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- May 19, 2023
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Being back in game in my mid 30s after a couple of serious relationships is great but there are also some cons.
Not being in a relationship also means that the frequency with which I have sex has diminished greatly. However, my sexual urges haven't. If not, they have increased (didn't except to have a stronger drive in my 30s compared to my 20s but here I am)
As we all know, until you are very advanced, you can't expect to pull girls weekly and have multiple f**kbuddies. Even more so if you are very busy with your work and have limited time to go out (gotta get some good pics and text game guide and get on those dating apps ASAP).
As long as you're intermediate (in my case a rusty intermediate who hasn't gamed regularly for years) you should always be outcome independent. Do the best you can do right now to game a chick and move on if things don't escalate to the sweetest end.
Years ago, I met a guy who was doing both game and meditation, using the second to avoid his urges becoming a source of frustration as well as making his mind sharper while gaming girls (and in general doing life activities). Even though he was just a beginner, he had this very calm, yet relentless way of gaming which made him more effective than other beginners.
I imagine this can be a true force if also combined with advanced gaming skills. Has anybody here ever experienced this combination and if so, do you have any tips to start?
Not being in a relationship also means that the frequency with which I have sex has diminished greatly. However, my sexual urges haven't. If not, they have increased (didn't except to have a stronger drive in my 30s compared to my 20s but here I am)
As we all know, until you are very advanced, you can't expect to pull girls weekly and have multiple f**kbuddies. Even more so if you are very busy with your work and have limited time to go out (gotta get some good pics and text game guide and get on those dating apps ASAP).
As long as you're intermediate (in my case a rusty intermediate who hasn't gamed regularly for years) you should always be outcome independent. Do the best you can do right now to game a chick and move on if things don't escalate to the sweetest end.
Years ago, I met a guy who was doing both game and meditation, using the second to avoid his urges becoming a source of frustration as well as making his mind sharper while gaming girls (and in general doing life activities). Even though he was just a beginner, he had this very calm, yet relentless way of gaming which made him more effective than other beginners.
I imagine this can be a true force if also combined with advanced gaming skills. Has anybody here ever experienced this combination and if so, do you have any tips to start?
