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Cro-Magnon Man
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I just had a conversation with female work colleague where we were doing our usual flirty nonsense and she blurted out "take me home with you" and it threw me a bit as to wether it was something that just came out wrong or there was a bit more to it. I responded with my now default jerkboy mode (if in doubt I believe better that than beta boy).

So Freudian slips meaningful or not?
Discuss...
 

trashKENNUT

Cro-Magnon Man
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Flames,

I have this happen with social circles girls, a lot, even recently. (Oh this horny bitches. :) ) Anyway, Chase mention this recently in comments and articles. He noted how he have to draw a line when girls suddenly do extreme stuff like this slips. Btw, Ross Leon also write an article on categorizing women into friends and lovers.

My answer? If she's too valuable as a friend, only get intimate once or twice and slowly get back to friend zone. Chase mention along the same line as this. :)

p.s: personal experience. :)

Zac
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Flames,

Context is important in this case. Was it totally out of no where? She wants you. Were you doing something fun/interesting at home? She wants to participate or would like to do it also. It depends on the context.

BDSC
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

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Cro-Magnon Man
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BigDaddySc said:
Flames,

Context is important in this case. Was it totally out of no where? She wants you. Were you doing something fun/interesting at home? She wants to participate or would like to do it also. It depends on the context.

BDSC

I don't remember what exactly we were talking about but it was an out of the blue statement/blurt.
 

Flames

Cro-Magnon Man
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ZacAdam said:
Flames,

I have this happen with social circles girls, a lot, even recently. (Oh this horny bitches. :) ) Anyway, Chase mention this recently in comments and articles. He noted how he have to draw a line when girls suddenly do extreme stuff like this slips. Btw, Ross Leon also write an article on categorizing women into friends and lovers.

My answer? If she's too valuable as a friend, only get intimate once or twice and slowly get back to friend zone. Chase mention along the same line as this. :)

p.s: personal experience. :)

Zac

Thanks Zac for your insight, she could be a valuable friend I think and maybe I should probably not do my usual thing of mixing friends and lovers with this one.
 

trashKENNUT

Cro-Magnon Man
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Flames,

Flames said:
she could be a valuable friend I think and maybe I should probably not do my usual thing of mixing friends and lovers with this one.

Don't risk the friendship too much. ":) Once is usually safest. I lost women who are great and reliable friends. I guess this is why women are very very assertive with this.

Zac
 
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