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Alright guys, went on a "date" yesterday..
Background story:
I met this girl one time before. Hooked her at a club and we went to her place. Great ass and a cool chick. I gave her an orgasm and slept over. She told me she actually has kind of a boyfriend the next day. I didn't care. I sent her a text the next day and told her we should meet up again some time. When I asked later for when she was available, she told me she was all booked up, and was going away the next week. Then she proceeded to become pretty cold in the texting apartment. I asked if it was because of her kind of boyfriend. She said it kind of was. Then she didn't respond to my last text. So I just forgot about her. Three week later, she added me on facebook and sent me a message. I answered and asked if she would want to meet up as I didn't want to beat around the bush. She said yes, and then we set the date. Which was yesterday.
I had planed for us to go on a coffee, the day went on and both of us had stuff to do. So she came with an offer for us to go out and have a beer later that night. In my mind this sounded nice, "She sure is DTF when she wants to meet up at a bar." was my thought. So dumb of me.. So I went to visit my friend who works at a classy restaurant and had a beer with him. The one beer became two, and then we went to the bar I had suggested for me and my date to meet. She was running a bit late, and me and my friend had another beer. We know the whole bar, so we got a free drink after the beer.
The evening became night as the clock went on to be 00:00. Then I got a text that she was coming, with her friend. Alright.. wait... what?! Okey I thought, I can handle two girls, done it before. I knew she was a bit nervous to met up with me, as we didn't really know each other. So I went out to meet them outside, we talked a bit and went in and ordered more beer. Things seemed fine, until I proceeded to knock down her beer by accident. Damn... She took it okey, I bought her a new beer and sat down again. Things seemed fine, they wanted to have a smoke and I went with them. Then her friend, lets call her BandanaGirl, asked how old I was, I said 23. (They were 25). No problem for me, as I have been with lots of older girls. (Didn't tell them that) BandanaGirl then said it was just a number, who cares. I agreed. Cool, she was on my side.
They then wanted to go to the club on the other side of the street. I complied. We went inside and then out in a confined area, it was really loud there and I couldn't hear shit when they talked to me. Cold too. As I sat on the other side of the table. I said "What?" and "HUH?" all the time. This date sure went down the drain now. So I told them we should go inside, and started to walk. They didn't comply, I'm not sure if they even heard what I said. So walked up to them on the other side and told them again.. No comply. At this point all the beers I had drank sure had made it's mark, think it killed my vibe a bit. Why the hell did I drink all those beers? I don't fucking know. BandanaGirl went on the toilet. So I sat down with Dategirl and she still seemed warm. Smiled and all that. But I hadn't done any of my magic. I even forgot to become physical with her.
She then said something about going to the toilet. BandanaGirl then sat down and asked where she went. I said to the toilet. She then went after her. My fuckupsense then tingled fucking hard. So I went after them to see what was going on. I thought, fuck it, they probably bailed. So I went out of the club and there they were.. Standing outside. I asked them what was up. My date said she was tired from work and some crap, so she was going home. And then they said farewell. I went on to see if I could hook up with some other girl at the bar, but ended up at a lame afterparty with some guys and a fat girl taking coke. So I'm pretty down today about how things went and how I handled it.
Yeah, lots of things went wrong here, and I did not handle this any good at all..
1. Her friend came along. I didn't see it as a huge problem at first, as her friend seemed to like me. But it ruined for me at the club as my date didn't HAVE to talk to me when I couldn't hear her.
2. I drank to much.. I really don't like to have to many beers when I talk to girls. Some is okey, but yeah.. Fucked there.
3. I kicked over her beer and had to buy her a new one. Just a bit unlucky. The girls liked it tho, as all the other people on the table left.
4. I complied to go to the club. It was too loud and it was cold outside, which killed my vibe.
5. I didn't get physical. Totally forgot about it, normally I get physical without thinking about it. Think the beers had something to do with it.
I'm sure it's more I did wrong here, so feel free to point it out. Not sure how I should have done it with her bringing a friend. I actually think she was tired, because she had told me this earlier.
Some things I did was good. Looked sharp. When I got to talk I handled the conversations great. Had good eye contact with the girls. Used a sexy smile and sexy eyes when I needed too. Got her friend to like me too.
Sent her a text today. She responded pretty warm, so I don't really know if she's up to meet again. I told her she owed me a dinner(since we talked about this at some point) and she should send me a text if she want's to meet again. As I don't want to put too much energy in this girl after this fucked up date. She said "Ait
". I'm not gonna text her anymore. If she sends me a text about a meet up, then I'm only gonna comply to coming to her place for dinner or something.
