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TL;DR Happy that I made some things happen here but my sexual vibe and escalation skills are weak. Any advice for Tinder/arousal/escalation or otherwise is appreciated.
My fourth match was this unfeasibly hot blonde, a real stunner. I'm suitably stunned but just do the usual.
Tinder
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Then 36 hours later on the day of the date, she gets back to me..
She's really into it and we have loads of fun for an hour until it gets dark. I'm touching and holding her all over and lifting her high in the air. At one point she lies down with a sigh but I don't jump her. Finally I go for a kiss but am conscious that my mouth tastes bad so the kiss is terrible and after a short time she says she has to go. We walk back, and surprisingly, she tells me I have a very sexy body. Also says she likes the beach. I weakly persist about going for a drink but she insists, and we part ways.
Follow up an hour after date:
Second date
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Now, during our chat it becomes apparent that she's not some dumb crazy Tinder slut. She's refined, insightful, socially graceful and has her life together better than me. I let a few doubts creep in, feeling she's way out of my league.
At this point I don't feel things are going well. She's said she has a job application to write by tonight and will head off soon. I don't feel I should take her to an obvious F-close location I had earmarked a little further down a fire track. It was gonna be good. I had made a makeshift lantern and had some mossie coils. I have pulled this style before but tonight didn't seem like the night. I haven't even begun doing anything sexual beyond a polite arm around her.
We went to a semi-isolated spot and did some tricks. Maybe I was a little over-ambitious and we failed to nail some of them but she had fun and seemed to be more comfortable with my leadership than before.
Escalation
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Eventually it's dark and I beckon her to lie down and begin to kiss her. I had swilled coconut oil and used mint so my mouth felt fresh and the kiss was nice. Felt good. I started fumbling her breasts, ass and pussy over her clothes but was a little awkward. Just didn't quite hit the spot. She said she had to go. I persisted "let's just stay another five minutes" she agreed and I noticed my persistance seemed to spike her attraction somewhat. However I didn't really hit it - I didn't get hard, something was missing and then she said she had to go when I got into her pants.
She was polite and composed and we parted ways earlier this evening. I'll follow up tomorrow... two failed mating attempts let's see if I get another chance!
In conclusion:
Some wins and losses but this experience doing my best to be non-needy with a stunner really validates GC lore for me.
I need practice escalating and need to sort logistics. It's pretty incredible that she's been interested in me without any posh clothes or dinners. I can feel her interest piqued by my lack of neediness and the fact I'm not phased by her hotness, unlike most guys. It actually helps that I've been throwing slim, fit HB9s around at the circus club. She must have a fetish for athletic guys, hence giving me a shot, but would have been disappointed that I'm not skilled sexually.
Hoping now I can steel myself for some solid cold approaching at the gyms or street and get more socially involved because most of these other Tinderellas don't exactly set my heart racing.
My fourth match was this unfeasibly hot blonde, a real stunner. I'm suitably stunned but just do the usual.
Tinder
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Now, I don't normally get compliments... I was feeling a little gung-ho so spoke from the heart and was pretty happy with the date-setting.Me: Hey Tracy, love your pics
HB: Hey K I, I like your pics and bio too![]()
TextMe: Haha, well really I'm serious in my bio - I actually prefer going to the park than getting drinks at the pub! You wanna learn some circus tricks?
HB: Yes I'd love that
Me: Cool! Where are you based? I can make tomorrow after 1pm or Thursday from 5pm.
HB: I'm in ************ I can't do tomorrow. Thursday 5pm sounds good.
Me: Near *******? There's this nice park near the library in *******
HB: I know the exact location!
Me: OK well how about we meet outside the library at 5pm and take it from there..? Let's swap numbers ************
HB: *********
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First dateMe: Hey Tracysee you Thursday 5pm outside the library.
HB: Thursday 5pm! It's a date... or whatever... no labels
Me: Don't want to scare you, but could you wear something suitable for the gym or yoga? Or at least to change into.
HB: Ok... are we performing a heist?
Me: Haha we may be planning some crimes together but let's take it one step at a timeIt's going in my calendar right now so it's officially a date
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Then 36 hours later on the day of the date, she gets back to me..
Four hours later...HB: Hey there, just wanted to check in and see if we are still on for this afternoon?
