FR++: 14 November 2016
I matched with a 21 year old Vietnamese cutie, Candy on Tinder in Hanoi. We organised a date a few days later and she met me outside my hostel. She was very petite and short, and had a very cute face and chin length hair.
We grabbed dinner at a restaurant across the road. Details are hazy, but deep diving and building comfort were my goals. I laid chase frames where I thanked her for dressing up for me, and asked her what she liked to do other meeting up with handsome guys for dinner. My eye contact was warm and sweet. At one point I placed my hand on her hand across the table. I vocalised that I thought that she was cute. She had this shy, quirkiness about her which was very alluring..
We eventually wrapped up dinner, and went for a walk down to the lake. I held her hand along the way and we sat down my the edge of the lake. I kissed her cheek a couple of times, and she was very shy when we were talking, so I eased her mind with a sweet soothing voice mixed with comfort building and warm touch. She asked me to sing for her ar one point, and I told her that if I did, she'd have to kiss me. So I sung Ocean Drive for her, and she video recorded me as well. Afterwards, I told her to kiss me, but she was so shy. I persisted with my frame and wasn't prepared to let her slip by without her kissing me. I faced her and closed my eyes, expecting her to kiss me. She eventually did after 20 seconds of coyness and hesitation. After the kiss, I returned to comfort building.
We then went for a walk around the lake, hand in hand. She told me that her heart fluttered whenever I held her hand. I enjoyed using individual fingers to massage her palm and fingers as I held onto her hand. Her English was not very good, but I managed to make the conversation work. We walk around for 20 minutes looking for a place to get ice cream. We eventually found a place. She bought me ice cream and I thanked her warmly.
I then pulled her shortly after, by saying it was too hot outside and that we could chill in my room with aircon. She obliged.
We arrived at my hostel, and in my room, I popped on the TV, and faffed around for a bit. I got her to remove her shoes and told her to join me in bed. My escalation was cuddling and kissing her cheek, before eventually kissing her lips. It was met with resistance, but I eventually wore her down and we transitioned to heated making out. Warming her up to even kissing me took a long time.
Afterwards, I tried to rub around her pussy but it was met with resistance. She had to leave shortly after, despite my strong persistence with trying to get her to stay.
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Finishing thoughts: physical escalation at dinner and holding her hand was good. I did well in generating comfort by being warm and sweet. My pull was good. I think I did well by getting the first kiss during physial escalation. Transitioning for cheek kisses to actual kissing seems to work well for me at the moment.
FR++: 15 November 2016:
Candy was out with friends near my hostel. She wanted to see me. She came up straight to my room but said she couldn't stay for very long. She entered the room at around midnight and collapsed on the bed because she was so tired. Eventually we got under the covers and I kissed her a bit, but the whole time was trying to convince her to spend the night with me. I told her we could cuddle and be together. I told her I was sad to see her go yesterday. I told her she could tell her friends she was going to stay with me for the night. But her friends called her 20 minutes later and she insisted on rejoining her friends despite my persistence in getting her to stay.
LR--: 17 November 2016:
We met up at 6.45pm outside my hostel, and grabbed dinner nearby. I could tell that she was feeling a little awkward for some reason. The initial meet was awkward as hell. I didn't hug, touch her or nothing. I think she was a little bit annoyed because she waited a while for me to come down to meet her. The conversation between us was kinda lacking at dinner.
Her poor English ability meant that communication was tough and it was difficult to connect. We just ended up fluff talking about a bunch of stuff. I think she was feeling particularly on edge that day for some reason. I then pulled her to my room.
She seemed to be resisting my kisses for some reason, but she absolutely loved it when I licked and kissed her neck. Whenever I got near her pussy, there was resistance. Whenever I touched her bare skin on her stomach, she flinched.
I escalated on her chest, and lay my head on her boobs. I talked about how cute they were and played around with them for a bit. She seemed to like it. I eventually slipped my fingers under her bra to play with her nipples a bit, which she seemed to enjoy. I eventually added some tongue and began tongue her breasts. I pulled out her boobs out of her bra and through her shirt, and went to town on her nipples. She really enjoyed me sucking on them. She would not let me take off her tshirt however.
At one point, I gave her a saucy massage where she laid on her stomach which she seemed to enjoy. I massaged and groped her ass, but she resisted whenever I came near her pussy.
