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Had been on my first real cold streak since i started approaching actively and consistently. My confidence had been all over the place ever since I had my first failed escalation last friday. All week i was up and down until I finally got myself out and about to approach. This is a FR about me day gaming at school and the mall on friday
Friday {10/7}- woke up, did my normal routine, then headed to school with the mind of approaching. My mind was still inhibiting my process with these bullshit excuses. This is when i wrote a post of how my confidence was gone. Immediately as i'm doing so I get a newsletter email from chase that addresses this situation specifically. I read it and it basically states how most men have two types of approach anxiety, 1)being a complete beginner with no experience whatsoever and 2) Being lazy or having your mind give you excuses. I realize what I've been doing to myself and I apply his method to get over this by being social. I spot this girl who's a maintenance cleaner for the school.She's not really that attractive to me. Her body was decent but her face was whatever. I spot her and call her over and command her to come over using my non verbals. She walks towards me. I forgot what i opened with, probably situational since i saw her shortly before this.
The beginning of the convo was pretty awkward, not going to lie. I was just asking her question, trying to warm her up with some light teasing and jokes. Eventually she warms up and I find out she live right down the street from me. I set up a dinner date and get her #. I go to class and sent her an icebreaker about 3 hours later to which she responded warmly. Not 100% sold on this girl but i'll go ahead with it anyways.
After class finishes i go and get my haircut. We talk about the whole clown movement going on at the moment, sports, shit like that then I leave on my way. I head to a local mall i had went to earlier in the week. These were my goals for the day:
Approach at least 8 girls
Get 3 Numbers
Approach at least 2 girls who are in a group
.
Shit started of real slow. I mostly asked people for directions and smiled at a few people. I struck a convo up with a guy who sells shoe cleaner who sees me around the mall all the time. This is my day game spot at the moment (it's a one story indoor mall and all the local hotties come hear. I ask him what did he do to get hired on and we have small talk for a bit. I continue on and keep building my momentum and I've walked around for a bit I spot a good approach. This cute Asian girl with straight, long black hair is near me. I call over to her loudly and she greets my eyes. Then she just looks away and continues walking not trying to hear my opener, lol. I've yet to open an Asian girl at the mall, they just look at me and keep walking. (My wing i met up with a couple weeks ago told me that Asian girls are normally the hardest for him to open and he's Asian himself.)I shrug it off and continue walking, feeling more confident from doing my first approach.
I walk abit and go back to the shoe cleaner stand. I stand for a sec and then notice this gorgeous dark-skinned black girl. She has on tight fitting pants showing of her gargantuan rump and a crop top hugging her tits. I stop her and compliment her saying "I thought you were super cute." She just looks at me with an indifferent face and says "thanks" then keeps walking. I turn around and notice the shoe cleaner guy saw me approach. However I wasn't self-conscious about it at all, not really giving a fuck. In the past i might have felt embarrassed or even avoided approaching knowing he was around but i've grown more confident in myself over the past few week and IDC if someone sees me get rejected anymore which is great!
I walk in the other direction of the mall and lurk around abit. I was chilling around another shoe cleaning stand chatting it up with a young buck. As i'm talking I notice this sexy Russian girl. Now sexy Russian girl is someone who opened me when i went to the mall earlier in the week. She's pretty tall, light skin complexion with curly blond hair and gorgeous hazel eyes. She was a cashier for some candy stand and was insisting I buy something. I tried flirting with her and while she flirted back she deflected all my advances in conversation and focused on trying to get me to buy something. Eventually she ejected herself from conversation once she realized i wouldn't buy something through her being flirt and I went about my way. Now today i see her and she tells me "hey how's it going" and touches my shoulder as she walks by. I don't know what the fuck that was but young buck notices it so I gained some social proof points.This girl is out of my league based on my standards at the moment but i didn't stop myself from approaching. Eventually i'll be slaying bitches like her on the regular so i'm not to worked up about it.
After leaving that shoe stand I notice this sexy light-skinned black girl with brown hair and blond highlights. She's wearing a cute outfit consisting of black leggings and a white top. I think she's gorgeous. I open
About 5 minutes later I see a curly haired Burnett( I've been keying in on them lately) and open
I then notice a hot Latina milf in leggings. I call her out and she has a real bitchy expression on her face similar to the look hector was talking about in his recent article. I say I thought she was gorgeous and she immediately does a 360, smiling at me. However, she continues walking to go wherever she had to go.
