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Living in Orlando we get a surprising amount of foreigners come to visit and live in the city.
Disney especially attracts an ample a supply of foreigners and has a great many cultures come work for them at Epcot's "World Showcase". The World Showcase features different cultures from around the world and replicates their architecture and cultural phenomena that you would see if you visited the country.
Well here's where things get interesting. Downtown on Wednesday nights there's a nightclub that gets very popular and runs a deal with Disney employees to bring them out to their club on Wednesday's.
How it works is that Disney shuttles a bus of foreign partiers who all pay a set fee to get in for free, get a bus ride, and redeem drink specials for the night. The only Disney workers that take advantage of the deal are Epcot employees and more specifically the Italians, Norwegians, a few British mixed in, and of course French!
Or should I say "Of Coooarse" as the French pronounce it.
So at 12:00 midnight the bus arrives with all the foreigners and gives them 2 hours to go party. This club has 3 levels to it and each culture occupies their own territory of the club. This means you can go sample the women from each culture and you know just about exactly where to find them all.
The Approach
We're on the 1st floor of the venue which is a traditional club setting. My buddy and I are standing on the catwalk and I see a girl dressed with a cute dress on that is sexy but not too revealing. She has these high stockings on that you almost never see American girls wear. I immediately see what I want and go downstairs the catwalk straight to her and compliment her hair and then pull her into me talk into her ear. We're laughing and bantering and she's at least feeling me but it's not super hard attraction.
Soon her friends get their drinks and decide to come upstairs so I pretty much just forge myself into their group and lead her as we follow her friends walking up the 3 flights of stairs to the top floor (where the French girls typically congregate).
Now we're in their area and it's me, her, and about 10 French girls that are all partying it up. I quickly make friends with a few of the girls that she seems closest too and they don't hate me. I would say they liked me but they didn't show too much emotion are care thereof.
This girl speaks poor English so it's hard for us to communicate and talk to one another so I do what I always do with language barriers. I simply animate my facial expressions, use lots of touch, and talk about easy to grasp subjects. Here it's all about the vibe being shared and little to do with the actual words being traded (as much as a lot of seduction is as I've learned).
We're vibing and I want to move her and get her more invested in following my lead so I take her to come with me to refill my water. I lead her by the small of her back through the thick crowd to get to the bar.
To give you an idea of a simple but involved conversation snippet with a girl that doesn't speak English here is an example of a thread we shared at the bar.
Right after this the bartender came back with my large ice water and interrupted our conversation but there's a lot of places for this thread to go. The main thing I aim for is spontaneity, fun and easy topics to talk about, and a focus on touch and getting her to invest in my touch.
Right after this I lead her up to a balcony/catwalk area that overlooks the club from below. We meet my wing on the way and he comes up with us as well. On top of that we meet her good French friend, a charismatic social butterfly who likes to dominate social groups. I throw my buddy on her and we all 4 go up to a small balcony/catwalk overlooking the club.
After about 5 minutes the French friend has completely lost interest in my wing and leaves shortly thereafter. My wing is left wondering what just happened and also leaves to go find a less energetic girl to flirt with.
So me and French Kiss (as I'm now calling her) are now alone surveying the partiers down below us.
Nothing of much too significance happened other than us dancing to a Latin American song. I also told her I have a tramp stamp tattoo of Mickey Mouse right above my ass I got when I drank too much wine. She asks to see it and I tell her I'm too insecure to show her because it's soo ugly.
Just in case your wondering I don't have a fucking Mickey Mouse tramp stamp.
She suggests something about her friends and I agree that it's time to move again (the vibe was starting to die down a bit). At this point she's still not massively attracted by any means, doesn't have anime eyes, and the only sign of attraction is her following my lead. This is a pervasive theme of our whole interaction.
Going for the Pull
I lead her back to her peer group and I am received much better this time by her friends who are more welcoming and one is eyeing me with her friend I'm with.
We sit down and banter here and there, listen/dance a bit, and touch each other playfully. At one point I stand up and she pulls the back of my shirt up and finds no Mickey Mouse tramp stamp and finds that extremely amusing.
We're having fun and I know it's getting close to the bar closing by now and now it's time to make a move home soon.
I suggest that we should grab a nightcap and continue the party. She declines.
I then go to use a yes ladder to get her to agree to come back with me. She declines again.
We talk and banter for a bit and then I tell her straight up to come home with me and she declines again.
I give her a hug and tell her it was fun hanging with her and I'll see her around.
I somewhat strategically made this move because I wanted to kiss her before I left her and I didn't want to kiss her directly in her peer group so she wouldn't be judged.
The reason I wanted to kiss her was basically the same theory behind kissing a girl on a first date that you aren't bringing home. Show your sexual intent and that you will make a move on her. Plus it just felt congruent to my personality.
I bring her over to the bar and order a water refill, give her my phone undercover, and instruct her to put her # in.
After this I get confirmation as to when she is free coming up and propose a tentative date to meet out.
I then go and give her a small kiss on the lips goodbye in which she awkwardly misses and then overcalibrates to meet my lips haha. She's a bit clumsy.
