So, I'm back to ask for some more advice.
A good friend of mine has a younger sister (about 4 yrs younger than us), and she's super cool. She's always been "one of the guys", and I've hung out with her among the group of friends many times. However, lately now that we're both single, she's been texting me a lot more often. A week ago, we actually hung out together, had dinner and watched a baseball game at a sports bar. That was the first time we had ever been alone together, and we had a great time.
I'm gonna go ahead and assume she's attracted to me since she continues to text me daily, and it's of a different "tone" than it has been in the past. My question is, before I go out with her a second time, or actually ask her on a real date, should I talk to her brother about it? Or should I ask her first if she thinks her bro would be comfortable with it? Should I just leave that aspect of it alone and see what happens? I'm really not sure what to do without potentially complicating a good friendship.
As far as dealing with her, the other complication is that she lives pretty far away from me. About 1hr 45min drive away... So even getting to see her is kind of tricky, but I know that if I arranged to meet up with her again, she would. But I'm afraid that being with this girl is just gonna be super complicated. I normally wouldn't be too worried about it, but I actually like her, and I can see it possibly turning into something someday. One of our other friends had even commented to me that her and I would be a really good match, and I laughed it off and said "no, that would be too weird..." But he had a good point!
So yeah I'm not sure what to do, guys. Any tips? Advice? Help?? Thanks!
A good friend of mine has a younger sister (about 4 yrs younger than us), and she's super cool. She's always been "one of the guys", and I've hung out with her among the group of friends many times. However, lately now that we're both single, she's been texting me a lot more often. A week ago, we actually hung out together, had dinner and watched a baseball game at a sports bar. That was the first time we had ever been alone together, and we had a great time.
I'm gonna go ahead and assume she's attracted to me since she continues to text me daily, and it's of a different "tone" than it has been in the past. My question is, before I go out with her a second time, or actually ask her on a real date, should I talk to her brother about it? Or should I ask her first if she thinks her bro would be comfortable with it? Should I just leave that aspect of it alone and see what happens? I'm really not sure what to do without potentially complicating a good friendship.
As far as dealing with her, the other complication is that she lives pretty far away from me. About 1hr 45min drive away... So even getting to see her is kind of tricky, but I know that if I arranged to meet up with her again, she would. But I'm afraid that being with this girl is just gonna be super complicated. I normally wouldn't be too worried about it, but I actually like her, and I can see it possibly turning into something someday. One of our other friends had even commented to me that her and I would be a really good match, and I laughed it off and said "no, that would be too weird..." But he had a good point!
So yeah I'm not sure what to do, guys. Any tips? Advice? Help?? Thanks!