After this I see another light skinned girl who had been trailing behind two other girls. I had saw her earlier but decided against approaching(in my head). This time however i say i'm not letting this one get away and I call out to her. She can clearly hear me yet she continues walking. I probably should've persisted more and walked next to her side by side but i didn't. Ann... I move on from this one and continue. Eventually I see curly haired blond from earlier walking around, as i predicted. I call it a day and exit the mall.
Overall, today was a good fucking day, not result wise but with me noticing my progress. I did one approach at school and six at the mall. I didn't hit my goal of 8 but that was the most I've ever done in one day by myself. I also stopped my stupid mind talk and pushed through the excuses i had been giving myself. Even when i was forcibly about to leave after my 3rd approach i stopped myself until i got closer to my goal. I also got a # and I've built a steady reference to how my approaches go:
1) The girl sees me acknowledge her but continues walking along ( The Asian girl & light skin blonde)
2) The girl stops and hears my opener with an indifferent look on her face and then keeps walking (the sexy black girl)
3) The girl stops hears my opener and talks to me for abit, but she's not sold on me and ejects ( curly haired Burnett)
4)The girl hears my opener and responds warmly however, I'll eject from convo and she'll acknowledge my confidence by saying it was nice talking to me( i'm assuming this is a sign that i could've kept the interaction moving and pushed for the #. (sexy, light skinned blond)
5) Same as #4 but I # close or move them somewhere else. (girl from school)
I still need to work on having a stronger frame, persisting more, and closing for #'s in approaches that go well. Im Going to do some more day game this Sunday and push for at least 8 approaches.
That's it for this post, keep on pimping fellas
-Biz
Had been on my first real cold streak since i started approaching actively and consistently. My confidence had been all over the place ever since I had my first failed escalation last friday. All week i was up and down until I finally got myself out and about to approach. This is a FR about me day gaming at school and the mall on friday
Friday {10/7}- woke up, did my normal routine, then headed to school with the mind of approaching. My mind was still inhibiting my process with these bullshit excuses. This is when i wrote a post of how my confidence was gone. Immediately as i'm doing so I get a newsletter email from chase that addresses this situation specifically. I read it and it basically states how most men have two types of approach anxiety, 1)being a complete beginner with no experience whatsoever and 2) Being lazy or having your mind give you excuses. I realize what I've been doing to myself and I apply his method to get over this by being social. I spot this girl who's a maintenance cleaner for the school.She's not really that attractive to me. Her body was decent but her face was whatever. I spot her and call her over and command her to come over using my non verbals. She walks towards me. I forgot what i opened with, probably situational since i saw her shortly before this.
The beginning of the convo was pretty awkward, not going to lie. I was just asking her question, trying to warm her up with some light teasing and jokes. Eventually she warms up and I find out she live right down the street from me. I set up a dinner date and get her #. I go to class and sent her an icebreaker about 3 hours later to which she responded warmly. Not 100% sold on this girl but i'll go ahead with it anyways.
After class finishes i go and get my haircut. We talk about the whole clown movement going on at the moment, sports, shit like that then I leave on my way. I head to a local mall i had went to earlier in the week. These were my goals for the day:
Approach at least 8 girls
Get 3 Numbers
Approach at least 2 girls who are in a group
.
Shit started of real slow. I mostly asked people for directions and smiled at a few people. I struck a convo up with a guy who sells shoe cleaner who sees me around the mall all the time. This is my day game spot at the moment (it's a one story indoor mall and all the local hotties come hear. I ask him what did he do to get hired on and we have small talk for a bit. I continue on and keep building my momentum and I've walked around for a bit I spot a good approach. This cute Asian girl with straight, long black hair is near me. I call over to her loudly and she greets my eyes. Then she just looks away and continues walking not trying to hear my opener, lol. I've yet to open an Asian girl at the mall, they just look at me and keep walking. (My wing i met up with a couple weeks ago told me that Asian girls are normally the hardest for him to open and he's Asian himself.)I shrug it off and continue walking, feeling more confident from doing my first approach.
