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Hey friends,
Here's a tactic that's served me well over the past few weeks.
You know when you make a call to a girl, probably everyone's heard the advice to stand up straight to ensure you're not cramping your diaphragm, maybe pace around a little to maintain a tone of relaxation—more or less as you would for a phone interview?
Well, that's okay and uncontroversial, but I've discovered that something else works better for me. Doesn't matter whether it's the first phone call to a girl after you met, or a post-date follow-up to figure out next steps. It seems to work particularly well if you're calling in the evening. Here's what I do:
Lie in bed, flat on your back, snuggle up and pretend she's right there with you.
For me: instant gravelly voice, purr, everything slows down, no rushed answers, lots of listening, tension-inducing pauses... it all comes naturally. And the female party is giggling and using "smiley-voice" and flirting right back at ya!
-Marty
Here's a tactic that's served me well over the past few weeks.
You know when you make a call to a girl, probably everyone's heard the advice to stand up straight to ensure you're not cramping your diaphragm, maybe pace around a little to maintain a tone of relaxation—more or less as you would for a phone interview?
Well, that's okay and uncontroversial, but I've discovered that something else works better for me. Doesn't matter whether it's the first phone call to a girl after you met, or a post-date follow-up to figure out next steps. It seems to work particularly well if you're calling in the evening. Here's what I do:
Lie in bed, flat on your back, snuggle up and pretend she's right there with you.
For me: instant gravelly voice, purr, everything slows down, no rushed answers, lots of listening, tension-inducing pauses... it all comes naturally. And the female party is giggling and using "smiley-voice" and flirting right back at ya!
-Marty
