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Previously: viewtopic.php?f=3&t=9845&p=47938#p47938
Refer to the first and last posts. The girl is very into me and we slept together last night (well, actually, she claims she was on her period, so I went as far as I could). She had to leave early in the morning, so she insisted she had to go back to her place even though I suggested she stayed over. She said next time she'll sleep over. I replied saying that my room mate is having her 22nd birthday rager in my apartment this coming weekend and I'd like you to come over, and she accepted.
This morning I sent her a text like "hey, had a great time last night" etc etc.
Now I spoke to a friend of mine and he says I should ask her to get coffee or something during the week. I say nay, at least not yet. If I ask for coffee now, would that come off as clingy and dependent? Like hey we met and slept together, I wanna start getting together already. We've already got plans for her to come over here, I'll worry about the logistics in a linear fashion, not throw new plans in between. What do you guys think?
Refer to the first and last posts. The girl is very into me and we slept together last night (well, actually, she claims she was on her period, so I went as far as I could). She had to leave early in the morning, so she insisted she had to go back to her place even though I suggested she stayed over. She said next time she'll sleep over. I replied saying that my room mate is having her 22nd birthday rager in my apartment this coming weekend and I'd like you to come over, and she accepted.
This morning I sent her a text like "hey, had a great time last night" etc etc.
Now I spoke to a friend of mine and he says I should ask her to get coffee or something during the week. I say nay, at least not yet. If I ask for coffee now, would that come off as clingy and dependent? Like hey we met and slept together, I wanna start getting together already. We've already got plans for her to come over here, I'll worry about the logistics in a linear fashion, not throw new plans in between. What do you guys think?
