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I met this girl at a leadership workshop last week, a Tuesday. I didn't really talk to her, I just asked her what her name was. She was the prettiest girl in the whole room, a room of say, 35, 90% girls. I ran into her after the workshop by my car, exchanged a few lines, then off we went with our lives. The next day, day 2 of the workshop, went as planned, well, it was just, ya, nothing important, but she was in the later group, I was in the first i.e. I didn’t see her that day. I got back into the parking lot, I looked at my car, and thought I got a parking ticket..like, da fuck!? I use a beeper, how the fuck can I get a ticket, goddamn assholes. I take a look, and this girl left me her number (2 smilies).
So I text her, and we got each others numbers, and I even managed to pocket dial her. heh..
So she gave me a text Tuesday asking me if I’m going to the open house, so I say yea, and ask if she wants to grab a bite/drink tomorrow (which is now yesterday). She’s down, we meet up at a coffee shop, and head over to a place I like that makes good food. Everything’s good, she’s laughing pretty easy..and we chattin you know. We get back in my car and I’m like, what should we do now? She says she's the kind of girl that is down for anything, in a very, you know, obvious kind of way, like yea, I got the hint, kind of way. So I say let’s go back to my place, and then I say "Let's go back to myyyy plaace" in a really retarded jokingly kind of way, after the first time I said it, in a sort of response to her obviousness...I don't know why I did that. Like da fuck, probably made her feel uncomfortable.
We get to my place, and I show her around. We get in the bed, and I freakin hate clothes in my bed, but what am I going to say, "Take off your clothes"? lol (actually I think I shoulda tried that...)
So we are in bed listening to music, I put on a 15min video of whatever techno, and I grab her hand and ask her who she got the ring from (left hand ring finger). She tells me it’s a stupid story, but I say no, it's not. She basically tells me it's so she doesn't move too fast with a guy, because she made a mistake like that and she felt like garbage. Then she says not to take it the wrong way, and then I look at her, and she looks at me, and she says, "I think you're taking it the wrong way" so I pull her real close, our lips are almost touching. We kiss, and snuggle, and whatnot, but it never happens. She's a real shy kisser too. She explains to me why she is so shy about sex. We were cuddling for a bit, and she probably would have fallen asleep on my chest, but I was horny as fuck and couldn’t sleep.
So we don't end up having sex. I drive her back to her car after a little while, and drop her off, and tell her to text me or I’ll text her. During the car ride it felt a bit like she was uncomfortable (she was tired) even though I was doing my best to make her comfortable. I mean, she even told me she was when we were in bed when I was pushing for sex. She had a bad sexual experience one time...anyways...
(edit: When we were in my bed talking about things, she seemed really unconfident in some way. Because she wouldn't put out, she thought I didn't want her, and she asked me if I wanted her to leave. Sometime after this statement, not too long, she put the idea out there that we can do something again another time)
I sent her a text today and didn't get a reply...she always replied to my texts before. (not that I've sent a lot, I'm done with using text as a connection builder, I only use it strictly for logistics).
Well actually, not this text. I figured I might as well let her know it was nice to have gotten to know her and to hope she slept well as she is suffering from sleep deprivation (she’s a busy girl).
I know that I'm not very likely to get a response from a girl who I tried to push sex with, but didn't succeed with.
I liked her, I put myself out there, and because I moved too fast, I think I might have fucked up what could have been a great relationship. Perhaps I should wait before I call the score, but...I dono...just feels awry..
I guess I should... I'll update this if… things go anywhere..
..on the bright side, I got another date with a different girl tomorrow (err, today), and I just remembered a store that's having a blowout sale! Awwwww yeaaaaaa
Oh, btw, for people who want to comment/reply/advice. If you’re going to refer to something I said, make sure it’s something I actually said (wrote), and not something you think I wrote, or something you read too fast to understand.
Thanks,
- Godsninja
So I text her, and we got each others numbers, and I even managed to pocket dial her. heh..
So she gave me a text Tuesday asking me if I’m going to the open house, so I say yea, and ask if she wants to grab a bite/drink tomorrow (which is now yesterday). She’s down, we meet up at a coffee shop, and head over to a place I like that makes good food. Everything’s good, she’s laughing pretty easy..and we chattin you know. We get back in my car and I’m like, what should we do now? She says she's the kind of girl that is down for anything, in a very, you know, obvious kind of way, like yea, I got the hint, kind of way. So I say let’s go back to my place, and then I say "Let's go back to myyyy plaace" in a really retarded jokingly kind of way, after the first time I said it, in a sort of response to her obviousness...I don't know why I did that. Like da fuck, probably made her feel uncomfortable.
We get to my place, and I show her around. We get in the bed, and I freakin hate clothes in my bed, but what am I going to say, "Take off your clothes"? lol (actually I think I shoulda tried that...)
So we are in bed listening to music, I put on a 15min video of whatever techno, and I grab her hand and ask her who she got the ring from (left hand ring finger). She tells me it’s a stupid story, but I say no, it's not. She basically tells me it's so she doesn't move too fast with a guy, because she made a mistake like that and she felt like garbage. Then she says not to take it the wrong way, and then I look at her, and she looks at me, and she says, "I think you're taking it the wrong way" so I pull her real close, our lips are almost touching. We kiss, and snuggle, and whatnot, but it never happens. She's a real shy kisser too. She explains to me why she is so shy about sex. We were cuddling for a bit, and she probably would have fallen asleep on my chest, but I was horny as fuck and couldn’t sleep.
So we don't end up having sex. I drive her back to her car after a little while, and drop her off, and tell her to text me or I’ll text her. During the car ride it felt a bit like she was uncomfortable (she was tired) even though I was doing my best to make her comfortable. I mean, she even told me she was when we were in bed when I was pushing for sex. She had a bad sexual experience one time...anyways...
(edit: When we were in my bed talking about things, she seemed really unconfident in some way. Because she wouldn't put out, she thought I didn't want her, and she asked me if I wanted her to leave. Sometime after this statement, not too long, she put the idea out there that we can do something again another time)
I sent her a text today and didn't get a reply...she always replied to my texts before. (not that I've sent a lot, I'm done with using text as a connection builder, I only use it strictly for logistics).
Well actually, not this text. I figured I might as well let her know it was nice to have gotten to know her and to hope she slept well as she is suffering from sleep deprivation (she’s a busy girl).
I know that I'm not very likely to get a response from a girl who I tried to push sex with, but didn't succeed with.
I liked her, I put myself out there, and because I moved too fast, I think I might have fucked up what could have been a great relationship. Perhaps I should wait before I call the score, but...I dono...just feels awry..
I guess I should... I'll update this if… things go anywhere..
..on the bright side, I got another date with a different girl tomorrow (err, today), and I just remembered a store that's having a blowout sale! Awwwww yeaaaaaa
Oh, btw, for people who want to comment/reply/advice. If you’re going to refer to something I said, make sure it’s something I actually said (wrote), and not something you think I wrote, or something you read too fast to understand.
Thanks,
- Godsninja
