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I know Blonde is just a hair color like red or brown but I think having spent enough time out there in the field (most of us), you guys know what I am getting at. Whenever you go to a college campus like Arizona St or University of Florida, it is like most of the girls there have dyed their hair blonde to pull off the cheerleader look. Some of the best looking girls are in sororities and they are usually blonde as well.
And after traveling I have noticed it is more of a fashion statement these days, girls get their bodies fit, get a tan, and dye their hair light blond to look attractive.
Any upscale neighborhood I have been to was split between attractive blondes and attractive brunettes but I found that the hottest girl that turned heads was typically a blonde. I also read somewhere that men might say they prefer brunettes for relationships but for one night stands, blondes are the most chased after and typically considered the most attractive.
In all of my years of doing approaches, I would say the attractive blondes or blondes that fit the stereotypical look (tans, light blond hair, aviator sunglasses, and the whole barbie look going for them) are probably the most difficult kind of women to get with. The guys I know who have had a lot of success with Blondes were either very good looking, rich and well established, and definitely had some status. From approaching all kinds of women, I would say these kinds of women are hands down my weak point and most guys I have talked to from all kinds of backgrounds (white to black to asian) have had issues with these kinds of women, I am a Caucasian male with above average looks having some issues.
When I look around I typically see these women with rich guys or very handsome guys. Most of the times these are the women going for the highest status guy in society which I am trying to be but that is going to take a bit more time. Going out to bars, clubs, and concerts I see more and more of these kinds of women, I try my luck anyways but still have a few limiting beliefs (I am not good enough or high status enough for her) because I keep thinking how a woman like this would give me a chance when she has so many high status guys to pick from.
I know the generic advice would to be to approach them like any other kind of women and I have done that but it's like a part of me keeps saying they are different. It is because a lot of my friends have said the same thing and found these women difficult to attract and not to mention here in Western society we do kind of pedestalize them. I say this as a man who has been with a brunette that modeled, an Asian-White mixed girl that turned heads, and a redhead that was very attractive.
Have any of you managed to do well with attractive blondes?
And after traveling I have noticed it is more of a fashion statement these days, girls get their bodies fit, get a tan, and dye their hair light blond to look attractive.
Any upscale neighborhood I have been to was split between attractive blondes and attractive brunettes but I found that the hottest girl that turned heads was typically a blonde. I also read somewhere that men might say they prefer brunettes for relationships but for one night stands, blondes are the most chased after and typically considered the most attractive.
In all of my years of doing approaches, I would say the attractive blondes or blondes that fit the stereotypical look (tans, light blond hair, aviator sunglasses, and the whole barbie look going for them) are probably the most difficult kind of women to get with. The guys I know who have had a lot of success with Blondes were either very good looking, rich and well established, and definitely had some status. From approaching all kinds of women, I would say these kinds of women are hands down my weak point and most guys I have talked to from all kinds of backgrounds (white to black to asian) have had issues with these kinds of women, I am a Caucasian male with above average looks having some issues.
When I look around I typically see these women with rich guys or very handsome guys. Most of the times these are the women going for the highest status guy in society which I am trying to be but that is going to take a bit more time. Going out to bars, clubs, and concerts I see more and more of these kinds of women, I try my luck anyways but still have a few limiting beliefs (I am not good enough or high status enough for her) because I keep thinking how a woman like this would give me a chance when she has so many high status guys to pick from.
I know the generic advice would to be to approach them like any other kind of women and I have done that but it's like a part of me keeps saying they are different. It is because a lot of my friends have said the same thing and found these women difficult to attract and not to mention here in Western society we do kind of pedestalize them. I say this as a man who has been with a brunette that modeled, an Asian-White mixed girl that turned heads, and a redhead that was very attractive.
Have any of you managed to do well with attractive blondes?
