I'm trying to figure out what vibe I'm giving out to see if I can tap into it and direct this energy.
This Morning as I'm running down the mountain, drenched with sweat, I meet CD who has fallen in love with a fellow runner and is moving away to live with him. I'd said my goodbyes this weekend with a platonic hug. She is on her way up the mountain with a dozen other runners as I am coming down. She goes right in for a hug, sweat and all. Then still holding me gives me a peck on the lips, pulls back and then dives in for a long five second kiss. We part as she heads up the hill and I head down.
I read this as a "Hey, I'm still an option if you need one" . We both know about, and have discussed with each other about, each others SO's, but I think we are both keeping each other as orbiters...
Then this morning at work, a woman who is a family friend for 20 years, and a couple years older than I shows up. We banter a bit across the counter with my coworkers, and she gives me a goodnatured zinger comment then leans across the counter and plants one on my lips...Luckily I saw it coming an was able to field it cleanly without being startled and surprised. Little more than a peck but not much. Then her next comment is asking "you still got that same girlfriend?" We part with her recounting to my colleagues how she was going to try to prank me at an event earlier this summer, but my girlfriend turned around and caught her in the act.
It surprised me because I always thought she had taken my wife's side in the divorce.
So what has me giving off this "kissable" vibe?
Two days ago I shaved my goatee and mustache to a #1 (shortest clipper guard length)
I was pumped up from the hard run up and down the mountain
2 hours later I was still buzzing from the run, with music I'd listened to still running through my head.
I'd just gotten a text from my girlfriend telling me she was horny, and I had just replied that I was going to fuck her good when I saw her Saturday.
So my Hypothesis is that when you are feeling Alpha, and powerful, and sexual, women can sense it and are drawn to it. Your thoughts?
This Morning as I'm running down the mountain, drenched with sweat, I meet CD who has fallen in love with a fellow runner and is moving away to live with him. I'd said my goodbyes this weekend with a platonic hug. She is on her way up the mountain with a dozen other runners as I am coming down. She goes right in for a hug, sweat and all. Then still holding me gives me a peck on the lips, pulls back and then dives in for a long five second kiss. We part as she heads up the hill and I head down.
I read this as a "Hey, I'm still an option if you need one" . We both know about, and have discussed with each other about, each others SO's, but I think we are both keeping each other as orbiters...
Then this morning at work, a woman who is a family friend for 20 years, and a couple years older than I shows up. We banter a bit across the counter with my coworkers, and she gives me a goodnatured zinger comment then leans across the counter and plants one on my lips...Luckily I saw it coming an was able to field it cleanly without being startled and surprised. Little more than a peck but not much. Then her next comment is asking "you still got that same girlfriend?" We part with her recounting to my colleagues how she was going to try to prank me at an event earlier this summer, but my girlfriend turned around and caught her in the act.
It surprised me because I always thought she had taken my wife's side in the divorce.
So what has me giving off this "kissable" vibe?
Two days ago I shaved my goatee and mustache to a #1 (shortest clipper guard length)
I was pumped up from the hard run up and down the mountain
2 hours later I was still buzzing from the run, with music I'd listened to still running through my head.
I'd just gotten a text from my girlfriend telling me she was horny, and I had just replied that I was going to fuck her good when I saw her Saturday.
So my Hypothesis is that when you are feeling Alpha, and powerful, and sexual, women can sense it and are drawn to it. Your thoughts?
