General Seduction Process

[NewBeeWinner]

Hi all,

I have had a desire to do a quick rundown of what I have been doing in my seduction process vs. what I should be doing and then changing a few things to help my success rate. I find that flow charts are a good, quick way to do this that are easy to follow. Below I have attached a graphic of what I am doing. Please check it out and add any comments of areas that I missed or what I am doing right/wrong.

https://imgur.com/a/5acvTfW

My most recent LR (my first!) generally followed this process. The girl before her, I had this process, but failed to escalate to a lay properly (I have since NEXTed that girl). The girl before that girl, I got all the way to the isolation location, but failed to escalate. We went on more dates, but the logistics didn't allow isolation. She eventually said she fell out of interest and we separated.

I have gone on one date since my most recent LR (with a different girl). I failed to break the touch barrier properly, escalate physically, and have the correct logistics for escalating the date (it was super cold out, she/I both lived with our parents, and there wasn't a good isolation area besides my car). She rejected me kissing her, said she just wanted to be friends, and I haven't heard from her since. i am still out meeting women.

Other girls, both single and with "a boyfriend", I have gotten them to agree to a date and got their number. I texted per the process above and haven't gotten any responses back. Might be an issue with my fundamentals, attainability, or my approach (showcasing myself as a sexual man instead of as a potential friend/boyfriend). I will need to work more on these.

Thanks for the help!

 

[foggy]

I don't see any qualification in there....can you explain your process for that?

 

[NewBeeWinner]

So I actually wasn't aware of the idea of qualification separate from screening. Since your post, I have read up on it so I will be more conscious of adding that in.

I don't have a specific process for that, but I have been slightly qualifying women (just unaware of it) at the back end of my screening if they successfully screened (for example, they like cooking and I love food or they just moved out of their parents so I congratulate them on their newly found independence and future adventures).

I am going to make more of an effort to properly qualify women in addition to screening. It will help with my deep diving and probably help so that women don't go cold on me after I get their number to plan the first date.

I will qualify by asking more positive/diving questions about topics that they do that I like or by sharing a short story of my own that can relate. If they fail to qualify, I'll disqualify them by going "Hmm. I see." or by cushioning with a compliment "Oh really? That's too bad that a cute and kind girl like you doesn't know how to cook, I am a big lover of food".

Thanks for pointing that out!