Gentlemen,
I apologise I’ve been away for so long. I’m currently recovering from a double jaw operation and I honestly didn't expect to be back on the boards with anything of note until March time, however life has these little surprises
This girl is someone who has been in my class from the beginning of October and although Chase normally says get in there fast, I honestly just saw her as a friend and wasn’t really hoping/expecting anything.
Back in October in the first lesson, I was talking to a few girls in there (majority of class is female), quite a few for the first time, and then this German sits down and I just open her up immediately (can’t remember what I said, but I think it was “where are you from?”). Having an international in the class immediately drew my attention, especially as I’m learning that language. I always try and make good friends with internationals for future travelling purposes and whatnot.
Anyway a few months went by and I didn’t think anything of it, but we clicked quite well and always sat next to each other. I was invited to her flat a few times for gatherings/pizza nights etc. In December I was there having a film night with her flat mates and we started cuddling a little bit, and that’s when I knew something was on. However we were never alone as the two of us so nothing developed. And then she flew back to Germany for Christmas and I went into Hospital for my operation.
We texted quite a bit over the Christmas period. I usually hate texting and everyone thinks I’m a bad texter, but I always just say I prefer meeting up in person. I avoid huge, long messages about life events like the plague. However I was recovering and just lying in bed for two weeks so we shared a few messages.
Turns out over this Christmas period it had really clicked with her how much she liked me ( she told me this later ) (and I think she told a few of her German friends back home too from what I can work out).
So around 6th January I go round and her American flatmate has her boyfriend over and we all sit in a watch a movie together, both of us cuddling up. Leads to nothing though, and wasn’t expecting it to either.
See her once or twice, a few kisses ensued, and then last Sunday, with her entire flat gone, we stepped things up a gear.
Laying there watching a film and things started getting heated, dry humping and eventually leading me to fingering her over the top and behind when she was on top of me. We started to get really heated, clothes came off and I made her cum multiple times with fingers and licking her. I made her cum hard, to the point she was like “Okay, you don’t need to worry, you’re really good in bed.” However, every time I got her super heated I asked if I should get a condom and she said no.
She was adamant she wasn’t going to sleep with me. She said she wanted to, but she wasn’t going to.
I rinse and repeat, using everything I knew about overcoming LMR. Pulling back and chilling out a bit before getting her outrageously excited, but to no avail. We spent hours talking, saying what we liked about each other, how comfortable she felt around me, how she could just be herself. How she realised over Christmas how much she liked me, but was worried I just wanted a quick shag and to move on.
She also started talking more about sex, both discussing past partners. This girl seemed like the most innocent girl ever, yet she’d done more than most girls. Tied up twice, anal, 69, and a facial (which she didn’t enjoy haha). This surprised me a lot (I didn’t show it) but started to wonder why she would do all that but was ‘resisting me.’ She also used an excuse to be that her news years resolution was to not sleep with guys she wasn’t in a relationship with. She said that she hasn’t slept with more than 10 guys (which I don’t believe, I’m guessing between 12-16), yet she lost her virginity at 15. So why not me? The more we talked the more the reason started becoming clear:
She liked me ‘too’ much.
This girl had fallen for me…hard.
And on Wednesday she was flying back to Germany for good and no real chance of seeing me until April when I move to a different city to her in Germany, but there’s the chance I’ll visit her.
This started around 10.30pm and stopped about 4/5am. She had said many times now and I didn’t want to persist to the point that it seemed that’s all I wanted, so we went to sleep. I, however, can’t sleep when in bed with a girl (this is like the 4th time this has happened, I genuinely think I have a problem) and around 8am I head home, agreeing I’ll be over Tuesday night before she grabs her flight Wednesday morning. I leave with her saying to me “You have left me truly satisfied.”
So Tuesday night I head over and we immediately start chilling, order a take-away and eat that whilst watching something, then start heating up. It’s not long before I’m fingering her and she’s giving me a hand job. Over time this builds up to licking and blowjobs. She says how she knows sex with me will be absolutely amazing and she really really wants to, but she won’t do it. There were times where we were just naked on top of each other, grabbing and pretending like we were having sex with humping movements but she just didn’t want it inside her. After a few more orgasms etc and some chatting, she says how she still feels just so comfortable with me, and I start bringing up the topic of places she’s had sex, she says car and shower and we discuss sex positions like lifting the girl up against the wall, which she loves.
Staying on this topic, we decide to shower together. It was fun, the entire time she was saying how ‘hot’ I was and many sexual acts were performed. We come out, chill and chat some more, then she wants me to tie her up and turn her on hard.
