Getting Laid & finding Girlfriend in High School

[Corazon]

Hey Guys

I need some advice and help on my current situation:

I've read most of the GC articles by now so recently I had the thought that I could start learning Cold Approach. I was very unsuccessful till now and I managed to find some of the big issues I have:

• I'm 16 years old and look like a little teenager (no facial hair yet), so it is pretty awkward to make direct openers to older women
• I don't have my own place yet, so after I got my first phone number I just felt like there's no possibility to get any further
• I'm still a virgin and sexually unexperienced

So yeah the solution I found best is this:

I focus my energy on finding a girlfriend around my age. Then I'll get some sexual experience with her and after some time we can break up. After that I continue with learning cold approach. The problem with having my own place will take care of itself after some time... (or so I hope)

Now to the find a girlfriend and get laid part; here's where I need Your help!

I'm just returned to my country from a year studying abroad so my class will be totally new to me and the social circle's in there will already be established. How do I merge myself into an already existing social circle?

And I would like to have another option to find girls around my age (14-16). Which places are likely to have a good amount of those girls? I live in Zurich, Switzerland (just in case that helps).

And my last question is this: Is there anything different in approaching girls in high school, or just generally around the age of 14-16? Like should I only approach indirect, or move slower or something like this?

Thanks a lot ) and sorry for my bad english haha (hope you understand everything)

Corazon

 

[ray_zorse]

Hey mate

Don't forget the grass is always greener on the other side -- when I was 16 I spent my time fervently wishing I would quickly grow up to an adult, for a lot of the same reasons you state -- I was embarrassed to bring girls home because I wasn't comfortable with being a sexual man, thought my family would tease me etc... was too shy to ask girls out in case my ego got hurt by rejection (I thought my ego woukd be stronger when I got older and more experienced... well it wasn't)... seems so ridiculous now, if I could have one wish it would be to go back and do it right, smash those limiting beliefs from the outset instead of carrying them for another 22yrs before deciding to do anything about it!

Hit up cold approach, it won't be any easier later! Check out Lowes' journal, he went out for the first time the other day and spoke to at least 3 or 4 women, some of them hot, mostly didn't get past hello, or quickly got shy and asked a random question and ejected... but, he's a step closer to having sexy women in his bed, and for that reason he's counting the day a success. SHIT YEAH! Very inspiring!!

When I was 16 kids used to hang out in a shopping centre, the most popular one is called Chadstone and is massive (parking for thousands of cars, buses to and from every conceivable place... it has movie theatres, skate shops, video/music stores, soda fountains, food courts, McDonalds, etc, I am sure there is a place like this near you. You'll see groups of 16yo girls everywhere... choose a small group, like a pair, walk up to the girl you like and say "hi there, you are cute, what are you up to today?"... no fancy techniques required, she's just bored and meeting her friend cos nothing better to do. You can then suggest some activity like listen to some music in the music store (if it has listening booths) or just getting a Coke or whatever.

My son is 8, I will def be taking him to Chaddy when his balls drop, I'll just show him what to do and then chat up some yummy mummies while he does his thing, haha. Note also that 14~16yo girls are highly sexual and receptive, I have some of my best convo with them, I always sexually tease and they don't eject, they enjoy the attention and flirting, if they're down for a 39yo man who isn't sexually available (to them), think how much happier they'd be with a 16yo they can date without being shamed, bring home to mum, etc.

IMO that's the best way to get a GF, also to destroy limiting beliefs so when you hit up the new high school you'll be in the mindset of just introducing yourself to whoever, asking about themselves and making friends. Kill it my brother

Ray

 

[Corazon]

@ray_zorse

thanks for the inspiring response!!

i've also read Lowes' journal and it helped me a lot.

i've tried the shopping mall too but the problem i encountered was that none of the girls around my age were on their own. and for me the pressure of approaching a group is 10 times bigger than just approaching someone by herself.

so let me rephrase my second question: are there any places i can find 14-16 year old girls who are there by themselves?

and yeah thanks again ray, your words really gave me a new view of the things out there and best luck to your son haha



Cora