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So I was following the following guide https://www.girlschase.com/content/ultim ... ack?page=2 and managed to get the girl's interest level back to a decent level prior to her starting to act cold and distant towards me because I fucked up by not kissing her when I had the chance a few months ago. I stopped texting her and we both went no contact for 3 weeks, she stopped calling me and I never called her again. at school, I was polite and sometimes made small chit chat but I didn't chase. Also I was flirting big time with other girls in my class. I noticed after she saw me having fun with another girl in my lab 2 days ago when I was partnering with that other girl ( we used to be practice together and be partners, until she went and found someone else after I fucked up) she came right up to me and asked me if I wanted to practice with her. I acted like I didn't care and told her sure she can practice with me and the other girl. After she saw me comment on that other girls facebook, I instantly get a text from her within 1 minute after my comment, asking me about stuff. Anyways yesterday she was being very playful and punching me, shoulder bumping me, and calling me an asshole when I met up with her to practice. She started to text me more often and even started to call me again, which she stopped doing after 2 months now since that incident where I fucked up on our date. Anyways today, we all found the results of our test, and she failed her test. She called me and was all upset and stuff, and I tried to comfort her for a few minutes. Then I asked her out saying I'm going to go take you somewhere fun to help you relieve all this stress and anger. I probably shouldn't have done that yet. My initial plan was to wait a few more days then ask her out to something after we're done practicing like for coffee or something to catch up since we haven't really talked in a while. Anyways she initially agreed, then 5 minutes before we're suppose to meet up, she texts and cancels it saying, sorry she can't make it, she has ballroom dance lessons later. This really bummed me out. Instead of taking a few minutes to let my composure return, I stupidly try to text her back to rationalize with her and I end it by saying "but ok". Anyways she didn't reply back. I feel like complete shit right now. I know I blew it a few months ago, when I didn't try to man up and try to kiss her, but I thought I could redeem myself if I could only get her out.
Right now I don't even know what to do anymore. Should I just act normal with her again tomorrow when I see her in class (BTW she's in all my classes, and I basically see her everyday) or should I just stop paying her much attention and be polite but not waste anymore energy on her? To help get my mind back on track, I have recently started to talk to another girl in my class and even got her number. This is the same girl I mentioned in my above paragraph who I started to practice with. I have been practicing with her lately and she seems like a cool chick, however I still like this one girl. Do you think I should flirt with the other girl and just ignore this girl? Also if this girl starts calling or texting me how should I respond or should I even bother responding at all? I know I messed up but I really want to make things right and redeem myself with this one girl. Is there anything I can do?
Right now I don't even know what to do anymore. Should I just act normal with her again tomorrow when I see her in class (BTW she's in all my classes, and I basically see her everyday) or should I just stop paying her much attention and be polite but not waste anymore energy on her? To help get my mind back on track, I have recently started to talk to another girl in my class and even got her number. This is the same girl I mentioned in my above paragraph who I started to practice with. I have been practicing with her lately and she seems like a cool chick, however I still like this one girl. Do you think I should flirt with the other girl and just ignore this girl? Also if this girl starts calling or texting me how should I respond or should I even bother responding at all? I know I messed up but I really want to make things right and redeem myself with this one girl. Is there anything I can do?
