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Sam

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Hello gentlemen.

This report is about last Friday. It is about a very easy lay with no abnormalities or suspense. It is a linear, clear-cut case of playing the numbers and getting what you want against the odds.

In several of my reports I mentioned my problematic logistics; I live at the suburbs of my city, 30kms (18,6 miles) away from city centre, where all of my first dates take place.

Well, last Friday I had my parent's apartment free which is much closer to the city centre, so I went out with the clear goal in mind to pull... no matter what. I got out with the intention to play the numbers, lower my standards and pull.

After having literally farmed 4 hotspots of my city's night life and got nowhere, I was about to quit and go home. It was 5 am and the city seemed all the more empty, when I suddenly decide to stop my car and walk into a 5th night life hub with a more alternative flavour. Alternative is not my style neither in music, nor in women, but my goal was too specific to let this get in the way. As I walk the deserted paths of this alternative bar hub, I see two women walking in front of me. I walk past them and then turn my head back to see their faces. One of them smiles at me and waves me hello. The woman was 33 years old with an indifferent face, but a very fuckable body. It was game on. I return, I approach them and after introducing myself to both, I took them to the closest bar for a beer.

Fifteen minutes of conversation with her over a beer and I observe her body language is ripe for sex: she keeps strong eye contact with me, she obeys when I command her to stand up and come closer to me (while I am seated) and....she visibly licks her lips in front of me several times.

At that point she asks: "Shall we go for a walk?"
Me: "Sure, take your drink with you" <<taking her hand and start leading>>
Her: "Where are we going?"
Me: "Somewhere dark"
Her: "I like dark"

I find an abandoned place and I lead her in. I start kissing her neck and touching her. I get her tits out and I enjoy them. I put my hands inside her underwear. No resistance whatsoever. She asks me to kiss her in the mouth. I give her a small kiss with no tongue, then I command her to kneel and blow me. She follows. After 15 minutes of blowing me, I tell her to stop and I get dressed.

Me: "My place or yours?"
Her: "I host my friend and I am ashamed to have sex, while her listening"
Me: "Ok, we go my place, but before that I will pass by your place to take your heels" (she was wearing flats, as she was an alternative woman)
Her: "You are sick"
Me: "Exactly" <<taking her hand and going back to her friend and my friend whom we left at the bar place>>

We get in the car, I stop at her place, she gets her heels and comes back. We go to my place. It was already 6.30 in the morning.

Sex was very good for both of us. No resistance at all. I lasted about 40 minutes before I ejaculate, while in the past I had PE issues. I think Keggels helped a lot which I religiously practiced during the last few months. I had a great psychological boost after that, knowing that it was all in my head. On her part: she told me she liked that I was rough and dirty with her. "My last boyfriend of 6 years did not dare to talk dirty to me, while you did so within 1 hour of meeting me"
 

Gentle_Phrases

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*slow clap*
 

girlsfollow

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to get your heels? lol what? you went to hers just so she could get some heels?
 

Sam

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Yes, GF.

Her place was close to mine anyway!
 

girlsfollow

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Sam said:
Yes, GF.

Her place was close to mine anyway!
ha nice - I like my girls in heels too... but just for going to yours - is she super short or what ;)

Yeh girls like all the dirty stuff if you portray the right persona. Its interesting I think the switch between that and being super sweet works best in relationships.
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Sam

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I don't like all stars or sandals/flats in women at all. I find them unbearably unsexy. So, if I happen to find an alternative girl, no matter how tall, I will reform her ;)
 

ocantu1987

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Hey sam are kegels that good?
 

Chase

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Sam-

Outstanding. This is exactly the kind of mentality and the kind of exercise you use to get yourself very good.

Also, once you've done this a few times, you're essentially assured of lifelong abundance mentality, because now you know you can go out whenever you want and, so long as you put in the hours and do the approaches, you're probably going to meet someone to take home who's at least acceptable to sleep with sooner or later (and you will get plenty of Grade A girls you never would've expected you'd get this way in the process, especially if you do this regularly).

Great job, and well-deserved.

Chase
 

Sam

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Ocantu1987,

Yes. Keggels helped me a lot. It seems you get much more control over your penis. However, part of my good performance was the fact that I didn't care about this woman much. I knew she wasn't my style, so I had a sense of "healthy entitlement" with her of the kind "look, woman, I am doing you a great favour for letting you be my lover for tonight".

