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Gaming a taken chick - worth the trouble?

ceero

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Hey guys. First of all, let me say - i would never do this to any girl thats in a HAPPY relationship, satisfied with her sexual life and her BF. That's just low and im not a monster.

So, here's my deal. There's this chick, i know her for a long time, we have never really been close friends, more like we have many mutual friends.
A few weeks ago we bumped into each other and somehow ended up going out for a few beers, just the two of us. On the second time we were out we ended up having sex at my place (which happend twice all together). Every time she acted a bit weird afterwards (regret because of the bf?) but she never cut the communication and we went out a few days later again. The thing is that one day we meet and she is all reserved and we dont even kiss, the next time we end at my place hooking up and so on. It's quite a bumpy ride.

She is in a long relationship with a guy, 8 years i think. They don't live together, these days they meet occasionally once a few weeks and she's very unsatisfied with the sex life. She said he's a dude without perspective, that they are very different people (he's this kind of racist meathead while she's a highly inteligent educated girl). She said she'd like to give him a next shot one day, next day she says she just wishes she had someone who actually acted like a boyfriend and does not want to fuck only while drunk as hell.

So what do you say, is this one worth the trouble? I wouldn't be asking this if it was 'just another chick', the deal is that this one is extremely hot and i absolutely adore her as a person too. I absolutely don't try to think too much forward about relationship, fall for her etc. I def am a relationship type but im not 16 to fall for a girl after such a short period, i'm just trying to find out if it's worth the trouble. What do you think, is this too much BS to cope with?
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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I wouldn't call what you are doing "Gaming". You are a convenient fuck buddy for her. What ever definition of a relationship she and the other dude have is not your problem, responsibility or business. If you have a relationship with the SO then it's your issue.

This is not a steady piece of ass you can count on. You have no claim. But given her treatment of the other guy, she would be disqualified as relationship material for me immediately.

She's an "opportunity piece". If she is interested and you have no other plans, go for it. But you don't interact other than between the sheets. And you don't initiate.

Don't curtail any other female options on her behalf, and don't stop developing more...
 
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