Me and a friend from primary school regained contact, he wanted us to go to his female friends house who was bringing her friends over.
So we arrived at her place, she was alone at first. Spoke to her for a while, I was pretty anxious which always seems to happen when I'm new to a venue. We had a few drinks she commented on my look and hair and was looking at me the whole time, my mind's like IOI but my friend wanted to hit her up and I didn't wanna mess things up for the boy so I chilled till all her friends came through.
The Escalation
So her friends pulled through, like 10 of them with only 4 guys. I was kinda nervous like we were all gonna drown, and caught up on how to handle this many girls. In the midst of these thoughts I remembered an article by chase where he spoke of the quiet strong type and not looking to quickly talk and what not and boy was he right. We were all in the kitchen (this girl has a huge kitchen doe) the three guys were all talking, the other one let's call him James had good game, I could tell by the way he was talking and the girls were all looking at him as he spoke. All this I haven't even introduced myself yet just nodding and smiling, this attractive black girl turns to me and asks where I'm from, it goes quite for a few seconds.
I tell her where I'm from all while I say this with a slight smirk, she laughs and we continue talking, I don't really want this black girl though I have my eyes on their friend visiting from London, Everytime she speaks I sorta melt. So we move on outside were all talking laughing just shooting the shit really, I noticed the London chick has on a necklace it didn't look special whatsoever but I had to start the conversation somehow, so I just threw a comment her way about it and we began talking.
Me: Cute necklace you got on there
Her: thanks it's.....
Me: Yeah so what brings you here from London ?
Her: here for a a year for school and what not
Me: that's cool, your drinks looking empty we should go pour more in the kitchen
Her: okay
So we move to the kitchen together and we began talking diving deeper, I'm actually digging this chick because she is focused on school and self improvement, I'm really focused on school also as well as self improvement. My friend comes in after a few minutes, really cool guy but I think he fucked things up for me in all honesty. He comes with the owner of the house and we are all talking, I am a bit drunk so I'm low key flirting with the owner while she's biting harder than I thought she would. The London girl gives me this look of what the fuck dude?, So I just decide to tone the flirting down. After what felt like a millennium, they leave and we're talking again this time she's testing me hard and this is where I sorta start dying out. She's asking me how many girls I've been with, whether I talk to all girls like this (I was so smooth I was shocking myself at times) I think I failed in answering one of those tests.
After a while we were kissing but I couldn't escalate to sex it's like she hit auto rejection for sex, she kept commenting how I must do this with all the girls I meet and I didn't know how to respond well to her questioning.
Conclusion
I took her number down so I still can contact her after, but I wanna ask you guys how you would answer to those type of questions and what's the right vibe you should have in doing so. I honestly think this girl thinks I sleep with many girls even though I only have one lay up, so any feedback is appreciated...
SillyCarl
So we arrived at her place, she was alone at first. Spoke to her for a while, I was pretty anxious which always seems to happen when I'm new to a venue. We had a few drinks she commented on my look and hair and was looking at me the whole time, my mind's like IOI but my friend wanted to hit her up and I didn't wanna mess things up for the boy so I chilled till all her friends came through.
The Escalation
So her friends pulled through, like 10 of them with only 4 guys. I was kinda nervous like we were all gonna drown, and caught up on how to handle this many girls. In the midst of these thoughts I remembered an article by chase where he spoke of the quiet strong type and not looking to quickly talk and what not and boy was he right. We were all in the kitchen (this girl has a huge kitchen doe) the three guys were all talking, the other one let's call him James had good game, I could tell by the way he was talking and the girls were all looking at him as he spoke. All this I haven't even introduced myself yet just nodding and smiling, this attractive black girl turns to me and asks where I'm from, it goes quite for a few seconds.
I tell her where I'm from all while I say this with a slight smirk, she laughs and we continue talking, I don't really want this black girl though I have my eyes on their friend visiting from London, Everytime she speaks I sorta melt. So we move on outside were all talking laughing just shooting the shit really, I noticed the London chick has on a necklace it didn't look special whatsoever but I had to start the conversation somehow, so I just threw a comment her way about it and we began talking.
Me: Cute necklace you got on there
Her: thanks it's.....
Me: Yeah so what brings you here from London ?
Her: here for a a year for school and what not
Me: that's cool, your drinks looking empty we should go pour more in the kitchen
Her: okay
So we move to the kitchen together and we began talking diving deeper, I'm actually digging this chick because she is focused on school and self improvement, I'm really focused on school also as well as self improvement. My friend comes in after a few minutes, really cool guy but I think he fucked things up for me in all honesty. He comes with the owner of the house and we are all talking, I am a bit drunk so I'm low key flirting with the owner while she's biting harder than I thought she would. The London girl gives me this look of what the fuck dude?, So I just decide to tone the flirting down. After what felt like a millennium, they leave and we're talking again this time she's testing me hard and this is where I sorta start dying out. She's asking me how many girls I've been with, whether I talk to all girls like this (I was so smooth I was shocking myself at times) I think I failed in answering one of those tests.
After a while we were kissing but I couldn't escalate to sex it's like she hit auto rejection for sex, she kept commenting how I must do this with all the girls I meet and I didn't know how to respond well to her questioning.
Conclusion
I took her number down so I still can contact her after, but I wanna ask you guys how you would answer to those type of questions and what's the right vibe you should have in doing so. I honestly think this girl thinks I sleep with many girls even though I only have one lay up, so any feedback is appreciated...
SillyCarl
