GF has guy friends

[Corsica]

When I first started dating this girl, she would mention how she was hanging out with other guys. It seemed like she was just trying to keep me interested so I would just shrug it off and act like I don't care. However, as things get more serious does there come a time when you have to tell her that's not okay?

Things have gotten more serious recently, but she'll still bring up how she went out to lunch or dinner with a guy friend. I honestly don't care because she really likes me and I don't feel threatened. It seems she just wants to see if I'll get jealous. Anyway how do you transition from not caring to caring? Or do you ever have to care?

 

[Motiv]

My personal take on this would be to remain aloof. Honestly, as long as you don't actually feel threatened (and you shouldn't), just do your best to not let her feel a hint of concern. Consider this a test of your masculinity. You can always replace her if she really does something to hurt you.

-MP

 

[Franco]

Corsica,

Things have gotten more serious recently, but she'll still bring up how she went out to lunch or dinner with a guy friend.

If she's even bringing it up, then that's a good sign. It can mean that she trusts you to not get jealous, or it can mean she's trying to make you jealous. Either way, it's a win-win situation for you, so you have nothing to worry about.

It's when a girl doesn't tell you that she's hanging out with guys (and is suddenly busy pretty often and hanging out with you less) that you need to maybe start worrying. It can indicate that she might be going behind your back. Of course, if you're running your relationship very well and giving her an orgasmic time in the bedroom, you can greatly minimize the chances of something like this ever happening. =)

- Franco