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Gave my number to a waitress, no text from her. Should I persist?

razir110

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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So a new one lads.

Went to play football with some mates and after we went for lunch. The waitress in the restaurant was super cute, so I waiter till the end of the meal, went up to her, started a conversation.

We didn't speak that much, I mean she was working, so I said she seemed like a cool girl so we should go for a coffee. She seemed quite surprised by my approach and didn't immediately tell me when she was free. Fist she was like "I am busy" me "Well You cant be THAT busy!.." her: "well I am free.. ..Thursday bla bla.
At this point the conversation started to stall and I realized I left my phone a home, so I just said that she would keep my number and text me when she had time to meet up. I wrote her my number on a piece of paper and left.

This was 3 days ago and she didn't contact me. It happens that we will go to that place again next week, so I will see her. Should I insist on the date or this is a def no? Is there a good way to play this?

Extra info: The guys who I was with have been doing this for like a year and they know her. They told me that they used to make comments abut her like "she is sooo hot" in their language only to discover a few months later that she also spoke that language and understood everything.. Do you think this may play against me? She only saw me ones though. That's I decided to act fast, before she seems me a bunch of times and it becomes odd.

Opinions please!
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

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Space Monkey
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Ah yes, first rule always get her number, maybe you could have written hers down on a piece of paper.
You might as well spark up some conversation if you are going to see her again if shes working and based on the vibe go from there. If your friends already have a reputation with her for being weird then you are going to fall under that category by association so I would probably move on to the next, there are so many hot girls in this world to start again fresh. Anyway see how she reacts to seeing you again and go from there.
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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The odds were against you. Hired gun, In her workplace, in public, with a social group that she may not regard highly. Nice Hail Mary but the defense was expecting that.... Huddle up and find a different play to call (different girl)
 
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