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Hey guys, in the past week l have been pushing myself as always and a few good things have happened but a lot of bad ones too. So, since both are important learning experiences l have decided to post both sides of the story with this being the failures. Three different chicks with the last being the worst.
HB Sly Minx
This is the girl who l posted a fr on, she had known who l was before l approached her for the second time. needless to say the date didnt go so well, but l wanted to burn it to the ground so l invited her to another date on tuesday. we were to meet up before heading out but apparently l had not been as clear with my intentions as l thought l was. Tuesday rolls in and am in class, she tells me shes in the library. after my class l text her telling her am heading her way. no reply. l get there and text her twice. still no reply, then when l finally give up l get a text from her saying she was already home. l had texted her before with the idea of grabbing sthing to eat since l had not thought she was going to leave so soon, but apparently she had planned to meet me and we would walk to the gate before going our separate ways. a walk of five minutes! After waiting for more than 15 minutes!
anyway, l didnt reply to her apology for leaving me stranded until the next day when l texted her telling her am not into 5 minutes walks and l wanted to spend time with her but am leaving the ball in her court to make time if she wanted to spend some time with me. she replied saying that yes she would call me but she didnt like how l just assumed she would go with my plans(reffering to my intentions to pull her home that tues).
Regardless, she was quickly replaced by a chick who am hoping to pull soon so no more worries from that section.
HBMutual Pal
this girl l dont remember how we know each other only that we do. so when l do meet her on friday morning l try to game her a little, dear lord does it go wrong. l say hi, and compliment her necklace wch is actually pretty cool then noticed she had playboy earings whc l commented on.
Now when l tell her to join me for a cup of coffee one of these fine days, she asks me why, l tell her she seems like a really cool chick so l wanted to get to know her. she starts listing the things l had said l liked, the necklace and the earings. needless to say, things get awkward pretty quickly. l tell her that l think we would be fun, she asks me whether am fun and l promptly say yes, to which she says "thats your opinion" and l concur saying l happen to believe l am well worth the time. but since she didnt seem to agree am gonna let her go.
we both said an awkward see you around and went separate ways.
HBNuts
Now this one is a real kicker. we met a few weeks bck in a bus and we had great conversation. she came over a few weeks later and we spent about an hour together then l pulled her to time but due to time logistics and the distance she had to travel to get back home, she only spent about 10 minutes at mine before having to leave but l wasnt worried since l thought l had made solid points with her. So when she texted me yesterday telling me she could come over that evening l though l was getting my first two lays in the same week. little did l know what l was about to endure.
she comes over at around 8 and actually offers to buy me supper so l say yes. we are having a great time. l should mention that this girl has an ego the size of a small mountain but l have tons of pride so she really digs our ribbing each other. anyway, long story short, we get to my room. the first thing she asks me is if my roommate is around and l say, nah, he left for home. then she says " sweet,l'll sleep in his bed." dafug, l play it cool and dont let it faze me.
Now, l try to guide the conversation into sexual topics but she keeps cutting my threads, even going as far as to say, is this how you vybe your chicks? now l try to play it cool, but shes seriously ticking me off.
l pop in a movie to watch and then try to start playfully kino her. she doesnt bite. l try again, still no dice. l even offer to give her a massage and she says no. then at one point when l was playfully running my fingers on her back she actually stops the movie and looks at me " hey, l dont want you touching me. at all. if theres a part of that sentence that you dont understand, ask me to clarify. right now. otherwise, lets just enjoy the movie."
well, l can tell you, that really killed my vibe. l know l should have handled it differently, but l was about to blow a fuse right now. we watch the movie, the roomy shows up and then leaves, l tell the girl the roomy had apparently changed his mind about going home.
l step outside and talk to my roomate whose a natural. he just laughs at me, and tells me karma is getting back at me. l punch the smirk off his face(in my mind). then as if to make it worse, a girl who was a definite lay texted me saying she wanted to come over, and l had to lie explaining that my roomate had a girl over so l wasnt around. l would have kicked the other girl out, but she really came from far so l couldnt be that much of an asshole. she kept naggin me about how l didnt have shorts she could sleep with, asking if no girls came over. l told her the ones who normaly come over dont really need pants and if they did they came prepared in advance. wow, she really turned whiney after this
anyway, we watch the movie and l go watch the match last night. l get back to find she had gone to sleep in my roomys bed. l doze off too. at 7 in the morning, l wake her up and tell her am about to leave. she doesnt believe me. l tell her she can sleep in as much as she wants but she has to lock the door behind her when she leaves. l head out, feeling like a pouty kid. on my way home, l try to set aside my emotions and look at this interaction in a mature way, trying to find out what l did or could have done.
the points that come to mind are;
1. she initiated the texting yesterday and mentioned she could come over if l wanted her too.
2. she came a long ass way to come spend the night.
3. she actually bought us both supper
in my head, this whole thing reeks of huge compliance and chasing. but the way the interaction went was completely different from anything l could have expected. am afraid l am not yet experienced enough to have a way to handle such a change in manner. l havent talked to her since.
