arm. Huge turn off here, I do not like people who cut themselves. I think it shows low self esteem. Anyways we talk for a bit more then she heads to the bathroom. This is where she's pretty much no longer horny I figure and we start making plans to head out. Around now it's like 4 in the morning. I talk to one of the other guys who is actually pretty cool about the whole thing, and pretty cool himself. Eventually we head out, before I do I tell her to come over. Tell her to show me her nipple piercing just to see if she will. She does and I move down and lick it a bit. Tell her, "Now we're gonna' make out and kiss her for 2 seconds before she pulls away. Start laughing at the weirdness of this night and we leave. As we walk my co-worker and I start laughing, me and my co-worker bullshitting on the way home how it was really entertaining.
Things I learned:
-Eye contact is POWERFUL. Basically got her more and more attracted by just staring at her not caring. Gonna' try this way more. Just gotta' calibrate to shyer girls who look away a lot.
-Opportunities always present themselves. Totally didn't expect to make out with a girl like 20 years older than me haha.
-I might need to start screening girls. This girl totally flipped script near the end, when at first I just thought she was passionate, she turned out to be kinda' crazy haha.
-Alwys be thinking of logistics. Should've thought of pulling her into the bathroom or something.
-Aggressive girls throw me off right now. Wasn't ready to get hit on that hard and that kinda' shook my frame.
-Noticed she was the one seeding pulls and it was odd. When I said I was a cook she said, "Oh I have a spice you should try!" Then when I said I do photography she was like, "We should take pictures together!" Crazy how I can see this stuff now
-Properly calibrated aggression and commanding tones are great. Definitely don't do this enough when I'm sober.
Brought my confidence up a bunch, not much detail because it was really straightforward and I was drunk haha.
Jake.
This happened after I got off work Tuesday. Just got a new job and it's awesome - been having great hours and learning a lot there.
So I get off around 1 in the morning, walking with my co-worker on the way home, just bullshittin'. Get a block away from our houses when we see a three people walking across the street in our direction. We're waiting at the corner and as they pass they say something, can't really remember right now I was kinda' drunk haha. My friend launches into a story and talks to the two guys in the groups. The girl of the group is then paired off with me and she starts talking to me.
I notice right off the back she has attraction, but I'm not really into it right then. So I decide to play with it a bit and just laser eyes her continously. Just basically listening to her and sexy smiling the entire time. She starts to get more attracted and I start participating in the conversation more. Really little work on my part, just basically really strong eye-contact and smiles. I start to touch her a bit and she's reciprocating.
The group invites us over to their place and we're like sure. Talking to her a bit more and find out she's 40. Lolwut. Cougarrrr. She asks me my age and I say 22 haha. We get to talking about photography and I start to click with her more.
We get to their place and pour some more shots. First thing I notice is that there is NO WHERE to pull her. Their place is small. Was thinking later of the bathroom but didn't think of it in the moment haha. Gotta' start thinking of weird logistics. Now I start to do some of my patented physical drunk game. Wrapping her arms around me, getting close to her face and not wavering eye contact, my hands on her lower back. We talk like this some more and she tells me about her past a bit.
I'm wondering if she's with either of the two dudes there, but I decide she's not. I move in to kiss her and she makes out with me a bit. All of this in front of everyone by the way, but they're drunk so they can see but really don't care. Matter-a-fact I don't really care because I can't pull her anyways and don't know if I even want to see her again after this, basically treating it like a reference experience. We get to talking about piercings, ask her if she has any and tells me she has nipple piercings. Tell her to show me in a commanding but curious voice and she does HAHA. Talk some more and it feels like I missed an escalation window because she starts pulling back more. This happens slowly through the night. She has these arm sleeve things on so I pull one of them up to reveal some cuts on her arm. Huge turn off here, I do not like people who cut themselves. I think it shows low self esteem. Anyways we talk for a bit more then she heads to the bathroom. This is where she's pretty much no longer horny I figure and we start making plans to head out. Around now it's like 4 in the morning. I talk to one of the other guys who is actually pretty cool about the whole thing, and pretty cool himself. Eventually we head out, before I do I tell her to come over. Tell her to show me her nipple piercing just to see if she will. She does and I move down and lick it a bit. Tell her, "Now we're gonna' make out and kiss her for 2 seconds before she pulls away. Start laughing at the weirdness of this night and we leave. As we walk my co-worker and I start laughing, me and my co-worker bullshitting on the way home how it was really entertaining.
Things I learned:
-Eye contact is POWERFUL. Basically got her more and more attracted by just staring at her not caring. Gonna' try this way more. Just gotta' calibrate to shyer girls who look away a lot.
-Opportunities always present themselves. Totally didn't expect to make out with a girl like 20 years older than me haha.
-I might need to start screening girls. This girl totally flipped script near the end, when at first I just thought she was passionate, she turned out to be kinda' crazy haha.
-Alwys be thinking of logistics. Should've thought of pulling her into the bathroom or something.
-Aggressive girls throw me off right now. Wasn't ready to get hit on that hard and that kinda' shook my frame.
-Noticed she was the one seeding pulls and it was odd. When I said I was a cook she said, "Oh I have a spice you should try!" Then when I said I do photography she was like, "We should take pictures together!" Crazy how I can see this stuff now
-Properly calibrated aggression and commanding tones are great. Definitely don't do this enough when I'm sober.
Brought my confidence up a bunch, not much detail because it was really straightforward and I was drunk haha.
Jake.
