Getting too aroused too soon. . .

[Black]

I think I have a problem. hahaha

I'm regularly getting murderous erections in situations like:

- making out
- that "omg, it's on" moment in physical escalation with a new girl
- sex talk

. . .by the time we get to foreplay im about to explode and needless to say I don't last at all at "the first go".
Also it's uncomfortable walking around with an erection, it looks silly - and I don't wanna imagine if the girl is still undecided and happens to notice. . .

In past years, I'd just get it out of the way with a quick blow job and go on for a second or third. . .
. . . but lately logistics are not so comfortable to spend a lot of time, have plenty of condoms, etc. . .
. . .and also it's harder for me to persevere since i lowered my standards for the sake of reference points (so I'm not so horny/motivated to pursue good sex after a while).

Any tips? Is it supposed to go away by going through the process multiple times?

 

[Whizzy]

Try thinking about something else than the escalation when it is happening, anything works for the most part as long as it relieves a bit of pressure down there. Heck, people use to say picturing a rock in their head would help and it would work sometimes since brain then demanded blood the dick was trying to take. Thus, not allowing themselves to become too aroused

 

[Man-O]

Aw man. I got the opposite, even when I've abstained from masturbation for a few days. A girl has to touch me directly on D or something. Else I have to kind of force it