Gentlemen,
This isn't going to be a long post, as all the work had already been done. For those of you who have read my 'LR-' on the situation (viewtopic.php?f=5&t=12861&p=65809&hilit=german#p65809), you may remember how she said in a letter how she wanted to visit me.
As I told you on FaceTime I would come over for a weekend in February if you'd want to see me again. The flights are really cheap right now and I guess I made a point why I would come visit you, BUT! I do understand if you do not feel comfortable with that thought - this is totally fine and understandable. I guess I would be the same and it would make me really nervous if you'd wanted to visit me now. If you would want it, tell me, it not, just don't talk about it at all.
Well, this weekend she stayed with me (from Saturday to Wednesday morning) and we slept with each other multiple times. She said how she'd been looking forward to sleeping with me and had held off masturbating for 2 weeks before hand. We didn't show any real affection when we were out and about, but lots of sex when at home. At one point we decided to tie her up AND watch porn at the same time. A first for both of us. I also sorted out the problem of not being able to sleep in the same bed as a girl by using two duvets. Happy days.
Anyway, just wanted to let you know that sprezzatura and Law of Least Effort are real. I barely did anything for this girl and she just came to me and actually fell for me quite hard. When she sent me the letter, I told her the choice of coming to stay with me was hers. I didn't think she would, but only two days after I told her that, she booked flights. I have no idea when I'll see her next - she even said, "Maybe this is it forever and ever". I never want anything serious with this girl, but a long-distance fuckbuddy seems to be the situation right now.
And I was right when I said she was lying about having sex with less than 10 guys. I found out I'm #12 for her whilst she's my sixth. Also found out that masturbating once a week to porn has made me far better in bed than I was after my 3 month NoFap experiment. This weekend, I lasted between 30-50 minutes every time.
I'm going to have my head back down in University stuff for the next 2-3 weeks, then I should be back on the boards more regularly with bigger and better content.
Cheers
- JP
This isn't going to be a long post, as all the work had already been done. For those of you who have read my 'LR-' on the situation (viewtopic.php?f=5&t=12861&p=65809&hilit=german#p65809), you may remember how she said in a letter how she wanted to visit me.
As I told you on FaceTime I would come over for a weekend in February if you'd want to see me again. The flights are really cheap right now and I guess I made a point why I would come visit you, BUT! I do understand if you do not feel comfortable with that thought - this is totally fine and understandable. I guess I would be the same and it would make me really nervous if you'd wanted to visit me now. If you would want it, tell me, it not, just don't talk about it at all.
Well, this weekend she stayed with me (from Saturday to Wednesday morning) and we slept with each other multiple times. She said how she'd been looking forward to sleeping with me and had held off masturbating for 2 weeks before hand. We didn't show any real affection when we were out and about, but lots of sex when at home. At one point we decided to tie her up AND watch porn at the same time. A first for both of us. I also sorted out the problem of not being able to sleep in the same bed as a girl by using two duvets. Happy days.
Anyway, just wanted to let you know that sprezzatura and Law of Least Effort are real. I barely did anything for this girl and she just came to me and actually fell for me quite hard. When she sent me the letter, I told her the choice of coming to stay with me was hers. I didn't think she would, but only two days after I told her that, she booked flights. I have no idea when I'll see her next - she even said, "Maybe this is it forever and ever". I never want anything serious with this girl, but a long-distance fuckbuddy seems to be the situation right now.
And I was right when I said she was lying about having sex with less than 10 guys. I found out I'm #12 for her whilst she's my sixth. Also found out that masturbating once a week to porn has made me far better in bed than I was after my 3 month NoFap experiment. This weekend, I lasted between 30-50 minutes every time.
I'm going to have my head back down in University stuff for the next 2-3 weeks, then I should be back on the boards more regularly with bigger and better content.
Cheers
- JP