So we meet at the park and she's very pleasant but keeping her distance, sits away from me on the bench. I don't beckon her over. We exchange pleasantries about Tinder, work, family background but no real deep diving. I mention that I'm not planning to rush into any promises or commitments. She seems kinda taken aback at this. After about ten minutes with no real compliance or investment or flirting I say "so do you wanna learn some tricks?"Me: Hey Tracy how are things? Sorry for the late reply I left my phone at home today. Looking forward to seeing you at 5pm. Maybe no big heists today... We'll start with some practice-heists
HB: Great! Love a practice-heist [funny emoji]
Me: Me too! Just a case of finding the right partner![]()
She's really into it and we have loads of fun for an hour until it gets dark. I'm touching and holding her all over and lifting her high in the air. At one point she lies down with a sigh but I don't jump her. Finally I go for a kiss but am conscious that my mouth tastes bad so the kiss is terrible and after a short time she says she has to go. We walk back, and surprisingly, she tells me I have a very sexy body. Also says she likes the beach. I weakly persist about going for a drink but she insists, and we part ways.
Follow up an hour after date:
Next dayMe: Hey Tracy that was a pretty fun practice-heist, you're a breath of fresh air!
HB: I really enjoyed it! Thank you [kiss emoji]
blah blah blah we work out logistics for a beach trip and talk about star signs for a bit. She's only giving me short texts. Radio silence for four days...Me: Hey Tracy! Hope your abs aren't too sore today. Waht's your schedule the next few days? Thinking we should plan a trip to the beach [some silly emojis]
HB: Hi Theere... a little.. but love it... I am in ***** for the next few days...
Second date
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Then at the time we are due to meet...Me:Hey Tracyhow've you been? Ready to work on your 'high bird' again... we gotta show off our tricks [monkey emojis thanks to Hector]
HB: Yes! For sure)
Then five seconds later...HB: I am still at work [crying emojis] in a child safety meeting... Not sure if you are happy to wait or if we postpone
Me: No worries I'll chill here I have my laptop. Gotta get the safety right! Let me know how you go.
So she arrives and is fully made up, every bit as stunning as her pics. She accepts a peck on the lips. I'm wearing cheap-ass old clothes but simple and no real style gaffes, just basic gear. We walk around and share some crappy fish and chips. We then go to the beach but it's too damp and windy to enjoy. She's asking me about my business ideas and I'm working a little too hard talking while leading the date. I suggest a sheltered spot to chill at.HB:Just leaving
Me:See you soon![]()
Now, during our chat it becomes apparent that she's not some dumb crazy Tinder slut. She's refined, insightful, socially graceful and has her life together better than me. I let a few doubts creep in, feeling she's way out of my league.
At this point I don't feel things are going well. She's said she has a job application to write by tonight and will head off soon. I don't feel I should take her to an obvious F-close location I had earmarked a little further down a fire track. It was gonna be good. I had made a makeshift lantern and had some mossie coils. I have pulled this style before but tonight didn't seem like the night. I haven't even begun doing anything sexual beyond a polite arm around her.
We went to a semi-isolated spot and did some tricks. Maybe I was a little over-ambitious and we failed to nail some of them but she had fun and seemed to be more comfortable with my leadership than before.
Escalation
------------
Eventually it's dark and I beckon her to lie down and begin to kiss her. I had swilled coconut oil and used mint so my mouth felt fresh and the kiss was nice. Felt good. I started fumbling her breasts, ass and pussy over her clothes but was a little awkward. Just didn't quite hit the spot. She said she had to go. I persisted "let's just stay another five minutes" she agreed and I noticed my persistance seemed to spike her attraction somewhat. However I didn't really hit it - I didn't get hard, something was missing and then she said she had to go when I got into her pants.
She was polite and composed and we parted ways earlier this evening. I'll follow up tomorrow... two failed mating attempts let's see if I get another chance!
In conclusion:
Some wins and losses but this experience doing my best to be non-needy with a stunner really validates GC lore for me.
I need practice escalating and need to sort logistics. It's pretty incredible that she's been interested in me without any posh clothes or dinners. I can feel her interest piqued by my lack of neediness and the fact I'm not phased by her hotness, unlike most guys. It actually helps that I've been throwing slim, fit HB9s around at the circus club. She must have a fetish for athletic guys, hence giving me a shot, but would have been disappointed that I'm not skilled sexually.
Hoping now I can steel myself for some solid cold approaching at the gyms or street and get more socially involved because most of these other Tinderellas don't exactly set my heart racing.