Conclusion
These are by far not the least the only rejections l face during my gaming, but the rest ARE soo many l simply cant put them all here and they are getting fewer and fewer. But am glad am still learning and growing. Any thoughts and comments are welcome.
HB Sly Minx
This is the girl who l posted a fr on, she had known who l was before l approached her for the second time. needless to say the date didnt go so well, but l wanted to burn it to the ground so l invited her to another date on tuesday. we were to meet up before heading out but apparently l had not been as clear with my intentions as l thought l was. Tuesday rolls in and am in class, she tells me shes in the library. after my class l text her telling her am heading her way. no reply. l get there and text her twice. still no reply, then when l finally give up l get a text from her saying she was already home. l had texted her before with the idea of grabbing sthing to eat since l had not thought she was going to leave so soon, but apparently she had planned to meet me and we would walk to the gate before going our separate ways. a walk of five minutes! After waiting for more than 15 minutes!
anyway, l didnt reply to her apology for leaving me stranded until the next day when l texted her telling her am not into 5 minutes walks and l wanted to spend time with her but am leaving the ball in her court to make time if she wanted to spend some time with me. she replied saying that yes she would call me but she didnt like how l just assumed she would go with my plans(reffering to my intentions to pull her home that tues).
Regardless, she was quickly replaced by a chick who am hoping to pull soon so no more worries from that section.
HBMutual Pal
this girl l dont remember how we know each other only that we do. so when l do meet her on friday morning l try to game her a little, dear lord does it go wrong. l say hi, and compliment her necklace wch is actually pretty cool then noticed she had playboy earings whc l commented on.
Now when l tell her to join me for a cup of coffee one of these fine days, she asks me why, l tell her she seems like a really cool chick so l wanted to get to know her. she starts listing the things l had said l liked, the necklace and the earings. needless to say, things get awkward pretty quickly. l tell her that l think we would be fun, she asks me whether am fun and l promptly say yes, to which she says "thats your opinion" and l concur saying l happen to believe l am well worth the time. but since she didnt seem to agree am gonna let her go.
we both said an awkward see you around and went separate ways.
HBNuts
Now this one is a real kicker. we met a few weeks bck in a bus and we had great conversation. she came over a few weeks later and we spent about an hour together then l pulled her to time but due to time logistics and the distance she had to travel to get back home, she only spent about 10 minutes at mine before having to leave but l wasnt worried since l thought l had made solid points with her. So when she texted me yesterday telling me she could come over that evening l though l was getting my first two lays in the same week. little did l know what l was about to endure.
she comes over at around 8 and actually offers to buy me supper so l say yes. we are having a great time. l should mention that this girl has an ego the size of a small mountain but l have tons of pride so she really digs our ribbing each other. anyway, long story short, we get to my room. the first thing she asks me is if my roommate is around and l say, nah, he left for home. then she says " sweet,l'll sleep in his bed." dafug, l play it cool and dont let it faze me.
Now, l try to guide the conversation into sexual topics but she keeps cutting my threads, even going as far as to say, is this how you vybe your chicks? now l try to play it cool, but shes seriously ticking me off.
l pop in a movie to watch and then try to start playfully kino her. she doesnt bite. l try again, still no dice. l even offer to give her a massage and she says no. then at one point when l was playfully running my fingers on her back she actually stops the movie and looks at me " hey, l dont want you touching me. at all. if theres a part of that sentence that you dont understand, ask me to clarify. right now. otherwise, lets just enjoy the movie."
well, l can tell you, that really killed my vibe. l know l should have handled it differently, but l was about to blow a fuse right now. we watch the movie, the roomy shows up and then leaves, l tell the girl the roomy had apparently changed his mind about going home.
l step outside and talk to my roomate whose a natural. he just laughs at me, and tells me karma is getting back at me. l punch the smirk off his face(in my mind). then as if to make it worse, a girl who was a definite lay texted me saying she wanted to come over, and l had to lie explaining that my roomate had a girl over so l wasnt around. l would have kicked the other girl out, but she really came from far so l couldnt be that much of an asshole. she kept naggin me about how l didnt have shorts she could sleep with, asking if no girls came over. l told her the ones who normaly come over dont really need pants and if they did they came prepared in advance. wow, she really turned whiney after this
anyway, we watch the movie and l go watch the match last night. l get back to find she had gone to sleep in my roomys bed. l doze off too. at 7 in the morning, l wake her up and tell her am about to leave. she doesnt believe me. l tell her she can sleep in as much as she wants but she has to lock the door behind her when she leaves. l head out, feeling like a pouty kid. on my way home, l try to set aside my emotions and look at this interaction in a mature way, trying to find out what l did or could have done.
the points that come to mind are;
1. she initiated the texting yesterday and mentioned she could come over if l wanted her too.
2. she came a long ass way to come spend the night.
3. she actually bought us both supper
in my head, this whole thing reeks of huge compliance and chasing. but the way the interaction went was completely different from anything l could have expected. am afraid l am not yet experienced enough to have a way to handle such a change in manner. l havent talked to her since.
Conclusion
These are by far not the least the only rejections l face during my gaming, but the rest ARE soo many l simply cant put them all here and they are getting fewer and fewer. But am glad am still learning and growing. Any thoughts and comments are welcome.
