Fundamentals

[Atlas]

Hey guys, I've been reading off of this website for a while now, and I just realized my fundamentals are bad, what kind of stuff should I be working on to improve it? I already have my walk, posture, and voice down, but I know I'm missing out on some things. Thanks

 

[nino]

Atlas,

You forgot looks! A popular advice here is to go to a high end stylist once, tell him to get your hair done in a fashionable way that fits you and then you can go to any barber you want once you need it to be a little shorter. Also important are your clothes, what you wear and how you wear it. Lots of great posts on here as well as this article by Chase

And of course, work out. Beneficial for both, looks and confidence.

- nino

 

[fsc_old]

Mindset. You can get the sexiest haircut, the latest fashion, and etc, but if your mindset isn't straight then you'll project a vibe that does not fit your physical image. Girls will pick up on it and feel like something is off with you.

Try to obtain the abundance mentality, "the devil may care" attitude, and try not to view pickup as a complex procedure. If you're walking around running Chase's latest article through your head, thinking "I'm gonna make C approaches and get K numbers in J hours", or mentally rehearsing scripts about what line you're gonna open with and the next 5 questions to ask her, then more likely than not you'll give off a tense/serious vibe. Rather, view approaching as something casual that you do when you happen to run into a beautiful woman while you're out and about minding your own business. Be chill, happy, and sexy.

Hopefully that helped. Good luck and take care

 

[Atlas]

Awesome advice guys! I will definitely have to work on those! I do believe I need to get my style down a little more and I never thought about over thinking pickup too much (which I'm sure is another thing I need to work on). Thanks again