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Hi guys,
Had an interesting date today. Met this girl at the mall. In the initial interaction, she was very receptive and wanted my number. It was only a short interaction, but there was a lot of physicality initiated on her part, which I also reciprocated. She texted me first, but replied really slow to set up the date. However, she was also quite warm in her text as well, so I thought she would be receptive on the date.
Right before we're about to meet up, she texted me she wanted to go to Victoria's secret first, but I told her let's meet up first then we can go there. Once we met up, she seemed pretty cold compared to our initial interaction and our text exchange. I was quite surprised, so I tried to hold her hand while asking her how do you say hold hands in japanese to see how she react. She was surprised but smiling, so I backed off and changed topic. She asked me why I approached her. I just told her I liked her, then she asked me why I don't have a gf. I told her I prefer being single now, and she didn't believe me. We walked to a bubble tea place, but on the way there, there was barely any conversation partly because of her english, but mostly because her defense was up.
Once we're at the bubble tea place, I just ordered my drink. It seemed like she was expecting me to order and pay for her, so after a few minutes of me waiting for my drink and her just looking at her phone. I prompted her to order her drink lol. This date wasn't beginning as well as I hope it would.
Once she got her drink, she just ignored me and took a seat inside. I didn't make a fuss and took the seat next to her. I started the conversation again, and now she seems a bit willing to engage. The conversation started to go back and forth, and it got sexual really fast. I pulled her into me and she leaned into my shoulder. She was reciprocating my touch and touched my face. She kept telling me I'm so handsome and asked me why I don't have a gf.... lol it felt good to receive these compliments, and somehow I thought it was because she wasn't attracted. sometimes when a girl's not reactive, we assume the wrong thing.
We started to talk about sex. She told me she had only had sex with japanese men and their dick is hard...whereas europeans have soft dick. I asked her if she's tried it, she said her friends told her. I told her "so that's why u moved to australia huh
" lol. I think the sex talk was turning her on a lot. We started talking about her favourite position and her body. I touched her ass and complimented her. She was leaning into me a lot when i put my hands around her. I tried to pull her then I found out she has to work at 6pm and her place is a share room with no lock on the door. Then out of nowhere, she tried to friendzone me...
Anyway, we kept talking. I kept escalating and she started feeling my thigh and moved her hand closer to my dick. I sensed the opportunity and said let's get out of here.
We started walking and she hold my hands, which was a good sign. There wasn't much talking when we were walking, except I seeded the idea that she could cook for me next time. I thought we were walking towards her place, but she stopped halfway and asked where we were going. I said "let's grab dessert at your place". She rejected the idea and said we can't go. So we just kept walking,
Then she asked me
Then she suddenly let go of my hand and crossed her arm. I knew the window to escalate won't be open for long. I tried to build up my own vibe again and not being reactive and reaction seeking. Then after cracking some random joke, she opened up again and hold my hand. I love it when a girl hold your hand without you initiating. It shows you got the right vibe down. Attract. Not pursuit.
I pulled her in and for some reasons I can't remember, she asked me if I wanna touch her boobs. I teased her for using push-up bra to make it look big and said she can't trick me. She laughed. Then I pulled her to the side of the side walk and hug her by the waist. She puts her hand on my dick trying to feel my boner, and she pushes her leg against it as well. There were still a few people walking past. I whispered in her hair...you made it so big, and she got even more turned on.
As we walked into the lobby, I lead her to the toilet, then I saw there's a separate toilet for the disabled, and I walked immediately into that one and no questions asked. She followed me in and I locked the door. She took her pants down and peed LOL. Then after she cleaned up, she showed me her ass, and they looked so perfect. I bend down to bite them and she laughed.
I pulled my dick out.
However, she wouldn't give me a blowjob. I think suddenly her antislut defense kicked in and she pulled her pants up and put on her jacket, and was trying to logically explain that this is all lust. I just ignored it, partly because I didn't really hear what she was saying. I stay grounded and didn't get needy. I zipped my pants up and secretly said sorry to my dick, maybe another day.
She was fixing her hair in the mirror. I just started reading some random shit on the wall and didn't pay attention to her. She turned and looked at me. I pulled her in and hugged her. I whispered some random joke and she became warm again. She wanted to kiss me, but I told her to say "kiss me daddy". She laughed and after a few nos, she eventually complied and we kissed. Then she asked me if I'm a player. I asked her what do you think. She said she doesn't know. I just said "i'm an honest player" lol...man can't believe the random words that pop out of my mouth sometimes. After a while, she has to go to work, so we left the toilet. Before we said goodbye, I told her to cook for me next time, and she said yea I'll text you. I thought I could trust her to text me, because she texted me first last time.
After reflecting on the whole thing, I thought I needed more relatability or she might autoreject because my lover value is too high. so I texted her
Otherwise, this was a fun experience. First time pulling into a toilet during the day. The only thing I've learned and need to improve on this is to increase my relatability and not come across as a player...and also prevent the ASD from happening in the first place, which means I should have said "omg this is happening so fast...you should slow down" before she had a chance to put the break on.
Hope you guys enjoyed this one!
Had an interesting date today. Met this girl at the mall. In the initial interaction, she was very receptive and wanted my number. It was only a short interaction, but there was a lot of physicality initiated on her part, which I also reciprocated. She texted me first, but replied really slow to set up the date. However, she was also quite warm in her text as well, so I thought she would be receptive on the date.
