Hey guys,
In recent times, Approach anxiety is totally a thing of the past. For some of my readers, it still is and to that I say give it time. I only experience bouts of distractions and low motivation but if I am out and I see a pretty girl, between talking to her out of game and not talking to her out of fear, the former always occurs. Setting up dates have also gotten easier and it has helped me weed out soo many bad leads.
Currently i mix cold approach with social circle and online dating. I don't do clubs or bars at all - no time and too hypergamy inclined. I have two girls and this post will describe my circumstances with each.
#fresh 2
Between the two girls, this one is the more recent one. She is through social circle (SC from hereon) so we talk when we run into each other. On both occasions i have been super NONneedy and she has been super excited to talk to me and likes to show off that she knows me. Today, i got a message from her and within minutes we were in a coffee shop talking about her toothache. Somehow she had not gone to the pharmacy till when I made the suggestion. When she came out to the coffee shop, she had on a body hugging black gown, which complements her light skin tone and accentuates her curves. When we were taking the walk to the pharmacy, i made sure to caliberate my touch enough. Someone might read that and think I'm acting soft or gungho on the pussy without having gotten nothing.. Haha. My reason tho was, prior to now, we have just been friends. But today, her warm skin made me into a brute again around her - Howbeit a sane one. I merely squeezed her shoulders and lower back.
#fresh 1
This one has taken me a few weeks to game. She is in Uni and for her, she has a tight schedule. We met once when a friend, my wingman, took me to see her. From then, each time i met with her (within 2 meets) i pushed for a date. When i finally got one, it had given nearly 3 weeks. I went to her place and she was alone so with time i warmed her up and saw how sexually suppressed she is. By the time i went for the kill, she was soo weak in her knees and her tummy ached (like she said). Pity overshadowed me and I postponed it mentally while giving her the moment to consider that i could see her the next day.
Since then, I've been dealing with a very flaky girl. So much so that i have dropped the ball on her matter.
Takeaways
My game fundamentals are tight and my persistence and endurance are paying off by letting me constantly remain in game mode more often than not, constantly tweaking my social skills and my process.
I have not had a hard time setting up dates. Sometimes i have flaked on girls who did not go with the lead i set the date up for - I'm ruthless about one-on-one dates & about short distance meet ups ( i.e., anyone who stays far away has to come to me.)
However I have a soft spot inside that gets super disgustingly caring when the lady I'm on a date with suffers any sort of health related mess. Looking at my previous dates within the past YEAR, each time a girl came over, she would appear ill at some point and the quack kindness in me would come to the fore to nurture. This is not like a whiteknight attribute - i do not go out of my way to care for them after the date but once we are together and my lady whines about a tummy ache or a headache or some other ailment, yeah! It just makes me begin getfing concerned that she might not be strong enough to be bed yet. I often end the date and hope to continue on a different day -- and that move has kept me lagging behind in pussy victories.
So to treat this, i have stopped fucking two girls i had on rotation. Might kill some of the laziness that came in and weed out the compassion. One of the girls was a typical gold-digger and she only wanted my dick. There was zero to minus level of compassion she had for me but for my dick, dickens, food and more dick. The other girl was in love with me but kept bouncing back and forth between me and her desire to get married. Needless to say, i often fucked her with a condom.. She still has strong emotions towards me but in two years, ive noticed a drop.
And that's a wrap. Feel free to quote any part of my lengthy type up and let me know what you all think.
Enjoy
In recent times, Approach anxiety is totally a thing of the past. For some of my readers, it still is and to that I say give it time. I only experience bouts of distractions and low motivation but if I am out and I see a pretty girl, between talking to her out of game and not talking to her out of fear, the former always occurs. Setting up dates have also gotten easier and it has helped me weed out soo many bad leads.
Currently i mix cold approach with social circle and online dating. I don't do clubs or bars at all - no time and too hypergamy inclined. I have two girls and this post will describe my circumstances with each.
#fresh 2
Between the two girls, this one is the more recent one. She is through social circle (SC from hereon) so we talk when we run into each other. On both occasions i have been super NONneedy and she has been super excited to talk to me and likes to show off that she knows me. Today, i got a message from her and within minutes we were in a coffee shop talking about her toothache. Somehow she had not gone to the pharmacy till when I made the suggestion. When she came out to the coffee shop, she had on a body hugging black gown, which complements her light skin tone and accentuates her curves. When we were taking the walk to the pharmacy, i made sure to caliberate my touch enough. Someone might read that and think I'm acting soft or gungho on the pussy without having gotten nothing.. Haha. My reason tho was, prior to now, we have just been friends. But today, her warm skin made me into a brute again around her - Howbeit a sane one. I merely squeezed her shoulders and lower back.
#fresh 1
This one has taken me a few weeks to game. She is in Uni and for her, she has a tight schedule. We met once when a friend, my wingman, took me to see her. From then, each time i met with her (within 2 meets) i pushed for a date. When i finally got one, it had given nearly 3 weeks. I went to her place and she was alone so with time i warmed her up and saw how sexually suppressed she is. By the time i went for the kill, she was soo weak in her knees and her tummy ached (like she said). Pity overshadowed me and I postponed it mentally while giving her the moment to consider that i could see her the next day.
Since then, I've been dealing with a very flaky girl. So much so that i have dropped the ball on her matter.
Takeaways
My game fundamentals are tight and my persistence and endurance are paying off by letting me constantly remain in game mode more often than not, constantly tweaking my social skills and my process.
I have not had a hard time setting up dates. Sometimes i have flaked on girls who did not go with the lead i set the date up for - I'm ruthless about one-on-one dates & about short distance meet ups ( i.e., anyone who stays far away has to come to me.)
However I have a soft spot inside that gets super disgustingly caring when the lady I'm on a date with suffers any sort of health related mess. Looking at my previous dates within the past YEAR, each time a girl came over, she would appear ill at some point and the quack kindness in me would come to the fore to nurture. This is not like a whiteknight attribute - i do not go out of my way to care for them after the date but once we are together and my lady whines about a tummy ache or a headache or some other ailment, yeah! It just makes me begin getfing concerned that she might not be strong enough to be bed yet. I often end the date and hope to continue on a different day -- and that move has kept me lagging behind in pussy victories.
So to treat this, i have stopped fucking two girls i had on rotation. Might kill some of the laziness that came in and weed out the compassion. One of the girls was a typical gold-digger and she only wanted my dick. There was zero to minus level of compassion she had for me but for my dick, dickens, food and more dick. The other girl was in love with me but kept bouncing back and forth between me and her desire to get married. Needless to say, i often fucked her with a condom.. She still has strong emotions towards me but in two years, ive noticed a drop.
And that's a wrap. Feel free to quote any part of my lengthy type up and let me know what you all think.
Enjoy