I leave and text her a follow up text which she readily responds to.
The Date
Here is a sample of the text exchange:
So this is good investment on her part. She's going to pay $20 to come see me downtown.
I still don't bank on her coming out but it's Saturday night so I head downtown anyway and start approaching girls in hopes that I can build some social momentum and achieve a better emotional state.
I don't have a particularly good outing but at least now I'm out of my head and in a more fun mood.
We meet up at the city park local in the city here. We walk around, find a spot, and drink wine.
Here we pretty much just talk about her travels, what she thinks of American dudes, and a few fun stories about ourselves.
Nothing really too significant here conversation wise.
A quick note here is that she wasn't showing signs of high attraction AT ALL. However that's okay I just keep leading things along and if she follows there probably isn't much to worry about.
I decide after about 30-40 minutes we should go walk around the lake a bit. We walk and I want to hold her hand but she is carrying a wine glass and her jacket in the other hand.
We get to this dock on the lake and walk out on it. At this point the vibe is starting to drop down a bit and I'm having doubts about being able to pull her home 25 minutes away.
We start walking back and I tell her I we are having fun and should continue into the night as it's too early to go home just yet. I tell her I'm going to show her my Lamborghini.
So the pull was basically me telling her were going to continue the night and that I'm going to show her my car. So basically we know were going home to my house but I thread cut that part of the conversation and changed topics quickly as to not have her dwell on logically making that decision and instead commit to following my lead.
At this point I'm holding her hand and leading her towards my car.
We get to the car, hop in without any resistance, and then start the 25 minute drive home.
She doesn't realize it's going to take this long and I slowly reveal how long it will be as we drive.
She came in a cab so she's pretty much sold into my plan at this point.
We get home, hop in bed, start escalating, and have no real resistance getting to sex.
Made in France.
The main lesson that I'm taking away from this interaction is that even if the girl isn't massively attracted just keep leading things forward as if she was highly attracted. If she follows your lead consistently you can gain the momentum that you need to seal the deal anyway. Always press forward.
Keep it pimpin
-Rob
Disney especially attracts an ample a supply of foreigners and has a great many cultures come work for them at Epcot's "World Showcase". The World Showcase features different cultures from around the world and replicates their architecture and cultural phenomena that you would see if you visited the country.
Well here's where things get interesting. Downtown on Wednesday nights there's a nightclub that gets very popular and runs a deal with Disney employees to bring them out to their club on Wednesday's.
How it works is that Disney shuttles a bus of foreign partiers who all pay a set fee to get in for free, get a bus ride, and redeem drink specials for the night. The only Disney workers that take advantage of the deal are Epcot employees and more specifically the Italians, Norwegians, a few British mixed in, and of course French!
Or should I say "Of Coooarse" as the French pronounce it.
So at 12:00 midnight the bus arrives with all the foreigners and gives them 2 hours to go party. This club has 3 levels to it and each culture occupies their own territory of the club. This means you can go sample the women from each culture and you know just about exactly where to find them all.
The Approach
We're on the 1st floor of the venue which is a traditional club setting. My buddy and I are standing on the catwalk and I see a girl dressed with a cute dress on that is sexy but not too revealing. She has these high stockings on that you almost never see American girls wear. I immediately see what I want and go downstairs the catwalk straight to her and compliment her hair and then pull her into me talk into her ear. We're laughing and bantering and she's at least feeling me but it's not super hard attraction.
Soon her friends get their drinks and decide to come upstairs so I pretty much just forge myself into their group and lead her as we follow her friends walking up the 3 flights of stairs to the top floor (where the French girls typically congregate).
Now we're in their area and it's me, her, and about 10 French girls that are all partying it up. I quickly make friends with a few of the girls that she seems closest too and they don't hate me. I would say they liked me but they didn't show too much emotion are care thereof.
This girl speaks poor English so it's hard for us to communicate and talk to one another so I do what I always do with language barriers. I simply animate my facial expressions, use lots of touch, and talk about easy to grasp subjects. Here it's all about the vibe being shared and little to do with the actual words being traded (as much as a lot of seduction is as I've learned).
We're vibing and I want to move her and get her more invested in following my lead so I take her to come with me to refill my water. I lead her by the small of her back through the thick crowd to get to the bar.
To give you an idea of a simple but involved conversation snippet with a girl that doesn't speak English here is an example of a thread we shared at the bar.
I like the song being played so I inquire on her dance skills
Me: Oh my gosh this song is amazing you like? (A lot of times foreigners understand "you like?" better than "Do you like it?")
Her: Yeah I like
Me: You are a dance professional
Her: Oh no! haha not me
Me: Oh sure you are let me see your amazing dance skills (jokingly assuming she's an amazing dancer because she's not from America)
Here I also make over the top facial expressions, change voice tonality, and signal dancing so she knows what I'm talking about. This gets her more sucked into my world/frame since I cannot do it verbally as easy.)