Background story:
I met this girl one time before. Hooked her at a club and we went to her place. Great ass and a cool chick. I gave her an orgasm and slept over. She told me she actually has kind of a boyfriend the next day. I didn't care. I sent her a text the next day and told her we should meet up again some time. When I asked later for when she was available, she told me she was all booked up, and was going away the next week. Then she proceeded to become pretty cold in the texting apartment. I asked if it was because of her kind of boyfriend. She said it kind of was. Then she didn't respond to my last text. So I just forgot about her. Three week later, she added me on facebook and sent me a message. I answered and asked if she would want to meet up as I didn't want to beat around the bush. She said yes, and then we set the date. Which was yesterday.
I had planed for us to go on a coffee, the day went on and both of us had stuff to do. So she came with an offer for us to go out and have a beer later that night. In my mind this sounded nice, "She sure is DTF when she wants to meet up at a bar." was my thought. So dumb of me.. So I went to visit my friend who works at a classy restaurant and had a beer with him. The one beer became two, and then we went to the bar I had suggested for me and my date to meet. She was running a bit late, and me and my friend had another beer. We know the whole bar, so we got a free drink after the beer.
The evening became night as the clock went on to be 00:00. Then I got a text that she was coming, with her friend. Alright.. wait... what?! Okey I thought, I can handle two girls, done it before. I knew she was a bit nervous to met up with me, as we didn't really know each other. So I went out to meet them outside, we talked a bit and went in and ordered more beer. Things seemed fine, until I proceeded to knock down her beer by accident. Damn... She took it okey, I bought her a new beer and sat down again. Things seemed fine, they wanted to have a smoke and I went with them. Then her friend, lets call her BandanaGirl, asked how old I was, I said 23. (They were 25). No problem for me, as I have been with lots of older girls. (Didn't tell them that) BandanaGirl then said it was just a number, who cares. I agreed. Cool, she was on my side.
They then wanted to go to the club on the other side of the street. I complied. We went inside and then out in a confined area, it was really loud there and I couldn't hear shit when they talked to me. Cold too. As I sat on the other side of the table. I said "What?" and "HUH?" all the time. This date sure went down the drain now. So I told them we should go inside, and started to walk. They didn't comply, I'm not sure if they even heard what I said. So walked up to them on the other side and told them again.. No comply. At this point all the beers I had drank sure had made it's mark, think it killed my vibe a bit. Why the hell did I drink all those beers? I don't fucking know. BandanaGirl went on the toilet. So I sat down with Dategirl and she still seemed warm. Smiled and all that. But I hadn't done any of my magic. I even forgot to become physical with her.
She then said something about going to the toilet. BandanaGirl then sat down and asked where she went. I said to the toilet. She then went after her. My fuckupsense then tingled fucking hard. So I went after them to see what was going on. I thought, fuck it, they probably bailed. So I went out of the club and there they were.. Standing outside. I asked them what was up. My date said she was tired from work and some crap, so she was going home. And then they said farewell. I went on to see if I could hook up with some other girl at the bar, but ended up at a lame afterparty with some guys and a fat girl taking coke. So I'm pretty down today about how things went and how I handled it.
Yeah, lots of things went wrong here, and I did not handle this any good at all..
1. Her friend came along. I didn't see it as a huge problem at first, as her friend seemed to like me. But it ruined for me at the club as my date didn't HAVE to talk to me when I couldn't hear her.
2. I drank to much.. I really don't like to have to many beers when I talk to girls. Some is okey, but yeah.. Fucked there.
3. I kicked over her beer and had to buy her a new one. Just a bit unlucky. The girls liked it tho, as all the other people on the table left.
4. I complied to go to the club. It was too loud and it was cold outside, which killed my vibe.
5. I didn't get physical. Totally forgot about it, normally I get physical without thinking about it. Think the beers had something to do with it.
I'm sure it's more I did wrong here, so feel free to point it out. Not sure how I should have done it with her bringing a friend. I actually think she was tired, because she had told me this earlier.
Some things I did was good. Looked sharp. When I got to talk I handled the conversations great. Had good eye contact with the girls. Used a sexy smile and sexy eyes when I needed too. Got her friend to like me too.
Sent her a text today. She responded pretty warm, so I don't really know if she's up to meet again. I told her she owed me a dinner(since we talked about this at some point) and she should send me a text if she want's to meet again. As I don't want to put too much energy in this girl after this fucked up date. She said "Ait
". I'm not gonna text her anymore. If she sends me a text about a meet up, then I'm only gonna comply to coming to her place for dinner or something.