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thedude

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Hello all,

I have been in Germany since the 24th for a study abroad and boy do I love Europe.

Girl wise I could be doing better but I am doing my best to keep at it. This happened last weekend on Friday at some weird Germany club.

-So my friends and I decide to go out Friday night to make the most of this 25 Euro pass that allows you go for free to certain bars. Some of the people in our group unfortunately(or one person rather) gets too trashed and we end up taking care of them. I being myself walk around, try to talk to people and then eventually go to take a piss. When I come back my friends are gone(they went back due to Mr. Drunk).

So I strike out on my own to find a bar that accepts my wristband pass. I eventually end up at this bar called IPSA, or RPSA, whatever. It has decently loud music but not too loud where you can't hear shit and it was right on the river so there were places to sit down/chill.

In the club I am dancing a little, chilling and at some point I see this cute German girl dancing alone to the left of me. I strike up a conversation(the details which alude me now) but overall it was going fairly well.

The conversation was pretty flirty and at I was doing my best to bond with her. I actually fuck up a little and try to kiss her, she gives me her cheek and I play it off like I meant to do it saying "that's all you get for now".

when she suggests we smoke a joint(tobacco) over by the water. I agree and we head over there. During this she qualifies herself when I say I like spontaneous women and I kiss her once or twice in bursts. The two times I did it(once when shotgunning the joint) she squeezed my leg hard each time. However despite this I fail in pulling, not that I didn't try but I screwed it up and did not push for it as hard as I should have.

In the end, we go back to the dance floor- excuses herself to the bathroom and when she returns she then decides to leave and join her friends... Fuck!

I try my best to not be deterred by this for the night and actually make out a little with another girl. I try and get her home but she was a tad weird and was quite older then the first girl(first was 18, second was 25).

Besides this I have been doing daygame, got 12 numbers but none have replied. I've defeated approach anxiety... Now I just need to work on the talking part hahaha

Hope all of you are doing good as well.

-CJ
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

thedude

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Also how do you guys remember the details of convo's?

I always have trouble remembering, it may be because I am too busy focusing on what to say rather than truly listening.
 
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