Hey all,
I've been out of the game for a few years now(marriage, hardcore career), but just started getting back in a few weeks ago and landed a girl I was really interested in. We hook up for a quickie in the back of the car and as I'm stripping off clothes, I realize my hard on is completely gone! I actually panicked internally because i have never had this problem. This caught me totally off guard and obviously killed the situation. She was nice about it but it but this of course destroyed my value. I'm pretty sure that having sex with someone else late the night before, getting four hours of sleep, and rushing from a stressful job meeting to meet her effected me, I can deal with that. But if the girl hasn't totally written me off, how should I go about recovering?
I've been out of the game for a few years now(marriage, hardcore career), but just started getting back in a few weeks ago and landed a girl I was really interested in. We hook up for a quickie in the back of the car and as I'm stripping off clothes, I realize my hard on is completely gone! I actually panicked internally because i have never had this problem. This caught me totally off guard and obviously killed the situation. She was nice about it but it but this of course destroyed my value. I'm pretty sure that having sex with someone else late the night before, getting four hours of sleep, and rushing from a stressful job meeting to meet her effected me, I can deal with that. But if the girl hasn't totally written me off, how should I go about recovering?