Right before we're about to meet up, she texted me she wanted to go to Victoria's secret first, but I told her let's meet up first then we can go there. Once we met up, she seemed pretty cold compared to our initial interaction and our text exchange. I was quite surprised, so I tried to hold her hand while asking her how do you say hold hands in japanese to see how she react. She was surprised but smiling, so I backed off and changed topic. She asked me why I approached her. I just told her I liked her, then she asked me why I don't have a gf. I told her I prefer being single now, and she didn't believe me. We walked to a bubble tea place, but on the way there, there was barely any conversation partly because of her english, but mostly because her defense was up.
Once we're at the bubble tea place, I just ordered my drink. It seemed like she was expecting me to order and pay for her, so after a few minutes of me waiting for my drink and her just looking at her phone. I prompted her to order her drink lol. This date wasn't beginning as well as I hope it would.
Once she got her drink, she just ignored me and took a seat inside. I didn't make a fuss and took the seat next to her. I started the conversation again, and now she seems a bit willing to engage. The conversation started to go back and forth, and it got sexual really fast. I pulled her into me and she leaned into my shoulder. She was reciprocating my touch and touched my face. She kept telling me I'm so handsome and asked me why I don't have a gf.... lol it felt good to receive these compliments, and somehow I thought it was because she wasn't attracted. sometimes when a girl's not reactive, we assume the wrong thing.
We started to talk about sex. She told me she had only had sex with japanese men and their dick is hard...whereas europeans have soft dick. I asked her if she's tried it, she said her friends told her. I told her "so that's why u moved to australia huh
" lol. I think the sex talk was turning her on a lot. We started talking about her favourite position and her body. I touched her ass and complimented her. She was leaning into me a lot when i put my hands around her. I tried to pull her then I found out she has to work at 6pm and her place is a share room with no lock on the door. Then out of nowhere, she tried to friendzone me...Her: "so you and I...going to be best friends?"
Me: *paused
Her: maybe not
Me: sex friends
she didn't say anything, but whatever.
Anyway, we kept talking. I kept escalating and she started feeling my thigh and moved her hand closer to my dick. I sensed the opportunity and said let's get out of here.
We started walking and she hold my hands, which was a good sign. There wasn't much talking when we were walking, except I seeded the idea that she could cook for me next time. I thought we were walking towards her place, but she stopped halfway and asked where we were going. I said "let's grab dessert at your place". She rejected the idea and said we can't go. So we just kept walking,
Then she asked me
I sensed that I needed a place to have sex with her soon. So I tried to find an alley, but there seemed to be people everywhere. We talked more about sex and I said she must be crazy in bed, which she responded really well. I think at this point, we both knew logistics were fking us up, and she really wanted to do it too.
Then she suddenly let go of my hand and crossed her arm. I knew the window to escalate won't be open for long. I tried to build up my own vibe again and not being reactive and reaction seeking. Then after cracking some random joke, she opened up again and hold my hand. I love it when a girl hold your hand without you initiating. It shows you got the right vibe down. Attract. Not pursuit.
I pulled her in and for some reasons I can't remember, she asked me if I wanna touch her boobs. I teased her for using push-up bra to make it look big and said she can't trick me. She laughed. Then I pulled her to the side of the side walk and hug her by the waist. She puts her hand on my dick trying to feel my boner, and she pushes her leg against it as well. There were still a few people walking past. I whispered in her hair...you made it so big, and she got even more turned on.
As we walked into the lobby, I lead her to the toilet, then I saw there's a separate toilet for the disabled, and I walked immediately into that one and no questions asked. She followed me in and I locked the door. She took her pants down and peed LOL. Then after she cleaned up, she showed me her ass, and they looked so perfect. I bend down to bite them and she laughed.
I pulled my dick out.
However, she wouldn't give me a blowjob. I think suddenly her antislut defense kicked in and she pulled her pants up and put on her jacket, and was trying to logically explain that this is all lust. I just ignored it, partly because I didn't really hear what she was saying. I stay grounded and didn't get needy. I zipped my pants up and secretly said sorry to my dick, maybe another day.
She was fixing her hair in the mirror. I just started reading some random shit on the wall and didn't pay attention to her. She turned and looked at me. I pulled her in and hugged her. I whispered some random joke and she became warm again. She wanted to kiss me, but I told her to say "kiss me daddy". She laughed and after a few nos, she eventually complied and we kissed. Then she asked me if I'm a player. I asked her what do you think. She said she doesn't know. I just said "i'm an honest player" lol...man can't believe the random words that pop out of my mouth sometimes. After a while, she has to go to work, so we left the toilet. Before we said goodbye, I told her to cook for me next time, and she said yea I'll text you. I thought I could trust her to text me, because she texted me first last time.
After reflecting on the whole thing, I thought I needed more relatability or she might autoreject because my lover value is too high. so I texted her
Me: "Hey had fun with you today =) I'm glad we didn't get caught in the toilet
Her: "yeah thank you very much for your time
Not exactly the response I expected, but then I knew it was coming....an escalation like this that didn't go all the way means she'll go home and backward rationalize why she didn't have sex.
Me: "our kids will be proud of us
Her: "Yes"
I decided to leave it there...If she texts me on Wed to meet up, cool. If not, I won't be too fussed about it
Otherwise, this was a fun experience. First time pulling into a toilet during the day. The only thing I've learned and need to improve on this is to increase my relatability and not come across as a player...and also prevent the ASD from happening in the first place, which means I should have said "omg this is happening so fast...you should slow down" before she had a chance to put the break on.
Hope you guys enjoyed this one!