I went full out - she loves dirty talk? She got dirty talk, I tied her and blindfolded her with my scarf and teased the shit out of her. I’ve never had a girl so ramped up, on the brink of absolutely exploding. Licking and teasing her, whispering in her ear how hard I’d fuck her. She loves it. If this couldn’t convince her, I was out of ideas.
But still said no sex.
Fuck. Sake.
I was out. I accepted the fact it wasn’t going to happene, licked her out and made her orgasm unbelievably hard and after chilling a bit after, I headed home as I had to get up for the hospital in the morning and she had her flight.
And that’s it. Part of me thinks it’s all to do with my vibe. I used to be the absolute white knight guy, and I’ve moved away from that a lot now, but maybe too much. Maybe I’m too lover type.
She’s trying to make me a provider even though she knows it’s not going to happen due to where we live. So she doesn’t want to sleep with me so she still holds something over me. Next time I see her, I still haven’t ‘conquered’ her in her eyes. She still holds something over me. But when I made her cum, she screams out “Why are you so perfect?!” so I kind of get confused haha!
A few are probably thinking why I didn’t just shove my dick in her, but one thing I aim to be and one thing I believe this site teaches extremely well is being a Gentlemen. Shoving my dick in her when it’s something she didn’t necessarily want wholeheartedly could have bad consequences - for how she sees me, her trust in men and she could even turn it into rape (worst case).
We've been texting still, now she's back in Germany and she misses me a lot. This might turn into a long-distance fuckbuddy thing, I have no idea. But I'm keeping neutral and going to try and keep her interest up over the next month or two until there's more of an opportunity to see her.
But overall I’m quite happy. I really wasn't expecting this and the Law of Least Effort is a wonderful thing as I did absolutely NOTHING. The beginning of February is my year anniversary of losing my virginity and although I would have liked to have gotten another lay this month (there’s still time!), getting 5 lays in my first year is pretty satisfying and I aim to hit 20 by the end of the year (yup, trying to step things up a bit).
Would really appreciate feedback on this situation as I had another LMR case a few months back that I still can’t get my head around. (viewtopic.php?f=5&t=12065&p=60924#p60924)
So some light being shed may sort this all out.
Cheers
- JP
I apologise I’ve been away for so long. I’m currently recovering from a double jaw operation and I honestly didn't expect to be back on the boards with anything of note until March time, however life has these little surprises
This girl is someone who has been in my class from the beginning of October and although Chase normally says get in there fast, I honestly just saw her as a friend and wasn’t really hoping/expecting anything.
Back in October in the first lesson, I was talking to a few girls in there (majority of class is female), quite a few for the first time, and then this German sits down and I just open her up immediately (can’t remember what I said, but I think it was “where are you from?”). Having an international in the class immediately drew my attention, especially as I’m learning that language. I always try and make good friends with internationals for future travelling purposes and whatnot.
Anyway a few months went by and I didn’t think anything of it, but we clicked quite well and always sat next to each other. I was invited to her flat a few times for gatherings/pizza nights etc. In December I was there having a film night with her flat mates and we started cuddling a little bit, and that’s when I knew something was on. However we were never alone as the two of us so nothing developed. And then she flew back to Germany for Christmas and I went into Hospital for my operation.
We texted quite a bit over the Christmas period. I usually hate texting and everyone thinks I’m a bad texter, but I always just say I prefer meeting up in person. I avoid huge, long messages about life events like the plague. However I was recovering and just lying in bed for two weeks so we shared a few messages.
Turns out over this Christmas period it had really clicked with her how much she liked me ( she told me this later ) (and I think she told a few of her German friends back home too from what I can work out).
So around 6th January I go round and her American flatmate has her boyfriend over and we all sit in a watch a movie together, both of us cuddling up. Leads to nothing though, and wasn’t expecting it to either.
See her once or twice, a few kisses ensued, and then last Sunday, with her entire flat gone, we stepped things up a gear.
Laying there watching a film and things started getting heated, dry humping and eventually leading me to fingering her over the top and behind when she was on top of me. We started to get really heated, clothes came off and I made her cum multiple times with fingers and licking her. I made her cum hard, to the point she was like “Okay, you don’t need to worry, you’re really good in bed.” However, every time I got her super heated I asked if I should get a condom and she said no.
She was adamant she wasn’t going to sleep with me. She said she wanted to, but she wasn’t going to.
