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getting back in the game, Lost it, recovery options?

natedawg

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Hey all,

I've been out of the game for a few years now(marriage, hardcore career), but just started getting back in a few weeks ago and landed a girl I was really interested in. We hook up for a quickie in the back of the car and as I'm stripping off clothes, I realize my hard on is completely gone! I actually panicked internally because i have never had this problem. This caught me totally off guard and obviously killed the situation. She was nice about it but it but this of course destroyed my value. I'm pretty sure that having sex with someone else late the night before, getting four hours of sleep, and rushing from a stressful job meeting to meet her effected me, I can deal with that. But if the girl hasn't totally written me off, how should I go about recovering?
 
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Saddle

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Hey Natedawg. I hear ya man. Timing is everything. Happens to the best of us. Maybe not the back seat of the car, but pick another place and I guarantee its happened. The timing sucked this time, but hey, women encounter this stuff too on their own end. At least some in my age bracket do. You didn't say how old you were. My advice would be to move forward and follow up with a text. But I'm gonna let some of the more experienced guys on the boards share their wisdom on crafting that text.
 

natedawg

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Thanks for the feedback Saddle. I'm 36 btw. I guess this is a general question on how to recover from an embarrassing screwup. I have since been friend zoned, which I politely conveyed that I don't play the "just friends" game. She was actually a bit upset over hearing that so im just not sure of her intentions. No contact for the last few days. I am moving on of course but I liked this girl and want to make it work if possible. I'm not going to chase but I also don't want to be forgotten. I see her about once a month regardless as she works In the salon I go to. Advice would be outstanding, thanks!
 
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