Hi,
So I'm at work an I take the elevator to the last floor where my desk is, but on the second floor a girls enters and I instantly approached her. We were just the two of us in the elevator. Everything went good and after a few days I contacted her to take a walk with me in the campus and she agreed. Flirtation went great, we didn't even talk about wok, travel or any of that stuff, just non-sense. The next day she invites me on her kitchen floor and offered me a bag (I told her when we walked outside that I need to by a bag for gym) and tea. I was having one of those days that you just hate, so we talked most about travel and and what we are doing in our lives. Today I was feeling awesome and we flirted a lot on the internal chat software of the company and in our conversation the meeting subject came along. She told that if I ask her out she will refuse me. I told her that is her loos and after a while I brought the subject back. She mention she already told me, and I replied:
Me: Where did you told me that?
Her: a few lines above
Me: Well... I guess I missed that, I will re-read it tomorrow.
Now, she looks interested or at least this is how I see it because she responds great, she always asks me questions and start chatting, plus she offered me a bag !
My two questions:
Was this a shit test by her telling me she will refuse me ?
How do you respond to this when I will ask her out next week?
Thanks for the help
So I'm at work an I take the elevator to the last floor where my desk is, but on the second floor a girls enters and I instantly approached her. We were just the two of us in the elevator. Everything went good and after a few days I contacted her to take a walk with me in the campus and she agreed. Flirtation went great, we didn't even talk about wok, travel or any of that stuff, just non-sense. The next day she invites me on her kitchen floor and offered me a bag (I told her when we walked outside that I need to by a bag for gym) and tea. I was having one of those days that you just hate, so we talked most about travel and and what we are doing in our lives. Today I was feeling awesome and we flirted a lot on the internal chat software of the company and in our conversation the meeting subject came along. She told that if I ask her out she will refuse me. I told her that is her loos and after a while I brought the subject back. She mention she already told me, and I replied:
Me: Where did you told me that?
Her: a few lines above
Me: Well... I guess I missed that, I will re-read it tomorrow.
Now, she looks interested or at least this is how I see it because she responds great, she always asks me questions and start chatting, plus she offered me a bag !
My two questions:
Was this a shit test by her telling me she will refuse me ?
How do you respond to this when I will ask her out next week?
Thanks for the help