I moves to her feet. I took off her socks, which was met with resistance. I told her I was just going to give her a foot massage. I rubbed the soles of her feet before working her toes. I pressed my face against her toes and began to suck on them. She initially resisted, but I continued anyway and she began to moan as I sucked on her digits. I then went on the suck her nipples some more, and kissed her neck, both which she loved. "Do you like it when suck your nipples?" I asked. "Yes," she moaned.
I eventually tried to push things forward and placed her hand on my dick through my boxers when things got hot and heavy. She pulled back and resisted whenever I tried to pull her hand down to my cock. All my attempts to come near her pussy were rebuffed.
At one point I srarted talking dirty talk her, telling her that I could smell her pussy. "I can't think about anything but licking your pussy baby," I moaned. She seemed to enjoy the dirty talk about her pussy. I continued it on for a bit, but she still wouldn't let my hands anywhere near her pussy. She later revealed that no one had ever touched her pussy before. I think that I may have been the first guy she'd ever been with as well. I continued my dirty talk telling her how badly I wanted to lick her pussy. "I just want to lick her pussy babe. I want to give you pleasure. I want to make you cum," I moaned. She still would not budge, but I think I managed to turn her on.
At 10pm she had to leave home to meet a university deadline, so I didn't persist in getting her to stay. I Facebook messaged her the day after to say I had fun with her the night before. She didn't respond and to this date still hasn't seen the message. I'm thinking she probably felt guilty for going fooling around with me. I figure that she's probably the conservative type. Or maybe she resented me for being so eager to have sex. In a previous Facebook conversation she outright asked if I was looking to hook up.
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Finishing thoughts:
I didn't do well with the dinner conversation. The vibe was awkward and tense. I think my physical escalation was good even though I was not able to get anywhere near her pussy. I was also persistent. I possibly was a little too eager. I think in some instances, the wise move would've be to back and be aloof and allow her to pursue me. I think that would've had a higher probability of success. Something to test out in the future.
I think I did well with the honesty at the end, where I told her what I wanted to do to her pussy. Going to try out being bluntly honesty more in future interactions. I think I may have been able to overcome her resistance if I had more time, and continued telling her what I wanted to do to her pussy.
Candy was definitely a fun girl, and I'm glad I had the learning experience with her.
Jeffrey
I matched with a 21 year old Vietnamese cutie, Candy on Tinder in Hanoi. We organised a date a few days later and she met me outside my hostel. She was very petite and short, and had a very cute face and chin length hair.
We grabbed dinner at a restaurant across the road. Details are hazy, but deep diving and building comfort were my goals. I laid chase frames where I thanked her for dressing up for me, and asked her what she liked to do other meeting up with handsome guys for dinner. My eye contact was warm and sweet. At one point I placed my hand on her hand across the table. I vocalised that I thought that she was cute. She had this shy, quirkiness about her which was very alluring..
We eventually wrapped up dinner, and went for a walk down to the lake. I held her hand along the way and we sat down my the edge of the lake. I kissed her cheek a couple of times, and she was very shy when we were talking, so I eased her mind with a sweet soothing voice mixed with comfort building and warm touch. She asked me to sing for her ar one point, and I told her that if I did, she'd have to kiss me. So I sung Ocean Drive for her, and she video recorded me as well. Afterwards, I told her to kiss me, but she was so shy. I persisted with my frame and wasn't prepared to let her slip by without her kissing me. I faced her and closed my eyes, expecting her to kiss me. She eventually did after 20 seconds of coyness and hesitation. After the kiss, I returned to comfort building.
We then went for a walk around the lake, hand in hand. She told me that her heart fluttered whenever I held her hand. I enjoyed using individual fingers to massage her palm and fingers as I held onto her hand. Her English was not very good, but I managed to make the conversation work. We walk around for 20 minutes looking for a place to get ice cream. We eventually found a place. She bought me ice cream and I thanked her warmly.
I then pulled her shortly after, by saying it was too hot outside and that we could chill in my room with aircon. She obliged.
We arrived at my hostel, and in my room, I popped on the TV, and faffed around for a bit. I got her to remove her shoes and told her to join me in bed. My escalation was cuddling and kissing her cheek, before eventually kissing her lips. It was met with resistance, but I eventually wore her down and we transitioned to heated making out. Warming her up to even kissing me took a long time.
Afterwards, I tried to rub around her pussy but it was met with resistance. She had to leave shortly after, despite my strong persistence with trying to get her to stay.
