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Wow. Its been a while since I put up a FR. I've had other things on my mind, but I want to get back to putting more of these up. I'll have one about a cruise coming up soon too.
This really should be a LR, but things went awry. It's not a problem with my game, and didn't have anything to do with her. Shit just happens. Anyways, I want to put this up because it was smooth and felt natural. Its getting to the point where if I'm not alone and making out with a girl at least once on the weekend, I seriously fucked up. For a guy who couldn't get a homecoming date in high school, that's pretty cool.
My game is all about three things: Fundamentals, Process, and Persistence. Its what made this so easy. No lines, no routines, no bullshit.
So to start things off, I was in my room during a party talking to two girls. They're were both in Tri Delta and are big and little. I had hooked up with the big sister, and I was originally planning to try and do that again. But I wanted to at least try for a threesome/ practice openers, so I threw out a compliment to her little. She lights up and eventually I sit next to her. It takes less than five minutes before I realize that there's an attraction (I should have noticed earlier, but I was focused on her big sister). So I go from the big sister to the little sister (the girl who this FR is about). Sorority girls do this a lot, I've noticed. If you make a good impression on the big sister, the little sister will come looking for you soon enough.
This is what fundamentals do. They get your foot in the door and are what creates attraction.
So I keep talking to her and then we go to find another party. I would have just kept her in my room, but my friends are in there and aren't leaving so...I have to move her somewhere else. We dance for a bit at one place, and I grab her hand. I'm not sure which article it was on the main site, but Ricardus wrote a great article about holding a girls hand in a sexual, yet also light way. So I tried it. She loved it. I think that might be a new step to add to my process. We eventually head back to my place. The only problem was that she was leading the interaction sometimes. She would grab my hand and pull me. I led her just as much though, so I don't think it hurt me too much.
This is how my process works. I didn't follow it exactly because of logistical issues, but basically its, open, move (+ hand hold), deep dive, isolate, escalate and finish. Simple enough to follow and remember, comprehensive enough to get the job done.
I also had to deal with other girls and guys. My friends and her friends were always around and I had to help her hook up her friend. Didn't phase me. I had no problem waiting, because I knew we'd end up together. I even whispered to her what I'd do when we were alone. She loved it. It also helped that this girl was very sexual and aggressive. I waited for my friends to leave too. All while deep diving with her, but more sexual that deep topics.
This is Persistence. Its having the knowledge that you will get this girl and she wants to be with you. I could have done better with this. When they left, I waited, and she told me that I should come with them/her. It worked because I got her to invest, chase, and keep my social reputation, but it was also risky because she could have left. So I need to be more confident in what I have and that girls want to be with me. Does anyone know how to graciously invite yourself along with the girl? I figure most times if she wants me, she'll invite me, but I'd like to get the girls who aren't 100% sure too.
Finally we were alone. As soon as we were, I grabbed her and kissed her. Its just a natural reaction now. I was rougher than usual, and she was really into it. I felt like a lover, not a boyfriend, which was awesome. I was about to go even further, but her big sister came in and grabbed her stuff. And then the girl who I was making out with left for a second to "check up on her" in the next room, but what she was really doing was getting the confirmation to have sex with me. I didn't mind her leaving, because I knew what it was and that she'd come back.
Then, other things happened. Its not relevant to my game or anything seduction wise. But it made it so I couldn't continue things with the girl that night. Unfortunately, this is a problem with night game. Sometimes things out of your control just come up mess things up.
I am pretty confident that without the distraction, I could have gotten a LR. Of course I didn't so I feel a little bummed.
I don't really have any questions/areas to work on, besides the bolded one, but I'm happy to answer any questions you guys might have about my process, persistence, or fundamentals.
V
This really should be a LR, but things went awry. It's not a problem with my game, and didn't have anything to do with her. Shit just happens. Anyways, I want to put this up because it was smooth and felt natural. Its getting to the point where if I'm not alone and making out with a girl at least once on the weekend, I seriously fucked up. For a guy who couldn't get a homecoming date in high school, that's pretty cool.
My game is all about three things: Fundamentals, Process, and Persistence. Its what made this so easy. No lines, no routines, no bullshit.
So to start things off, I was in my room during a party talking to two girls. They're were both in Tri Delta and are big and little. I had hooked up with the big sister, and I was originally planning to try and do that again. But I wanted to at least try for a threesome/ practice openers, so I threw out a compliment to her little. She lights up and eventually I sit next to her. It takes less than five minutes before I realize that there's an attraction (I should have noticed earlier, but I was focused on her big sister). So I go from the big sister to the little sister (the girl who this FR is about). Sorority girls do this a lot, I've noticed. If you make a good impression on the big sister, the little sister will come looking for you soon enough.
This is what fundamentals do. They get your foot in the door and are what creates attraction.
So I keep talking to her and then we go to find another party. I would have just kept her in my room, but my friends are in there and aren't leaving so...I have to move her somewhere else. We dance for a bit at one place, and I grab her hand. I'm not sure which article it was on the main site, but Ricardus wrote a great article about holding a girls hand in a sexual, yet also light way. So I tried it. She loved it. I think that might be a new step to add to my process. We eventually head back to my place. The only problem was that she was leading the interaction sometimes. She would grab my hand and pull me. I led her just as much though, so I don't think it hurt me too much.
This is how my process works. I didn't follow it exactly because of logistical issues, but basically its, open, move (+ hand hold), deep dive, isolate, escalate and finish. Simple enough to follow and remember, comprehensive enough to get the job done.
I also had to deal with other girls and guys. My friends and her friends were always around and I had to help her hook up her friend. Didn't phase me. I had no problem waiting, because I knew we'd end up together. I even whispered to her what I'd do when we were alone. She loved it. It also helped that this girl was very sexual and aggressive. I waited for my friends to leave too. All while deep diving with her, but more sexual that deep topics.
This is Persistence. Its having the knowledge that you will get this girl and she wants to be with you. I could have done better with this. When they left, I waited, and she told me that I should come with them/her. It worked because I got her to invest, chase, and keep my social reputation, but it was also risky because she could have left. So I need to be more confident in what I have and that girls want to be with me. Does anyone know how to graciously invite yourself along with the girl? I figure most times if she wants me, she'll invite me, but I'd like to get the girls who aren't 100% sure too.
Finally we were alone. As soon as we were, I grabbed her and kissed her. Its just a natural reaction now. I was rougher than usual, and she was really into it. I felt like a lover, not a boyfriend, which was awesome. I was about to go even further, but her big sister came in and grabbed her stuff. And then the girl who I was making out with left for a second to "check up on her" in the next room, but what she was really doing was getting the confirmation to have sex with me. I didn't mind her leaving, because I knew what it was and that she'd come back.
Then, other things happened. Its not relevant to my game or anything seduction wise. But it made it so I couldn't continue things with the girl that night. Unfortunately, this is a problem with night game. Sometimes things out of your control just come up mess things up.
I am pretty confident that without the distraction, I could have gotten a LR. Of course I didn't so I feel a little bummed.
I don't really have any questions/areas to work on, besides the bolded one, but I'm happy to answer any questions you guys might have about my process, persistence, or fundamentals.
V
