Getting women that live far away

[VanBeet]

Hello,

I am new to the forum and have to say i appreciate all the contributions.

The challenge i often find myself is the topic i didn't notice being mentioned anywhere: it is how to handle women that don't live near by you. Situation goes like this: you meet a woman, hit it off, have good time. She says she wants to meet again, gives you her number, she is responsive etc... But there is like 200km of distance barrier between you too.

Problem is, if you go all this way just for date, that seems too eager move and also makes a lot of pressure on both of you. You also don't know her too well, so it is probably not convenient to suggest a daytrip. Building rapport over text is also not the best move as we know it. Or what do you think, what is your perspective on this? Am i just making too many excuses ?

Do you have some good ideas, experiences or suggestions for that kind of long distance situations?


VanBeet

 

[JacobPalmer]

Honestly I think that is way too far to put any effort in so I would focus more on girls who are closer to you.

That being said, if you do want to pursue her, make her be the one to come to you. You can frame it as she'll travel but you'll buy drinks etc. That's fair. Because your time is more valuable than hers.

 

[Fuck This]

Distance is a reason to have a SNL.

"What if I never get to see you again? I'd always wonder what it would be like..."

Women can rationalize that a long distance between you insulates her reputation being damaged from a one night stand. I know in more than a few cases my ONS's they wanted to get laid and I provided a discrete and distant way to do it. Kind of like a real "One time offer, now or never, don't regret missing out on this kind of EXPERIENCE..."

the 100 mile ruleis a corollary to that. Don't mention it specifically but it does register with women.

 

[tocnaza]

the forum has changed the name? girls chase?

 

[DoWhatWorks]

Hello,

I am new to the forum and have to say i appreciate all the contributions.

The challenge i often find myself is the topic i didn't notice being mentioned anywhere: it is how to handle women that don't live near by you. Situation goes like this: you meet a woman, hit it off, have good time. She says she wants to meet again, gives you her number, she is responsive etc... But there is like 200km of distance barrier between you too.

Problem is, if you go all this way just for date, that seems too eager move and also makes a lot of pressure on both of you. You also don't know her too well, so it is probably not convenient to suggest a daytrip. Building rapport over text is also not the best move as we know it. Or what do you think, what is your perspective on this? Am i just making too many excuses ?

Do you have some good ideas, experiences or suggestions for that kind of long distance situations?


VanBeet

This is a personal decision but for me it’s not worth engaging in long distance. Enjoy the charming moment you shared with a stranger then move on.

Your time’s better spent finding woman closer to you. That’s the real reason you don’t see this much in forums.

The exception is her coming to you which you can pull of if you live in a cooler place than her.

More importantly this is about you respecting yourself and your time. Do you think the top tier man that (you are hopefully) striving to be would spend 1/2 hours travelling to meet a stranger when there are plenty of attractive girls on his doorstep?

 

[Razorjack]

I've been with quite a few women that lived far away, even in different countries.

All depends on your lifestyle. I personally travelled a LOT and enjoyed it. But this may not be your thing.

The great thing about getting together with women who live far away is guaranteed sex on the first "date"!

I always met these women in "neutral" places (not my or her city/country). I live in country A, she lives in country B, but we would both travel to country C for the week / weekend. I would often pay a bit extra for an upscale luxury hotel, but that's just what I personally enjoyed and would've done even if I was travelling alone. The hotels also would help in creating a "romantic getaway"

The point is that doing it this way, you would be with her for an entire week / weekend in the same hotel room. And if you do a bit of research about the city you 2 will travel to, you can figure out all the great places to go to for whatever adventures you feel like.

Women can lose all inhibitions when they feel like they are on "vacation", talking wild sex multiple times a day, going out to pick up other women cuz she's never "done it" before and curious etc.

 

[tocnaza]

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