Chase,

Thank you for your comment. The credit should go to GirlsChase. You might also want to keep in mind that more LRs should have been written on my part, if I had not lost several women to auto-rejection during the last month alone (i.e. women I fingered, but refused to follow me home, women who thought of me as a "womaniser" or women who felt unspecial, despite some heavy physical escalation I had with them). Again, thank you for all the great work you and your partners have put into GirlsChase.
 

girlsfollow

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Chase said:
Sam-

Outstanding. This is exactly the kind of mentality and the kind of exercise you use to get yourself very good.

Also, once you've done this a few times, you're essentially assured of lifelong abundance mentality, because now you know you can go out whenever you want and, so long as you put in the hours and do the approaches, you're probably going to meet someone to take home who's at least acceptable to sleep with sooner or later (and you will get plenty of Grade A girls you never would've expected you'd get this way in the process, especially if you do this regularly).

Great job, and well-deserved.

Chase

Yes I've noticed this - I now realise its totally possible to get at least acceptable girls into be on a first date. However my main issue is now this:

1. I rarely get super hot girls out with me (they're all in relationships! and most are difficult to approach)....and
2. Those top quality girls that I do go out with will have sex but dont want to get into a relationship - dont want to be pinned down

- Ive started to wonder if maybe sex on the first date is not the ideal strategy for finding a girlfriend....it seems to put them in ONS mode....just starting to get that feeling
 

Chase

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Sam-

You're of course quite welcome! I'm very glad to see you putting the material to such good use, and no doubt there's much more of this to come.

GF-

girlsfollow said:
1. I rarely get super hot girls out with me (they're all in relationships! and most are difficult to approach)....and

The girls who are hottest to you will be the most difficult for you to get, often.

If you hang around enough guys who are very good, you will eventually notice that there are guy friends of yours who do very well and have a very easy time with the girls you consider super hot, but struggle with other girls you don't think are hard to get at all. When you pick their brains, you'll find out that the girls you think are the hottest of the hot they are just "meh" about, but the girls they think are the hottest of the hot and that they continually struggle with and you do fine with are among the ones you're "meh" about.

The easiest solution is taking your "super hot girls" and toning them down in your mind to the point where they're just "cute":


This is essentially a mental shortcut to what happens to your brain after you get buckets of success with the types of girls you consider super hot.

The longer way is finding a way to bed a ton of the super hot girls - say, by befriending a popular DJ or club promoter and getting into his after parties, if the kinds of girls you consider super hot are among the crowds that frequent these - at which point, they stop being "super hot" and are just "cute" to you and you've arrived at this mentality the more "usual" way.

girlsfollow said:
2. Those top quality girls that I do go out with will have sex but dont want to get into a relationship - dont want to be pinned down

- Ive started to wonder if maybe sex on the first date is not the ideal strategy for finding a girlfriend....it seems to put them in ONS mode....just starting to get that feeling

This has to do with how you transition the relationship after sex. If you give her earth-shattering sex + gradually reveal yourself to be a top caliber boyfriend candidate + keep your attainability in good order, even the flightiest of women will usually tend to want you for commitment.

When you're analyzing the "why" of why it isn't happening, look for two things:

  • Is it a value problem? In this case, she's mostly nice to you but just isn't interested in spending that much time with you
  • Is it an attainability problem? In this case, she spends a lot of time auto-rejecting you early on and telling you you're no good for her

If it's attainability, she'll seem like she's fighting a war within herself - part of her is very into you, while the other part wants to save her from getting involved.

If it's value, she'll be pretty calm about it and just doesn't want to stick around with you in a long-term capacity.

Identify which of these the culprit is, and then work on fixing it, either by upping your value as a mate if it's value, or by upping your attainability as a mate if it's that.

Chase
 

Grand Pooba

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Grade A LR, Sam. Well done! I especially liked this exchange:

Sam said:
Me: "My place or yours?"
Her: "I host my friend and I am ashamed to have sex, while her listening"
Me: "Ok, we go my place, but before that I will pass by your place to take your heels" (she was wearing flats, as she was an alternative woman)
Her: "You are sick"
Me: "Exactly" <<taking her hand and going back to her friend and my friend whom we left at the bar place>>

We get in the car, I stop at her place, she gets her heels and comes back. We go to my place. It was already 6.30 in the morning.

Hilarious and way to show a sense of dominance on your part. I really like how clear cut and fast this LR was.
 
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