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Finishing thoughts: physical escalation at dinner and holding her hand was good. I did well in generating comfort by being warm and sweet. My pull was good. I think I did well by getting the first kiss during physial escalation. Transitioning for cheek kisses to actual kissing seems to work well for me at the moment.
FR++: 15 November 2016:
Candy was out with friends near my hostel. She wanted to see me. She came up straight to my room but said she couldn't stay for very long. She entered the room at around midnight and collapsed on the bed because she was so tired. Eventually we got under the covers and I kissed her a bit, but the whole time was trying to convince her to spend the night with me. I told her we could cuddle and be together. I told her I was sad to see her go yesterday. I told her she could tell her friends she was going to stay with me for the night. But her friends called her 20 minutes later and she insisted on rejoining her friends despite my persistence in getting her to stay.
LR--: 17 November 2016:
We met up at 6.45pm outside my hostel, and grabbed dinner nearby. I could tell that she was feeling a little awkward for some reason. The initial meet was awkward as hell. I didn't hug, touch her or nothing. I think she was a little bit annoyed because she waited a while for me to come down to meet her. The conversation between us was kinda lacking at dinner.
Her poor English ability meant that communication was tough and it was difficult to connect. We just ended up fluff talking about a bunch of stuff. I think she was feeling particularly on edge that day for some reason. I then pulled her to my room.
She seemed to be resisting my kisses for some reason, but she absolutely loved it when I licked and kissed her neck. Whenever I got near her pussy, there was resistance. Whenever I touched her bare skin on her stomach, she flinched.
I escalated on her chest, and lay my head on her boobs. I talked about how cute they were and played around with them for a bit. She seemed to like it. I eventually slipped my fingers under her bra to play with her nipples a bit, which she seemed to enjoy. I eventually added some tongue and began tongue her breasts. I pulled out her boobs out of her bra and through her shirt, and went to town on her nipples. She really enjoyed me sucking on them. She would not let me take off her tshirt however.
At one point, I gave her a saucy massage where she laid on her stomach which she seemed to enjoy. I massaged and groped her ass, but she resisted whenever I came near her pussy.
I moves to her feet. I took off her socks, which was met with resistance. I told her I was just going to give her a foot massage. I rubbed the soles of her feet before working her toes. I pressed my face against her toes and began to suck on them. She initially resisted, but I continued anyway and she began to moan as I sucked on her digits. I then went on the suck her nipples some more, and kissed her neck, both which she loved. "Do you like it when suck your nipples?" I asked. "Yes," she moaned.
I eventually tried to push things forward and placed her hand on my dick through my boxers when things got hot and heavy. She pulled back and resisted whenever I tried to pull her hand down to my cock. All my attempts to come near her pussy were rebuffed.
At one point I srarted talking dirty talk her, telling her that I could smell her pussy. "I can't think about anything but licking your pussy baby," I moaned. She seemed to enjoy the dirty talk about her pussy. I continued it on for a bit, but she still wouldn't let my hands anywhere near her pussy. She later revealed that no one had ever touched her pussy before. I think that I may have been the first guy she'd ever been with as well. I continued my dirty talk telling her how badly I wanted to lick her pussy. "I just want to lick her pussy babe. I want to give you pleasure. I want to make you cum," I moaned. She still would not budge, but I think I managed to turn her on.
At 10pm she had to leave home to meet a university deadline, so I didn't persist in getting her to stay. I Facebook messaged her the day after to say I had fun with her the night before. She didn't respond and to this date still hasn't seen the message. I'm thinking she probably felt guilty for going fooling around with me. I figure that she's probably the conservative type. Or maybe she resented me for being so eager to have sex. In a previous Facebook conversation she outright asked if I was looking to hook up.
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Finishing thoughts:
I didn't do well with the dinner conversation. The vibe was awkward and tense. I think my physical escalation was good even though I was not able to get anywhere near her pussy. I was also persistent. I possibly was a little too eager. I think in some instances, the wise move would've be to back and be aloof and allow her to pursue me. I think that would've had a higher probability of success. Something to test out in the future.
I think I did well with the honesty at the end, where I told her what I wanted to do to her pussy. Going to try out being bluntly honesty more in future interactions. I think I may have been able to overcome her resistance if I had more time, and continued telling her what I wanted to do to her pussy.
Candy was definitely a fun girl, and I'm glad I had the learning experience with her.
Jeffrey
