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Fucking Girls in your Social Circle and it's After-Effect

Mystique

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Hey guys, it's been a while. I've been super busy and I'm currently writing my exams. I've read Peter Fontes article on social circle gaming and one of Chase's article on the same subject. I have a question. What would be the consequences/effect if I slept with cute girls (not the most attractive ones) in my social circle. Would that reduce my value or make it harder to sleep with the hot ones because word would definitely spread. Although I've made up my mind that I'll do it for the learning process and the fact that college life is not real life, but I'll ask this -- is it worth it? Also, how can I reduce/prevent any potential negative effect. I have lots of girls that are attracted to me but I never sealed the deal coz of logistics. Now I'm staying with some friends and I have two strong potential hookups. Here's how I'm perceived in my social circle:
I'm a high value guy
I'm a total flirt (even without words, just eye contact)
Girls like to cling and flirt with me
Girls compliment me a lot that I'm good looking, I have a sexy eye contact, I look dangerous (they say it smiling, lol)
But here's the other side
All these compliments I get are not from the hottest girls
Although I still flirt with the hot girls and it's obvious that they are attracted, I don't flirt as much as I do with the cute ones
I'm not as close to the hot ones as I am with the cute ones (probably because the hot ones never linger around after classes). Now it would have been bad if I was the only one experiencing these issues but it's same with the most attractive guys (which are my pals) and there's no even intra-class shagging atm (am I about to break a record!) So what are your thoughts guys?
 

Mystique

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Hahaa, seems like I didn't get any reply. Well I did follow my heart, or rather my penis. Now let's see where it leads ;)
 

Chase

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Mystique-

Check out this article:

Why the Status of Women You Sleep with Matters in Social Circle

Basically though, it's about her status in the circle, not her looks.

If she's not the cutest, but she IS the most popular, every other girl will want you more.

If she's more in the middle of the pack status-wise, then you become more attractive to those below her and less attractive to those above.

It's not 100% swing or anything; girls below her in status may not still completely roll out the red carpet for you, while girls above her may not totally shut the door on you. Depends how status-conscious they are, how much it gets around, how attached to you she is versus how attached you are (if she thinks you are the most remarkable man ever and tells everyone as such, and you play it down, the higher status girls may still be intrigued), etc. All kinds of factors and effects at play here.

Chase
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Mystique

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Oh, that makes sense. I was wondering, is there a way you can reverse a bad precedent in social circle gaming. Like if you sleep with a girl who's in the middle status wise and word gets out. How can you remedy the situation so you can still be attractive to the higher status girls. Any tips?
 
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