I rinse and repeat, using everything I knew about overcoming LMR. Pulling back and chilling out a bit before getting her outrageously excited, but to no avail. We spent hours talking, saying what we liked about each other, how comfortable she felt around me, how she could just be herself. How she realised over Christmas how much she liked me, but was worried I just wanted a quick shag and to move on.
She also started talking more about sex, both discussing past partners. This girl seemed like the most innocent girl ever, yet she’d done more than most girls. Tied up twice, anal, 69, and a facial (which she didn’t enjoy haha). This surprised me a lot (I didn’t show it) but started to wonder why she would do all that but was ‘resisting me.’ She also used an excuse to be that her news years resolution was to not sleep with guys she wasn’t in a relationship with. She said that she hasn’t slept with more than 10 guys (which I don’t believe, I’m guessing between 12-16), yet she lost her virginity at 15. So why not me? The more we talked the more the reason started becoming clear:
She liked me ‘too’ much.
This girl had fallen for me…hard.
And on Wednesday she was flying back to Germany for good and no real chance of seeing me until April when I move to a different city to her in Germany, but there’s the chance I’ll visit her.
This started around 10.30pm and stopped about 4/5am. She had said many times now and I didn’t want to persist to the point that it seemed that’s all I wanted, so we went to sleep. I, however, can’t sleep when in bed with a girl (this is like the 4th time this has happened, I genuinely think I have a problem) and around 8am I head home, agreeing I’ll be over Tuesday night before she grabs her flight Wednesday morning. I leave with her saying to me “You have left me truly satisfied.”
So Tuesday night I head over and we immediately start chilling, order a take-away and eat that whilst watching something, then start heating up. It’s not long before I’m fingering her and she’s giving me a hand job. Over time this builds up to licking and blowjobs. She says how she knows sex with me will be absolutely amazing and she really really wants to, but she won’t do it. There were times where we were just naked on top of each other, grabbing and pretending like we were having sex with humping movements but she just didn’t want it inside her. After a few more orgasms etc and some chatting, she says how she still feels just so comfortable with me, and I start bringing up the topic of places she’s had sex, she says car and shower and we discuss sex positions like lifting the girl up against the wall, which she loves.
Staying on this topic, we decide to shower together. It was fun, the entire time she was saying how ‘hot’ I was and many sexual acts were performed. We come out, chill and chat some more, then she wants me to tie her up and turn her on hard.
I went full out - she loves dirty talk? She got dirty talk, I tied her and blindfolded her with my scarf and teased the shit out of her. I’ve never had a girl so ramped up, on the brink of absolutely exploding. Licking and teasing her, whispering in her ear how hard I’d fuck her. She loves it. If this couldn’t convince her, I was out of ideas.
But still said no sex.
Fuck. Sake.
I was out. I accepted the fact it wasn’t going to happene, licked her out and made her orgasm unbelievably hard and after chilling a bit after, I headed home as I had to get up for the hospital in the morning and she had her flight.
And that’s it. Part of me thinks it’s all to do with my vibe. I used to be the absolute white knight guy, and I’ve moved away from that a lot now, but maybe too much. Maybe I’m too lover type.
She’s trying to make me a provider even though she knows it’s not going to happen due to where we live. So she doesn’t want to sleep with me so she still holds something over me. Next time I see her, I still haven’t ‘conquered’ her in her eyes. She still holds something over me. But when I made her cum, she screams out “Why are you so perfect?!” so I kind of get confused haha!
A few are probably thinking why I didn’t just shove my dick in her, but one thing I aim to be and one thing I believe this site teaches extremely well is being a Gentlemen. Shoving my dick in her when it’s something she didn’t necessarily want wholeheartedly could have bad consequences - for how she sees me, her trust in men and she could even turn it into rape (worst case).
We've been texting still, now she's back in Germany and she misses me a lot. This might turn into a long-distance fuckbuddy thing, I have no idea. But I'm keeping neutral and going to try and keep her interest up over the next month or two until there's more of an opportunity to see her.
But overall I’m quite happy. I really wasn't expecting this and the Law of Least Effort is a wonderful thing as I did absolutely NOTHING. The beginning of February is my year anniversary of losing my virginity and although I would have liked to have gotten another lay this month (there’s still time!), getting 5 lays in my first year is pretty satisfying and I aim to hit 20 by the end of the year (yup, trying to step things up a bit).
Would really appreciate feedback on this situation as I had another LMR case a few months back that I still can’t get my head around. (viewtopic.php?f=5&t=12065&p=60924#p60924)
So some light being shed may sort this all out.
Cheers
- JP
