First things first, does this interaction look like attraction from her end at all or not really? So I met this woman, chatted a bit, I liked chatting to her, she may have liked me but I'm not sure, I put the interaction below. She could have just be being friendly as she did mention her partner twice without me asking. Bad sign?
My other question is, if there was mutual attraction. What now? I didn't ask for contact details or any plans because she has a partner. I'm not sure i want to go for someone who has a partner because if she leaves him, whats to stop her leaving me in future as well? So i'm not sure if I should go for her right now that may taint my image of her, maybe. But if she were to become single it would be nice to have her contact details assuming we did vibe well.
Anyway.... what now? I figure two options.
1. Momentum. Go back today after being there yesterday, and chat a bit, and ask for contact details. Maybe say I felt we had a good vibe and would be nice to get to know you more? Or is that a bit needy/chasey? And coming back the next day is that needy, would that keep momentum going or too much of a break?
2. Just go back there in a month or more, and go for details then. Again, dunno what I'd say to get them[maybe number1. above?].
Interaction below
I noticed a worker in a very tiny shop and decided to browse that shop after doing my grocery shopping. Unsure if she may have noticed me looking in as I walked passed, probably not but maybe
Me:* ***Browses shop and kept back to her area***
Her: ****comes up next to me after some of the customers leave**** Do you need a hand with anything?
Me: Ahhhh I'mJust browsing, just having a look.
Her: Oh rightio ***she turned to almost walk away***
Me: Quite busy at this time!
Her: Yeah its closing time soon!
Me: Oh true I'm just visiting.
Her: Where are you from
Me: xyz.
Her: My partner is from there or lives there
Me: Its a nice place its much better than here.
Her; Yeah we sometimes have arguments about which is better place
Me: Are you a local? You have to be you work here!
Her: No I'm from abc.
Me: Oh true. What made you choose here? Has a bad reputation
Her: I'm insane!
Me: ***turned away a bit then turned right around but still not fully facing her*** You're insane?
Her: No not really
me: Oh phew.... lol. You worried me for a second. ***Her body was nearly facing me, but not fully and was a few degrees slightly away but she put her hands through her hair and kept froze her hands up there for a bit, there were other people in the direction she was facing so maybe that was not aimed at me.***
Her: I just came here after moving out my parents
Me: Yeah has a bad rep. but xyz is better
Her: yeah my parnter and i argue over which is better! But xyz has horses.... cows....
me: horses... cows... what?
her.... oh nevermind
me... you can say it
her... no
me.... c'mon I wont tell anyone
her... just certain people act like cows
me.... oh they women trying to take your partner away from you?
her.... no hes too busy with computer games
me.... oh why dont you play with him?
her... i do!
me... is that warcraft? I dont know much about them
her... yeah zombies and stuff
***there were other people so she had to go back to the checkout***
***she came back***
Her: let me know if need a hand dont be fussed about the closing time
Me: no worries just browsing
The music went off so i finished browsing and went around to her area and she turned around
me.... closing time! I heard the music go off
her... yeah about to shut up shop. ***she was facing me and sort of took a step forward then hesitated and stood there with one leg bent but pointing towards me. I was standing the large doorway roller door so she may have been wanting to get to that***
me... you know its ... its a shame your taken you're quite breath taking
her.... ***puts one hand near her face and starts moving it up and down to move air on her face to cool it down*** I'm going red!
me... ***smiled*** can't remember if i said anything or just stood there . i wanted to ask her about but she had a partner
her... thankyou
me... nice to meet you ***walked out***
her... *slight pause* see ya
She did smile at the end and during the interaction at times if I remember correctly. But again could just be friendly. She mentioned her partner twice without me asking.
My other question is, if there was mutual attraction. What now? I didn't ask for contact details or any plans because she has a partner. I'm not sure i want to go for someone who has a partner because if she leaves him, whats to stop her leaving me in future as well? So i'm not sure if I should go for her right now that may taint my image of her, maybe. But if she were to become single it would be nice to have her contact details assuming we did vibe well.
Anyway.... what now? I figure two options.
1. Momentum. Go back today after being there yesterday, and chat a bit, and ask for contact details. Maybe say I felt we had a good vibe and would be nice to get to know you more? Or is that a bit needy/chasey? And coming back the next day is that needy, would that keep momentum going or too much of a break?
2. Just go back there in a month or more, and go for details then. Again, dunno what I'd say to get them[maybe number1. above?].
Interaction below
I noticed a worker in a very tiny shop and decided to browse that shop after doing my grocery shopping. Unsure if she may have noticed me looking in as I walked passed, probably not but maybe
Me:* ***Browses shop and kept back to her area***
Her: ****comes up next to me after some of the customers leave**** Do you need a hand with anything?
Me: Ahhhh I'mJust browsing, just having a look.
Her: Oh rightio ***she turned to almost walk away***
Me: Quite busy at this time!
Her: Yeah its closing time soon!
Me: Oh true I'm just visiting.
Her: Where are you from
Me: xyz.
Her: My partner is from there or lives there
Me: Its a nice place its much better than here.
Her; Yeah we sometimes have arguments about which is better place
Me: Are you a local? You have to be you work here!
Her: No I'm from abc.
Me: Oh true. What made you choose here? Has a bad reputation
Her: I'm insane!
Me: ***turned away a bit then turned right around but still not fully facing her*** You're insane?
Her: No not really
me: Oh phew.... lol. You worried me for a second. ***Her body was nearly facing me, but not fully and was a few degrees slightly away but she put her hands through her hair and kept froze her hands up there for a bit, there were other people in the direction she was facing so maybe that was not aimed at me.***
Her: I just came here after moving out my parents
Me: Yeah has a bad rep. but xyz is better
Her: yeah my parnter and i argue over which is better! But xyz has horses.... cows....
me: horses... cows... what?
her.... oh nevermind
me... you can say it
her... no
me.... c'mon I wont tell anyone
her... just certain people act like cows
me.... oh they women trying to take your partner away from you?
her.... no hes too busy with computer games
me.... oh why dont you play with him?
her... i do!
me... is that warcraft? I dont know much about them
her... yeah zombies and stuff
***there were other people so she had to go back to the checkout***
***she came back***
Her: let me know if need a hand dont be fussed about the closing time
Me: no worries just browsing
The music went off so i finished browsing and went around to her area and she turned around
me.... closing time! I heard the music go off
her... yeah about to shut up shop. ***she was facing me and sort of took a step forward then hesitated and stood there with one leg bent but pointing towards me. I was standing the large doorway roller door so she may have been wanting to get to that***
me... you know its ... its a shame your taken you're quite breath taking
her.... ***puts one hand near her face and starts moving it up and down to move air on her face to cool it down*** I'm going red!
me... ***smiled*** can't remember if i said anything or just stood there . i wanted to ask her about but she had a partner
her... thankyou
me... nice to meet you ***walked out***
her... *slight pause* see ya
She did smile at the end and during the interaction at times if I remember correctly. But again could just be friendly. She mentioned her partner twice without me asking.