I walk abit and go back to the shoe cleaner stand. I stand for a sec and then notice this gorgeous dark-skinned black girl. She has on tight fitting pants showing of her gargantuan rump and a crop top hugging her tits. I stop her and compliment her saying "I thought you were super cute." She just looks at me with an indifferent face and says "thanks" then keeps walking. I turn around and notice the shoe cleaner guy saw me approach. However I wasn't self-conscious about it at all, not really giving a fuck. In the past i might have felt embarrassed or even avoided approaching knowing he was around but i've grown more confident in myself over the past few week and IDC if someone sees me get rejected anymore which is great!
I walk in the other direction of the mall and lurk around abit. I was chilling around another shoe cleaning stand chatting it up with a young buck. As i'm talking I notice this sexy Russian girl. Now sexy Russian girl is someone who opened me when i went to the mall earlier in the week. She's pretty tall, light skin complexion with curly blond hair and gorgeous hazel eyes. She was a cashier for some candy stand and was insisting I buy something. I tried flirting with her and while she flirted back she deflected all my advances in conversation and focused on trying to get me to buy something. Eventually she ejected herself from conversation once she realized i wouldn't buy something through her being flirt and I went about my way. Now today i see her and she tells me "hey how's it going" and touches my shoulder as she walks by. I don't know what the fuck that was but young buck notices it so I gained some social proof points.This girl is out of my league based on my standards at the moment but i didn't stop myself from approaching. Eventually i'll be slaying bitches like her on the regular so i'm not to worked up about it.
After leaving that shoe stand I notice this sexy light-skinned black girl with brown hair and blond highlights. She's wearing a cute outfit consisting of black leggings and a white top. I think she's gorgeous. I open
She tells me she's just shopping around and I say that's nice. Then i stupidly eject saying "it was nice talking to her". She turns and says " It was nice talking to her" to which i respond by agreeing with her. Idk why i ejected, from her signal i'm sure she was interested but i wasn't in the right state and was fumbling with my words abit. This might have me been subconsciously leaving thinking that she would reject me later on in the interaction. However she was a girl who fits my type and if i got her # she would've been the hottest girl in which I've done so basically throughout my entire life.However at the time i didn't think much of it and continued walking in the other direction. At this point i get back to the mall entrance I came in and i'm contemplating leaving to go home or try another local mall down the street. Then I tell myself I;'m not leaving till I get this fucking goal. Fuck that!" I turn around and continue approaching
About 5 minutes later I see a curly haired Burnett( I've been keying in on them lately) and open
From my past experiences i know this is a common flake. I persisted saying i would walk with her until she got to the store but she says she's in a rush or whatever. I figure she was lying to to me so I bid her farewell and continue walking.
I then notice a hot Latina milf in leggings. I call her out and she has a real bitchy expression on her face similar to the look hector was talking about in his recent article. I say I thought she was gorgeous and she immediately does a 360, smiling at me. However, she continues walking to go wherever she had to go.
After this I see another light skinned girl who had been trailing behind two other girls. I had saw her earlier but decided against approaching(in my head). This time however i say i'm not letting this one get away and I call out to her. She can clearly hear me yet she continues walking. I probably should've persisted more and walked next to her side by side but i didn't. Ann... I move on from this one and continue. Eventually I see curly haired blond from earlier walking around, as i predicted. I call it a day and exit the mall.
Overall, today was a good fucking day, not result wise but with me noticing my progress. I did one approach at school and six at the mall. I didn't hit my goal of 8 but that was the most I've ever done in one day by myself. I also stopped my stupid mind talk and pushed through the excuses i had been giving myself. Even when i was forcibly about to leave after my 3rd approach i stopped myself until i got closer to my goal. I also got a # and I've built a steady reference to how my approaches go:
1) The girl sees me acknowledge her but continues walking along ( The Asian girl & light skin blonde)
2) The girl stops and hears my opener with an indifferent look on her face and then keeps walking (the sexy black girl)
3) The girl stops hears my opener and talks to me for abit, but she's not sold on me and ejects ( curly haired Burnett)
4)The girl hears my opener and responds warmly however, I'll eject from convo and she'll acknowledge my confidence by saying it was nice talking to me( i'm assuming this is a sign that i could've kept the interaction moving and pushed for the #. (sexy, light skinned blond)
5) Same as #4 but I # close or move them somewhere else. (girl from school)
I still need to work on having a stronger frame, persisting more, and closing for #'s in approaches that go well. Im Going to do some more day game this Sunday and push for at least 8 approaches.
That's it for this post, keep on pimping fellas
-Biz