Her: Oh no, I'm too shy! No good dancer
Right after this the bartender came back with my large ice water and interrupted our conversation but there's a lot of places for this thread to go. The main thing I aim for is spontaneity, fun and easy topics to talk about, and a focus on touch and getting her to invest in my touch.
Right after this I lead her up to a balcony/catwalk area that overlooks the club from below. We meet my wing on the way and he comes up with us as well. On top of that we meet her good French friend, a charismatic social butterfly who likes to dominate social groups. I throw my buddy on her and we all 4 go up to a small balcony/catwalk overlooking the club.
After about 5 minutes the French friend has completely lost interest in my wing and leaves shortly thereafter. My wing is left wondering what just happened and also leaves to go find a less energetic girl to flirt with.
So me and French Kiss (as I'm now calling her) are now alone surveying the partiers down below us.
Nothing of much too significance happened other than us dancing to a Latin American song. I also told her I have a tramp stamp tattoo of Mickey Mouse right above my ass I got when I drank too much wine. She asks to see it and I tell her I'm too insecure to show her because it's soo ugly.
Just in case your wondering I don't have a fucking Mickey Mouse tramp stamp.
She suggests something about her friends and I agree that it's time to move again (the vibe was starting to die down a bit). At this point she's still not massively attracted by any means, doesn't have anime eyes, and the only sign of attraction is her following my lead. This is a pervasive theme of our whole interaction.
Going for the Pull
I lead her back to her peer group and I am received much better this time by her friends who are more welcoming and one is eyeing me with her friend I'm with.
We sit down and banter here and there, listen/dance a bit, and touch each other playfully. At one point I stand up and she pulls the back of my shirt up and finds no Mickey Mouse tramp stamp and finds that extremely amusing.
We're having fun and I know it's getting close to the bar closing by now and now it's time to make a move home soon.
I suggest that we should grab a nightcap and continue the party. She declines.
I then go to use a yes ladder to get her to agree to come back with me. She declines again.
We talk and banter for a bit and then I tell her straight up to come home with me and she declines again.
I give her a hug and tell her it was fun hanging with her and I'll see her around.
I somewhat strategically made this move because I wanted to kiss her before I left her and I didn't want to kiss her directly in her peer group so she wouldn't be judged.
The reason I wanted to kiss her was basically the same theory behind kissing a girl on a first date that you aren't bringing home. Show your sexual intent and that you will make a move on her. Plus it just felt congruent to my personality.
I bring her over to the bar and order a water refill, give her my phone undercover, and instruct her to put her # in.
After this I get confirmation as to when she is free coming up and propose a tentative date to meet out.
I then go and give her a small kiss on the lips goodbye in which she awkwardly misses and then overcalibrates to meet my lips haha. She's a bit clumsy.
I leave and text her a follow up text which she readily responds to.
The Date
Here is a sample of the text exchange:
Her: I'm off Sunday and Monday
Me: How about Sunday evening Downtown? Do you drive?
Her: Oh no Sunday Evening I go to Horror Nights
I don't respond for a bit
Her: I'm free tonight after work though!
Me: That could work
Her: 11 Oclock
Me: Also how are you going to get downtown?
Her: Very good question
Her: I take Uber!
So this is good investment on her part. She's going to pay $20 to come see me downtown.
I still don't bank on her coming out but it's Saturday night so I head downtown anyway and start approaching girls in hopes that I can build some social momentum and achieve a better emotional state.
I don't have a particularly good outing but at least now I'm out of my head and in a more fun mood.
We meet up at the city park local in the city here. We walk around, find a spot, and drink wine.
Here we pretty much just talk about her travels, what she thinks of American dudes, and a few fun stories about ourselves.
Nothing really too significant here conversation wise.
A quick note here is that she wasn't showing signs of high attraction AT ALL. However that's okay I just keep leading things along and if she follows there probably isn't much to worry about.
I decide after about 30-40 minutes we should go walk around the lake a bit. We walk and I want to hold her hand but she is carrying a wine glass and her jacket in the other hand.
We get to this dock on the lake and walk out on it. At this point the vibe is starting to drop down a bit and I'm having doubts about being able to pull her home 25 minutes away.
We start walking back and I tell her I we are having fun and should continue into the night as it's too early to go home just yet. I tell her I'm going to show her my Lamborghini.
So the pull was basically me telling her were going to continue the night and that I'm going to show her my car. So basically we know were going home to my house but I thread cut that part of the conversation and changed topics quickly as to not have her dwell on logically making that decision and instead commit to following my lead.
At this point I'm holding her hand and leading her towards my car.
We get to the car, hop in without any resistance, and then start the 25 minute drive home.
She doesn't realize it's going to take this long and I slowly reveal how long it will be as we drive.
She came in a cab so she's pretty much sold into my plan at this point.
We get home, hop in bed, start escalating, and have no real resistance getting to sex.
Made in France.
The main lesson that I'm taking away from this interaction is that even if the girl isn't massively attracted just keep leading things forward as if she was highly attracted. If she follows your lead consistently you can gain the momentum that you need to seal the deal anyway. Always press forward.
Keep it pimpin
-Rob
